Spankings

[Shadowsdream]

she paced the hardwood floor in sweet anticipation
of the spanking she knew she had earned with behavior
that her Mistress found deplorable. suzans brattyness
often brought her over the knee of discipline and she
knew that pain and pleasure would mix her emotions
this day. her silken lingerie only accented her beauty
and vulnerability....

what could suzan have possible done to deserve a spanking based on Y/your own experiences with bad behaviour?

 

[spankableBelle]

she paced the hardwood floor in sweet anticipation
of the spanking she knew she had earned with behavior
that her Mistress found deplorable. suzans brattyness
often brought her over the knee of discipline and she
knew that pain and pleasure would mix her emotions
this day. her silken lingerie only accented her beauty
and vulnerability....

what could suzan have possible done to deserve a spanking based on Y/your own experiences with bad behaviour?

i don't have any experiences like this...yet...i don't doubt that they're coming as Soron and i go deeper into this and my limits get pushed, etc...

but, in my opinion, these are some things that i have to watch out for regarding my own behaviour...

sarcasm...smart mouthed comments...mimicking her Mistress...being disrespectful about her Mistress to others...being disrespectful in front of others...questioning her Mistress about EVERYTHING, questioning the control with actions and with words, in private or in front of others...whining...temper tantrums...airing dirty laundry to others...

Although, it's entirely possible that i've missed the whole concept of this question... Wouldn't be the first time for me around here lately...

belle

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: Re: Spankings

i don't have any experiences like this...yet...i don't doubt that they're coming as Soron and i go deeper into this and my limits get pushed, etc...

but, in my opinion, these are some things that i have to watch out for regarding my own behaviour...

sarcasm...smart mouthed comments...mimicking her Mistress...being disrespectful about her Mistress to others...being disrespectful in front of others...questioning her Mistress about EVERYTHING, questioning the control with actions and with words, in private or in front of others...whining...temper tantrums...airing dirty laundry to others...

Although, it's entirely possible that i've missed the whole concept of this question... Wouldn't be the first time for me around here lately...

belle

belle there is no right or wrong answer but all of the above would definately have My sub over My knee with the result of the hotest ass in history and the pleasure she thought would come indircetly would be a fantasy she would never experience...

Thank you for participating and not looking for a cute answer past an honest question.

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: Re: Re: Spankings

belle there is no right or wrong answer but all of the above would definately have My sub over My knee with the result of the hotest ass in history and the pleasure she thought would come indircetly would be a fantasy she would never experience...

Thank you for participating and not looking for a cute answer past an honest question.

Thank You, Ma'am ~smile~

 

[lost]

forgetting to pick him up at work

 

[Shadowsdream]

forgetting to pick him up at work

A perfect example for a spanking that would never be forgotten...a * you won't sit down for days* kind of event!

Thank you lost for joining in this new conversation..I look forward to getting to know you much better

 

[lilfrk]

saying No

 

[Shadowsdream]

saying No

The BIGGEST 2 letter word in the dictionary...WOW that really impressed Me as for some reason I didn't see it coming! Damn I thought I saw everything coming!

Thank you sooo much for the BIG surprise and giving me a laugh on Myself!

 

[Desdemona]

So far, I've only had "fun" spankings. I have nothing to add so I'll just mark this thread and see what I learn.

 

[Shadowsdream]

So far, I've only had "fun" spankings. I have nothing to add so I'll just mark this thread and see what I learn.

I just bet you will have something to add sooner than you think!

Thank you for joining the conversation ane I look forward to watching you continue to grow from what you read here at Lit

 

[cellis]

Perhaps it was because she second guess her Mistress and questioned her about a certain situation... doubted her....


or


Perhaps she was not honest about her feelings and behaved badly rather than discuss honestly what she was feeling.



I always love your threads....

 

[WillowPuss]

she paced the hardwood floor in sweet anticipation
of the spanking she knew she had earned with behavior
that her Mistress found deplorable. suzans brattyness
often brought her over the knee of discipline and she
knew that pain and pleasure would mix her emotions
this day. her silken lingerie only accented her beauty
and vulnerability....

what could suzan have possible done to deserve a spanking based on Y/your own experiences with bad behaviour?

hmmmmm
and wow ...

OK - what could earn Your displeasure?

- constant disregard for Your instructions (You have stated previously that you deplore the waste of energy it takes to have to repeat Yourself)

- speaking in a 'tone' that is disrespectful. You do not mind being asked questions from one who is willing to learn but deplore a disrespectful tone.

- disobeying one of the rules. This could possibly be not keeping herself shaved, or maybe pleasuring herself with no regard for Your pleasure.

- being disresectful of You in front of guests and friends. I should imagine that You would not tolerate such behaviour from one who has offered You her submissiveness.

- arguing for argument's sake. Again, I cannot see You or any true Dom/me putting up with that sort of behaviour.

- questioning Your word or method with others rather than asking You respectfully to explain something if she truly did not understand.

- failing to carry out tasks, well within her capabilities, that You have set. You do not set tasks just for the sake of something to do.

- carrying out her set duties in a slipshod manner - I should imagine that You would not allow slipshod work to go unpunnished.


Actually - reading what I have written, I have echoed belle somewhat.
I will have to think of more and come back.

 

[lilfrk]

The BIGGEST 2 letter word in the dictionary...WOW that really impressed Me as for some reason I didn't see it coming! Damn I thought I saw everything coming!

Thank you sooo much for the BIG surprise and giving me a laugh on Myself!

you're welcome

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: Re: Spankings

Actually - reading what I have written, I have echoed belle somewhat.
I will have to think of more and come back.

i do not mind being echoed...it's very nice sometimes knowing that i am on the same wavelength with others...

 

[Shadowsdream]

Perhaps it was because she second guess her Mistress and questioned her about a certain situation... doubted her....


or


Perhaps she was not honest about her feelings and behaved badly rather than discuss honestly what she was feeling.



I always love your threads....

Thank you for participating cellis and sharing those possibilities with Me. I can see how easily suzan could be getting herself into an over the knee unpleasantness with that attitude...I will have to think very carefully about the right amount of correction for this behaviour. ~~~smile~~

 

[Soron]

Setting the record straight

I tend to look at spankings, especially hand to ass spankings, as enjoyment.

However, I do have a paddle that I am not opposed to using. And belle can be rest assured I do know how to use it.

Any kind of disrespect will prompt me to tell her to go get my paddle. And, I do push limits with it if I need to get my point across.

Having said that, belle has given me no reason as yet to even asking for that paddle. She, so far anyway, has given me every indication she won't be feeling that paddle on her ass for punishment or discipline.

 

[WillowPuss]

Re: Re: Re: Spankings

i do not mind being echoed...it's very nice sometimes knowing that i am on the same wavelength with others...

belle - very often you are on the same wavelength ... believe me!

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: Re: Spankings

hmmmmm
and wow ...

OK - what could earn Your displeasure?

- constant disregard for Your instructions (You have stated previously that you deplore the waste of energy it takes to have to repeat Yourself)

- speaking in a 'tone' that is disrespectful. You do not mind being asked questions from one who is willing to learn but deplore a disrespectful tone.

- disobeying one of the rules. This could possibly be not keeping herself shaved, or maybe pleasuring herself with no regard for Your pleasure.

- being disresectful of You in front of guests and friends. I should imagine that You would not tolerate such behaviour from one who has offered You her submissiveness.

- arguing for argument's sake. Again, I cannot see You or any true Dom/me putting up with that sort of behaviour.

- questioning Your word or method with others rather than asking You respectfully to explain something if she truly did not understand.

- failing to carry out tasks, well within her capabilities, that You have set. You do not set tasks just for the sake of something to do.

- carrying out her set duties in a slipshod manner - I should imagine that You would not allow slipshod work to go unpunnished.


Actually - reading what I have written, I have echoed belle somewhat.
I will have to think of more and come back.

~

you have read Me very well willow...I detest wasting My time repeating Myself, disrespect and talking the talk but not walking the walk...so lets assume I am suzans Mistress of the moment! I did say moment didn't I?...Since you have all given Me many reasons to give her a well deserved spanking I should give you all a glimpse inside the moment at My hands...
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" I won't begin with the ~this will hurt Me more than you~
cliche....for it will not, " she was told with firmness, " I am
disappointed in your continual disrespectful behavior." The
Mistress lifted the hemline of the short slip gown that shone
in the candle lit room, exposing panties already moist with
the pent up need to submit.
With a firm yet gentle hand She stroked the perfect butt of
the woman She adored as She cautioned of the pain to come.
suzan clung her Mistress's calves as she prepared herself for
what she knew would be a lesson well learned. she cringed as
she felt the first soft slap which was the preparation for her
reality. One after another soft blows rained upon the derriere
that seemed to beg for more. The Domme lowered the panties
and continued Her gentle assault of Domination knowing
cruelty held no place in this rebuke. A pink blush stained the
butt of Her submissive before She bent to lay Her lips upon
the heat caressing a response of passion and moans of pleasure.
" I think not My beauty, " the Domme laughed gleelessly in disapproval, " no treats for bad girls this day."
"you may have a stunning beauty and a passion that matches My own but My desires to see you at My feet have been tinged with disappoinment." "you will not play Me for the fool that Dominates you for your pleasure, yet I am not unreasonable." seethed the Mistress of control. "One last chance to show a submission that backs up your pretty words."
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this conversation now hits phase two if you will....any ideas how suzan can redeem herself..or if she wished to say kiss my ass how will she do it and move on?

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: Setting the record straight

I tend to look at spankings, especially hand to ass spankings, as enjoyment.

However, I do have a paddle that I am not opposed to using. And belle can be rest assured I do know how to use it.

Any kind of disrespect will prompt me to tell her to go get my paddle. And, I do push limits with it if I need to get my point across.

Having said that, belle has given me no reason as yet to even asking for that paddle. She, so far anyway, has given me every indication she won't be feeling that paddle on her ass for punishment or discipline.

Congratulations on the journey Y/you two have begun in mutual respect. I believe I can see that belle has already understood there is more pleasure in pleasing You than disappointing You.

Thank You so much for participating in this conversation as all sides have so much valuable insight that will encourage growth and ...shhhhhhh..even give Me some new evil ideas if I get really lucky!

 

[mskittykatt]

i'm thinking i should bite my tongue but i just have to share the twisted things going on in my head before they just fall out somewhere rather inconvienent.

i'd say a few hours volunteering at an old folks home - playing cards or checkers *having* to listen and show respect would be good practice... and for the sake of applying that to her own everyday life - i'd send her with uncomfortable "grandma" panties so with every movement she felt the constrictions she put on herself with her disrespect.

 

[Shadowsdream]

i'm thinking i should bite my tongue but i just have to share the twisted things going on in my head before they just fall out somewhere rather inconvienent.

i'd say a few hours volunteering at an old folks home - playing cards or checkers *having* to listen and show respect would be good practice... and for the sake of applying that to her own everyday life - i'd send her with uncomfortable "grandma" panties so with every movement she felt the constrictions she put on herself with her disrespect.

Thank god you didn't bite your tongue..you would have deprived U/us all of such a wonderful punishment. Well thought out and completely out of the realm of the usual residual BDSM pain/pleasure routine.

I truly do appreciate your participation in this conversation and hope to see you pop in often to share your creativity.

 

[mskittykatt]

i guess my approach to things is coloured by the fact that i do enjoy physical pain... it's the emotional and psychological pain that gets and holds my attention - knowing i've displeased my Dom and watching that look creep over his features is far more painful then a spanking could be.
raising my kids, and taking an active part in my neice and nephews lives has driven home the fact that if the punishment does fit the crime so to speak it usually makes a good and lasting impact.

so - trouble with respect means finding a way to show her *how* *why* and *when* it is appropriate.

but i grow to serious here - that's why i try to keep my mouth shut...

 

[Shadowsdream]

i guess my approach to things is coloured by the fact that i do enjoy physical pain... it's the emotional and psychological pain that gets and holds my attention - knowing i've displeased my Dom and watching that look creep over his features is far more painful then a spanking could be.
raising my kids, and taking an active part in my neice and nephews lives has driven home the fact that if the punishment does fit the crime so to speak it usually makes a good and lasting impact.

so - trouble with respect means finding a way to show her *how* *why* and *when* it is appropriate.

but i grow to serious here - that's why i try to keep my mouth shut...

Never allow seriousness to stop your posts in My threads...there is always an underlying tone of seriousness for that is where the journey into and out of BDSM originates...respect can never be taken lightly..nor can disrespect..if it is not learnable it becomes a pointless relationship. Sometimes it is the least obvious ways that will give the best results..and your example brings another possibility..IF suzan would or could not obey that discipline a secon question would be answered on its own...*obedience* was not as important to her as it is to Me.

 

[WillowPuss]

Re: Re: Re: Spankings

" I won't begin with the ~this will hurt Me more than you~
cliche....for it will not, " she was told with firmness, " I am
disappointed in your continual disrespectful behavior." The
Mistress lifted the hemline of the short slip gown that shone
in the candle lit room, exposing panties already moist with
the pent up need to submit.
With a firm yet gentle hand She stroked the perfect butt of
the woman She adored as She cautioned of the pain to come.
suzan clung her Mistress's calves as she prepared herself for
what she knew would be a lesson well learned. she cringed as
she felt the first soft slap which was the preparation for her
reality. One after another soft blows rained upon the derriere
that seemed to beg for more. The Domme lowered the panties
and continued Her gentle assault of Domination knowing
cruelty held no place in this rebuke. A pink blush stained the
butt of Her submissive before She bent to lay Her lips upon
the heat caressing a response of passion and moans of pleasure.
" I think not My beauty, " the Domme laughed gleelessly in disapproval, " no treats for bad girls this day."
"you may have a stunning beauty and a passion that matches My own but My desires to see you at My feet have been tinged with disappoinment." "you will not play Me for the fool that Dominates you for your pleasure, yet I am not unreasonable." seethed the Mistress of control. "One last chance to show a submission that backs up your pretty words."
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this conversation now hits phase two if you will....any ideas how suzan can redeem herself..or if she wished to say kiss my ass how will she do it and move on?

Hmmmmm ... now, I am going to make some assumptions from what I have read. (bet I am way way off here).

- You are very fond of suzan. I assume this because, for a start, you accepted her into Your house, You accepted her offer of submission, You have given her many chances before this.

- suzan seems fond of trying to top You. You are aware of this.

- You wish to test suzan and make her think about whether she truly wishes to submit or whether she has found that the lifestyle is not what she imagined it to be in her fantasies.

- I have a feeling that suzan is aware of her own beauty and that it has possibly got her out of trouble before.



Now - taking those assumptions, I have to try and think what You may do. (And this isn't easy ... I just cannot think Domme for the life of me.)
Sooooooo ... I will turn it around slightly and think about what I would hate. I would hate being in the same place as my Master and have Him ignore me totally. I would cringe to see Him interact with others and not even acknowledge my existance. That would really concentrate my mind on what I could possibly do to redeem myself, supposing that I really did want to continue. (And before anyone questions this ... I do, and this is all hypothetical!).

I think, if I were suzan, I would arrange a party for You, inviting Your closest friends in the lifestyle. I would go to a dress hire shop and get a victorian maids outfit so that only my face were visible - every inch of flesh covered in plain dowdy grey.
I would prepare Your favourite dishes.
I would wait upon Your guests as if they were Royality.
I would not speak with anybody unless spoken to - and then would do so with eyes lowered and head bowed.
When I was not attending on the guests I would stand in a corner of the room until summoned.

Once the guests had left, I would go on my knees and ask permission to approach You and sit at Your feet.

All the time suzan was standing quietly she would be thinking out her position in Your house.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Spankings

Hmmmmm ... now, I am going to make some assumptions from what I have read. (bet I am way way off here).

- You are very fond of suzan. I assume this because, for a start, you accepted her into Your house, You accepted her offer of submission, You have given her many chances before this.

- suzan seems fond of trying to top You. You are aware of this.

- You wish to test suzan and make her think about whether she truly wishes to submit or whether she has found that the lifestyle is not what she imagined it to be in her fantasies.

- I have a feeling that suzan is aware of her own beauty and that it has possibly got her out of trouble before.



Now - taking those assumptions, I have to try and think what You may do. (And this isn't easy ... I just cannot think Domme for the life of me.)
Sooooooo ... I will turn it around slightly and think about what I would hate. I would hate being in the same place as my Master and have Him ignore me totally. I would cringe to see Him interact with others and not even acknowledge my existance. That would really concentrate my mind on what I could possibly do to redeem myself, supposing that I really did want to continue. (And before anyone questions this ... I do, and this is all hypothetical!).

I think, if I were suzan, I would arrange a party for You, inviting Your closest friends in the lifestyle. I would go to a dress hire shop and get a victorian maids outfit so that only my face were visible - every inch of flesh covered in plain dowdy grey.
I would prepare Your favourite dishes.
I would wait upon Your guests as if they were Royality.
I would not speak with anybody unless spoken to - and then would do so with eyes lowered and head bowed.
When I was not attending on the guests I would stand in a corner of the room until summoned.

Once the guests had left, I would go on my knees and ask permission to approach You and sit at Your feet.

All the time suzan was standing quietly she would be thinking out her position in Your house.

you have made all of the correct assumptions.

suzan could redeem herself in this manner as the depth of thought and preparation you explain would definately show a real repentance. It would also show that suzan truly desired her place at My feet and did not wish to be released or to seek her own release. It would be impossible to not be proud of her this day and to have her back at My feet.

Do you think that this wonderful and thoughtful behaviour would lull Me into thinking suzan would never be willfull again?