Spanking fetish - married man here, need advice

[littlejakey]

Hello,

I'm a 27 year old married man. I have a secret fantasy of finding a strange older man on craigslist who will invite me to his home, and when I arrive, will undress me, bend me over his knee and give me a good spanking.

I have found a few potential spankers and am having trouble going through with it, though it's now become one of my biggest turn ons. Of course this would be a secret kept from my wife and that's the most troubling thing.

Looking forward to any advice from others who have gone through with, or thought about going through with something like this.

I have never been spanked before. I do spank my wife sometimes though.

 

[Freya_Gin]

I know the strange older man may be a vital component to your fantasy but I have to ask, won't your wife spank you?

 

[littlejakey]

She is very submissive. It would be completely the opposite of how we do things. Though I would like it. I have asked her before but I don't think she's into the idea of being the dominant one, at all.

 

[blowit]

What is your (rough) location?

 

[suckonsimon]

Just to say the un-sexy thing to you mate, which I see you know anyway:
The potential for wrecking your marriage by going down this road is seriously huge. There are plenty of us married dudes live with a deep and recurring fantasy - in my case being the other guy with a couple who want mmf - plenty of us who know that it just has to stay there as fantasy or else we ruin what we've got.

The good news is the number of people who say that the fantasy they had was always better than the real thing when they did it.

Hey, enjoy your sexy woman. She sounds totally fuckable.