Spank My Arse!! And love me in the morning, too please.

[Angelcake24]

First and foremost.. I'm a submissive switch. Which means I prefer being sub and I dont mind being submissive to the right person but I'm still that aggressive in where I know exactly what it is that I want. If you know off the bat you don't like finicy submissives/women or "bratty subbies" then back off! do not even read the rest of this post it's no point we'll make eachother unhappy.

But for those that enjoy a challenge and a few hardline rules, and DO believe in the safeword do please continue.

1.) I Don't like to be abused.. I dont like to feel abused.. I dont like to feel hurt. I'm a sensitive gal, and I like only LOVING caring yet *assertive*d ominants. They can be male or female.. but I've noticed with male doms they just like to kick their women around and call them *Whores*. I'm not sucha stick in the mud to where I dont realize there are people out here who enjoy that sorta thing and hey that's fine by me.. a lil' name callin' never hurt anybody. But I KNOW WHAT I LIKE! And I know the difference in reality from fantasy. Some I would love to make come true more than anything. And Some.. I would not like to make so true and deserve to stay all in the back of my mind and there only. I dont want anything in relating to Gang-Bangs or Forced Rape.. or anything non-consensual. I dont want anything Against my Will. I Should not have to live in fear of my dom nor feel I will be used and abused in anyway. So though I LOVE spanking/Paddling.. and MAY extend the rule on Flogging depending on my mood.. I
dont like anything beyond that point.. I don't like extreme pain. This doesn't mean I don't repect anyone who does.. what others do with their sex life.. more power to them.. I'm not here to judge anyone.. I just know what I seek for myself personally. I am here to serve and I love and enjoy serving but I am still a human being and I deserve to be treated with love and respect (and a few showered gifts here n' there too!)

2.) My fetishes are simple, anything with gender-bending (especially women dressing up as men or me dressing up as a man) anything with bisexuality (I am bisexual and I seek a bisexual male/female dom/domme) anything having to do with spanking/paddling.. anything having to do with bondage.. no tit torture though please.. anything having to do with handcuffs.. anything having to do with bloodplay (I Have a vampire fetish and had it since I was a child). Age play's very, very sexy. Water sports, I have grown to enjoy. So it does Show I can be very flexible.. I just don't like to be treated like shit when I know I should be treated like gold and treasured forever. I enjoy exhibitionism but I am naturally shy so something like that would have to be in an enviorment (like a fetish club or a place that accepts the BDSM community) where I can feel comfortable to express myself freely. I will not flash random people on the streets so I can ruin my entire life! I do have stuff and familya nd friends outside of my lifestyle that shouldn't have to know all my biznezz!(Business). Toys, sex clubs, sex shops, sex communities, swing communities.. anywhere were i can feel and be free around others who are like me.. That's fine by me. Humiliations cences should also be carried out amongst those who will understand and not be judgmental.

I just enjoy flexibility and enjoy being flexible and.. I enjoy basically being Me. Without a problem. And I need an understanding dom/domme (or both! I don't mind having a dom
couple who will respect and love and keep me forever! Couples are just fine by me!) who will allow me room for being creative and such.


Everything else is up for grabs so long as I am respected in the morning. And the relationship goes beyond sex. I do take BDSM lifestyle extremely seriously and I do see it as a commitment as any relationship. I'm not just looking for sex.. I am looking for the total package. I want love too! Now just because I dont mind having a leasha round my neck or a dog bowl or a cage or an entire room dedicated to a dungeon scene.. doesnt mean I dont love an feel as everyone else does! And I do believe so many of us can truly say the same thing!

If you must know.. I'm an african-american female.. in her early 20's. college student and I live at home (for right now), so if anything I seek basically an online interaction (for right now). So if you live in the Florida area.. write to me.

Age isn't the biggest thing with me I can be flexible as I said so many times before.. but I'm really seeking people in their 30's at least.


Just write to me and see what you think!


Please.

HerDarkestMind@aol.com

 

[toxicshaman]

wow

wow. in a good way.

 

[HandsomeHunk]

Hello

This is a post seeking the right woman...answer these questions and we might hit it off....

1. Do you swallow?
2. Have you had a threesome....if yes....mfm or fmf?
3. Are you shaved?
4. Do you like rough sex?
5. If your master wanted to introduce another man would you join in?
6. If your master wanted to introduce another woman would you join in?
7. Would you go to a swingers club?
10. Do you like anal sex?
11. Are you understand what being a submissive is about?
12. Do you like sex toys?
13. Do you like to be tied up or handcuffed?
14. Do you like public sex?
15. Would you flash your tits if this pleased your master?
16. Would you do a sex video to please your master?
17. Do you like sex out doors?
18. Do you like being watched while having sex?
19. Do you like watching others having sex in real life?
20. Would bring another woman home to your master?

Answer these questions truthfully.....and then send me a PM.....smiles......domination is not about abuse or intentional pain either mental or physical.