Spank Bank Regulars

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Who do you most often think of when masturbating and fantasizing?

Tell us about them - who they are to you, what they look like, why you find them so inspiring for self pleasure, what you imagine doing with them.

What do you think they would think if they knew? (Or have they a clue?)
 
Interesting question. For me, it is a woman I met on vacation long ago. I was alone, she was married but traveling without her husband. We hit it off, got drunk, and ended up in bed together.

But she told me she would not cheat on her husband. And her definition of "cheating" was allowing another man's penis into her vagina or anus. Anything else was fine! We had all the non-penetrative sex two people could squeeze into three nights in a hotel. And she was an excellent cocksucker.

She wasn't particularly attractive, and a little overweight, but she was so enthusiastic that she more than made up for it. I never saw her or heard from her again. And now she is the queen of my spank bank. Probably for the very reason that I never got to actually fuck her. She is still "forbidden fruit."
 
The wife of a past boss of mine. She had the pretty, petite, sorta elfin look I love.

He was an asshole. Very conservative, sexist and a pious hypocrite.

I always got the impression that she was unhappy and unfulfilled. Fantasies of changing that have stuck in my head.
 
My wife

My #1 go - to is thinking about other men screwing my wife. Many years ago she cheated on me with another man. Soon after I started becoming aroused by her tryst. Started fantasizing and masturbating to the idea of her doing it again. Secretly hoped she'd do it again.

A few years ago now she did cheat on me again. That led us to opening our marriage up to a hotwife relationship. Now whenever she is with one of her lovers, I'm always masturbating. It's like we're sharing the experience. Even when I'm just jerking off Im always thinking about my wife in various fantasy scenarios with strange men: hotels, skinny dipping, our marital bed.
 
Just posted this in another thread but seemed relevant to my own thread here as well, though #2 is the one who is truly a spank bank regular.

Likeability and fuckability almost always go together. A woman I couldn't talk to and be friends with usually holds little erotic interest for me. Plus celebrities don't do it for me. It's the real life encounters that stoke my fire.

But that said....

- I embarrassingly confess to having had the hots for Sarah Palin. (I've since recovered.)

- A mom of a college girlfriend was very cool to me and made it clear she didn't deem me fit for her daughter. Being older myself now and looking back at the 20-something me I can't disagree with her, but she didn't have to be such a bitch about it. She was tall, Italian, dark haired, and built like brick shit house. I spent a long weekend at their home and she came home from work on Friday dressed professionally in hose and heels and skirt and conservative blouse and blazer but her figure was as hard to hide as her attitude. It was the first and maybe only time that open derision turned me on. It confused me at the time. Girlfriend gave me 5 orgasms over the long weekend and I snuck in 2 alone. Every one one of those draining and satisfying releases came while snooty mom was on my mind, even while her much smaller and much sweeter petite daughter was riding me on their basement sofa like a rodeo queen. There have been many hundreds of private fantasies and orgasms fueled by that lady ever since and they occasionally occur to this day.

- Only other one I can recall is a much younger co-worker who mistreated everyone until she needed something, including me. She ignored a couple innocent and friendly hellos I made unit I saw how she was. Very sexy by every conventional standard but she did nothing for me because of the attitude. Then she discovered I could help her career and became flirty while asking for favors. I begged off, not wanting any professional or personal connection to such a person. But I do confess to having one - and honestly just one - mighty fun and satisfying fantasy of her really working hard for that favor while on her knees. After her working me up with those pouty lips and me smacking her face with my cock I flipped her over the conference room table, yanked up her tight knit dress, tore off her little panties and fucked her hard for my selfish pleasure. Coated with her frothy cream I then slid into her tight little ass to finish, then spanked her ass hard and ordered her to clean me with her mouth. She was them shoved out of the office a spent and sticky mess. My fantasies more often have a romantic component and this secret thought did not inspire any subsequent desire to keep wasting my fantasies on this person. But that one-time thought really did it for me.
 
-Maria, Music Teacher, Eastern European, petite, nice round ass.

-Rachel, English Teacher, light brown hair. Tomboyish but likes to wear lacey thongs.

-Martha, English Teacher, brunette, strict but has a great butt.

-Natalie, English Teacher, short blonde hair, curvy especially in the thighs and ass, thong wearer

-Diana, English Teacher, brunette, Latina, knows that she's being checked out and likes to bust people's balls about it.

-Catherine, Science Teacher, brunette, great breasts that are just wonderful to tittyfuck

-Belinda, History Teacher, brunette, middle eastern, inadvertently introduced me to how sexy women can look wearing office clothes, saw the outine of a thong and thigh-high stockings through her pants once.

-Patricia, Music Teacher, brunette, Italian, the legs and ass of a female soccer player. Kissable cocksucking lips.

I went to a boys' school, those are my spank bank regulars. Boy, English teachers sure are overrepresented.
 
-Maria, Music Teacher, Eastern European, petite, nice round ass.

-Rachel, English Teacher, light brown hair. Tomboyish but likes to wear lacey thongs.

-Martha, English Teacher, brunette, strict but has a great butt.

-Natalie, English Teacher, short blonde hair, curvy especially in the thighs and ass, thong wearer

-Diana, English Teacher, brunette, Latina, knows that she's being checked out and likes to bust people's balls about it.

-Catherine, Science Teacher, brunette, great breasts that are just wonderful to tittyfuck

-Belinda, History Teacher, brunette, middle eastern, inadvertently introduced me to how sexy women can look wearing office clothes, saw the outine of a thong and thigh-high stockings through her pants once.

-Patricia, Music Teacher, brunette, Italian, the legs and ass of a female soccer player. Kissable cocksucking lips.

I went to a boys' school, those are my spank bank regulars. Boy, English teachers sure are overrepresented.

So, how exactly did you know Rachel liked to wear lacey thongs?
 
I fantasize about my former philosophy professor the most, out of anyone I ever think about when I masturbate. I first met him when I took his intro class in like 2013. I graduated over two years ago. I never got over him. Rarely even go to my alma mater anymore, and I still can't let him go. I got incredibly wet while thinking about giving him a blow job. I was so slick just thinking about him and touching myself to my fantasy.

Once when I saw him in his office, there was an unintentional gap in his buttoned down long sleeved shirt and I saw a bit of his chest hair. I've incessantly thought about running my hands on his chest since. I think about how my light olive skin would look against his pale flesh (he's white and I'm of Chinese descent). He wears a suit and tie, which is also a fetish of mine. If I ever had my way with him, I'd unzip his pants with his suit still on and suck him off until he came in my mouth. I'd do my best to swallow his entire load.

With his appearance, he has short salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes that I saw the true color of as the sunlight came through his office window during office hours, and long grey eyelashes. He is normally clean-shaven and has a cleft chin or some kind of chin dimple. With his suits, he wears snappy looking blazers with a pastel button down and a light blue gingham tie. He really has quite the fashion sense. He really must get his clothes tailored because they fit him well. He is particularly handsome and I think on some level he knows it because he does have a bit of swagger to his body language. When ratemyprofessors.com still had a chili pepper, his chili pepper was glowing red. There were so many reviews that talked about how hot he was, too. Makes me fume with possessive envy just thinking about what other students said about him.

I don't know what my former professor would do or think if he had a clue. I wouldn't be surprised if suspicions have ever crossed his mind or if he "knows" already. He has aged since the time I met him six years ago, but I still cherish him and find him stunning.
 
So, how exactly did you know Rachel liked to wear lacey thongs?

One casual day she was dressed all casual and tomboyish. Polo shirt with collars up and jeans. Jeans rode a little low and saw a pink lace thong.

Never got up to anything with my spank bank regulars, I’m afraid. That would be trouble for both them and myself. So far as they know I’m just a student dutifully working on the tasks that has been given to me.
 
Well porn... DFW Knight, Natalie Mars, Alexis Texas. Real life... a lot of people I should t lolol
 
some of the ones you never were with at all might be at the top of such a list.

This is true for me. I think it has to do with the fact that you haven’t seen your spank bank regulars in a sexual situation.

I Can’t masturbate over my wife or those I’ve been with or porn stars. I can get turned on at the thought of them but never to the point of masturbating. I think having seen these people in sexual situations, there’s nothing for me to imagine or fantasize about.
 
I currently think of one of the following:

Another guy or guys cumming in my wife
My aunt
My neighbour
Our pregnant friend
 
Who do you most often think of when masturbating and fantasizing?

Tell us about them - who they are to you, what they look like, why you find them so inspiring for self pleasure, what you imagine doing with them.

What do you think they would think if they knew? (Or have they a clue?)

An ex GF from long ago. She could push my buttons like no other and she was adventurous. She used to get me naked when we were out driving around. She fucked me in my driveway, standing between our cars. She could get me to do anything and she knew it. We were like water and oil otherwise.
I still masturbate remembering things we did and wishing we had done more.
 
For some reason, my fantasy men are usually generic. They will often have dark hair and dark blue eyes. Had an ex like that but the fantasy man is not him. I always think that if I have a fantasy about a real person, they will know it. Then again, sometimes I want them to know it!

There is a Lit guy. He knows he is in my fantasies. I am not going to describe him here beyond what I have already said in my stories.

But there is another guy. Much younger than me. We feel that we share a spiritual connection. We have had astral projection sex. We have given each other orgasms with no sex involved but in some cases, a lot of G rated touching. No real sex though. Not yet anyway...

I have seen him naked. He is tall and thin. Also a mix of various Latino as well as white. The parts of him that never see the sun are as white as my hands are. I like to run my hands over those parts, noticing how my skin blends into his.

He does tan easily. And he is outdoors a lot so the parts that see the sun are darker. He has a few moles. I know where they all are. Little wisps of dark hair on his arms and chest, very hairy legs. He shaves around his cock and balls. Cock is beautiful. About average size. Looks perfect for sucking. Small, round, tight balls. He has scoliosis. A rather severe case of it. In his case, his shoulders are way off. The left shoulder blade in the back is down very low. I too have scoliosis but a much less severe case. Mine affects my hips. My right hip is just a tiny bit higher than my left one. He sometimes asks me to check his back because he has pain. I will run my hands over the uneven areas and remind him yet again what is "off", then run my hands down to his hips to point out that they are even and to show him on his body where mine are "off". He seems to like that.

His hands are small and delicate. Small fingernails. I know all the lines on his palms. I know the area towards the outside of his palm that will show a red spot when he is in extreme pain. I always look at it after I have finished massaging/soothing him. The spot disappears.

His eyes are root beer colored. Large and expressive with long thick eyelashes and thick brows. Dark, soft, naturally wavy hair. Currently cut shorter on the sides and a bit longer down the middle with a flop of bangs that hangs near his right eye. He changes the style a lot. Currently clean shaven face but he sometimes has a beard or sideburns.

His aura is usually gold, shot through with bright rainbows. I should add that I don't normally see auras but I can see his and I know when it dims, he is tired, hungry or not otherwise not feeling well. Oddly enough he gave himself a nickname and it has the word "gold" in it.

He has rather thin lips and a boyish grin. Also a very deep voice. He tends to go to extremes from being very quiet and introspective to loud, playful and fun loving.
 
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At this point, I'm way more likely to think about memories than fantasies. Particularly hot and steamy sessions with my wife or an ex-girlfriend, some of them going back decades. And it's rarely so much about what they did, but more the enthusiasm with which they did it.
 
Like most of you, my sexual fantasies are somewhat complex and what specific scenario I'm thinking about that gets me off depends on my mood at the time.

Probably one of my most erotic experiences that always arouses me when I start thinking about it was the first time I had sex with one of my college girlfriends. I was older and much more sexually experienced than she was. She was just 18 but lost her virginity in high school. She was absolutely gorgeous and had the body and physique that I'm most attracted to - tall, thin, small breasts.

She was somewhat shy and had expressed that she wanted to "take it slow." However, one late night of heavy petting and making out in her dorm room while her roommate was gone for the weekend got her extremely aroused.

I remember the look in her eyes as I penetrated her the first time. The look of lust and desire on her face. The feeling of her long, hard nipples against my chest. Her moans and breathing as I slowly pistoned my cock inside her. It was the first time she had sex without a condom. Her pussy felt like heaven on earth, and I wanted it to last forever. This wasn't like the sex she had with her boyfriend in high school. We made love, slowly, tenderly.

We stayed in missionary the whole time. I remember her wrapping her long legs around my waist, pulling me close to her, and whispered in my ear, "I want you to finish inside me."

Man, that did it. The way her voice sounded when she said those words made me explode inside her. That was the first time that anyone had ejaculated inside her - she had either had sex with a condom or sucked her only other boyfriend off.

Thinking about that night always makes me horny. If she hadn't turned out to be psycho I would have probably married her. She was gorgeous, funny, an amazing fuck, a fantastic cocksucker, always swallowed enthusiastically, and very sexually adventurous - revealing that she was bisexual - once the ice was broken.
 
1. My sis-in-law. She is short and a little on the heavy side. She has a cute face and huge tits. We flirt back and forth. We often get sent to get something forgotten at the store or her house. It usually starts with me seeing one of her bras and commenting about how big it is. She lets me see the goods up close before I know it she is riding me hard making those babies flop around in my face.

2. A girl I had a fling with. She was a redhead with amazing boobs. We would hang out and make out and play with each other. The fantasy is that we are at a park making out and I have my hands all over her rack. Next thing I know I am laying in the back of her SUV getting jerked off by those huge, soft titties.
 
In no particular order.

JAV stars:

Others:
  • I have a follower on Instagram who is young, pretty, pleasingly round and supple in the right places, has a cute singing voice, just hits a bunch of buttons for me. I'm actually not really into masturbating to her pics, at least not yet. However, her voice can do things to me, and ... man, I've had some vivid erotic dreams about her. She's aware of that and finds it flattering.
  • On occasions when I'm horny and feeling dominant, I might pull from memories of past play-times and intimacies with one of my submissive exes, either to enjoy recollecting events as they happened, or to play out alternative scenarios in my head (predicated on who they used to be, not on how they are now).
  • There was an exhibitionist who used to stream on Shoutcast around 2004-2005. (Yep, you had to use WinAMP to find and watch her. It was that long ago.) She had a charming accent, a cute button nose, and she wasn't the least bit shy. I stopped seeking out her stream when I started dating someone. Lost track of her, and then WinAMP died. However, I recently found an old backup CD with a bunch of screenshots of her show, so, that's been fun!

For the most part, though, my "spank bank" consists of images and videos of random women that I've curated on Tumblr. I have a softcore one that's still viewable and tag-searchable, and a more risky one that's been sent to the naughty jail as of last December.
 
The biggest one for me is a female friend of mine I went on a few dates with. We've been good friends ever since. She's short, brunette, very smart (huge turn on for me), very nerdy. With natural I cup breasts. Not making this up. She let me see them on the last official date we had and let me jerk off while I looked at them. Had the hardest orgasm of my life right there.

We're still good friends and the sexual tension has never fully gone away. But we live far from one another now, and she goes through an amazing array of boyfriends. I told her awhile back that I still fantasize about her very often. She was proud of that. As she should be. She has a lot to be proud about. ;)
 
Love all the replies! Would especially love to see more lady litsters fess up to who fuels their fantasy fires.
 
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