Something different.

[RazingTrouble]

So here it is...
Finding people to talk about sex and kinks is as easy as throwing a stone at the ocean and hitting water. But what about those adults who don't always want to hear about how horny you are? Those adults who want to talk about music, movies, marriage, how much work sucked and have a few laughs? Where are they? If talking about sex and kinks is a once and a while thing but yet you want to just talk about every day things and get tired of hearing "want 2 watch me jack?", "got cam?!?!?", "I am sitting here naked and jerking it." etc.

I am a married male who doesn't get as much sex as I like and sometimes its not as kinky as I would like but I STILL like to have normal conversations with other married adults without it always reverting to some asshat begging to be seen on cam jerking and then dissapearing from the list when you say you are not interested. Get sick of the people who chat once and get their selfish desires out and then go invisible never to be seen logging in again? Me too.

So if there are any folks out there like me... you know how to find me.

 

[bwallard]

I find many articulate and thoughtful threads on Lit, many of which do not attract off-topic interruptions. You have to pick about.

Sure there are many rambunctious and playful threads that assume you're in the mood. If you're not in the mood, don't read them. If you start a thoughtful thread and some rambunctious funster joins in, just ignore him - usually him - or the embittered her, I suppose I should add.

It's the nature of this community, and one of the reasons I keep coming back.

You could also try The Well. It is an excellent forum of intelligent conversation. There are many others, of course, but The Well is well-known.