MMM_wms
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Dec 4, 2019
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First of all, I apologize for using the term soulmate frivolously. I do aspire to meet my soulmate someday, but right here I am talking about friends with benefits.
But nevertheless, a FWB can be a priceless treasure in times of dire needs. So how can one find such a friend here?
For sure NOT the way I have been attempting that. By writing personal ads totally out of place for a forum like the LIT Personals.
I am tempted now, to write down everything the Personals are good for, IMHO, but I will refrain from doing so. Lest I get kicked off once again here.
The only sensible way I will meet any woman at all, is by perusing good to great posts women write now and then. On the Personals, but on other fora as well (or forums, as Americans call them). And then sending out an unsolicited PM to the woman I discover that way. You can also call my PMs “solicitation” PMs, since I generally ask her for a date via mail exchanges.
Most of the time her reply is a friendly “thank you but NO thanks”, quite often because the woman in question is “in good hands” already. Why else would she write such wonderful posts, I ask you? But every now and then a conversation ensues. Certainly higher chances than waiting for “the right woman” answering a personal ad of mine.
As an example, just this morning I discovered a woman, who does not know me yet. She posted some pictures of herself, which are absolutely erotic. Not beautiful in MY sense of the word, but erotic as hell. So after I feast my eyes some more on her pix, I will contact her and ask her for a mail date. Should she fall for the honey I will dispense her way, we both might get a few horny mails out of it. And hopefully we will both enjoy that.
Long-term mail relationships are overrated most likely. A lot of effort, and in the end, a realization is bound to strike both of us: excitement and arousal very rarely last very long. Mother Nature has designed arousal for one-time use anyway. Once an offspring has been fathered that way, there is no further use for it.
So, I see I have written a post about the LIT Personals without offending anybody. For me that is quite a “master-work” , as a Japanese friend of mine had been describing her own accomplishments at times. I bid all readers of my post a good day, and I am curious, whether one or two of you care to comment.
But nevertheless, a FWB can be a priceless treasure in times of dire needs. So how can one find such a friend here?
For sure NOT the way I have been attempting that. By writing personal ads totally out of place for a forum like the LIT Personals.
I am tempted now, to write down everything the Personals are good for, IMHO, but I will refrain from doing so. Lest I get kicked off once again here.
The only sensible way I will meet any woman at all, is by perusing good to great posts women write now and then. On the Personals, but on other fora as well (or forums, as Americans call them). And then sending out an unsolicited PM to the woman I discover that way. You can also call my PMs “solicitation” PMs, since I generally ask her for a date via mail exchanges.
Most of the time her reply is a friendly “thank you but NO thanks”, quite often because the woman in question is “in good hands” already. Why else would she write such wonderful posts, I ask you? But every now and then a conversation ensues. Certainly higher chances than waiting for “the right woman” answering a personal ad of mine.
As an example, just this morning I discovered a woman, who does not know me yet. She posted some pictures of herself, which are absolutely erotic. Not beautiful in MY sense of the word, but erotic as hell. So after I feast my eyes some more on her pix, I will contact her and ask her for a mail date. Should she fall for the honey I will dispense her way, we both might get a few horny mails out of it. And hopefully we will both enjoy that.
Long-term mail relationships are overrated most likely. A lot of effort, and in the end, a realization is bound to strike both of us: excitement and arousal very rarely last very long. Mother Nature has designed arousal for one-time use anyway. Once an offspring has been fathered that way, there is no further use for it.
So, I see I have written a post about the LIT Personals without offending anybody. For me that is quite a “master-work” , as a Japanese friend of mine had been describing her own accomplishments at times. I bid all readers of my post a good day, and I am curious, whether one or two of you care to comment.
