Some Advice, please?

HarlemBlade

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Hey, everybody, I thought I'd ask for a little advice about something. Everybody here seems to be pretty knowledgeable about the whole dating/relationship scene, so I'll give it a shot.

There's this girl in my Tae Kwon Do class that I've gotten a bit interested in recently. A couple weeks ago, we suddenly started talking a lot before, during, and after classes. This last Saturday after class, we ended up chatting for about 40 min before she finally had to get going. We've got a lot in common and I really think something could click.

How do I go about figuring out if she even has any interest in me beyond friendship? I know I'm intersted in more, but how can I figure out if she wants more? And how can I get to know her better (and her to know me better in the process) without coming across as trying to come onto her.

I'm not looking for pick up lines or anything, just a good way to get a little closer to her and see if anything could happen.

Thanks!
 
HarlemBlade said:
Hey, everybody, I thought I'd ask for a little advice about something. Everybody here seems to be pretty knowledgeable about the whole dating/relationship scene, so I'll give it a shot.

There's this girl in my Tae Kwon Do class that I've gotten a bit interested in recently. A couple weeks ago, we suddenly started talking a lot before, during, and after classes. This last Saturday after class, we ended up chatting for about 40 min before she finally had to get going. We've got a lot in common and I really think something could click.

How do I go about figuring out if she even has any interest in me beyond friendship? I know I'm intersted in more, but how can I figure out if she wants more? And how can I get to know her better (and her to know me better in the process) without coming across as trying to come onto her.

I'm not looking for pick up lines or anything, just a good way to get a little closer to her and see if anything could happen.

Thanks!


If you really want some advice .... Just be yourself ... Friendship is the most wonderful of feelings. Before anything can become of this...be her friend first. Everybody loves a friend. So RELAX.... you've just had 40 minutes of conversation.
If it turns to something else...Having a friend as a lover is wonderful and most rewarding of all.
Wouldnt you like to be in love with your BEST FRIEND ?
 
Definetly agree with Morning Rain try to become friends first and above all try to have patience....the worst thing you can do is try to rush into a relationship without even knowing the person.....don't worry just be yourself above all things.......
 
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