Some advice needed.....I'm kinda nervous

[SoCalex]

I am realy interested in having my Wife give me anal with a strap-on, but I am nervous that it's going to cause "serious" damage, beyond that of the regular bleeding, etc. To those who have had it done before, is it something that can damage something internally? I'm talking about a 4-6 inch dildo....nothing too extreme.

Also, It has been a fantasy of mine forever to eat a creampie out of my wife after sex, but for some reason everytime I cum I completely chicken out. A couple times I snowballed with my ex and the next day or so, I managed to end up with a sinus infection "thing" and I guess my mind has always associated eating cum with getting sick later. I'm sure it's just coincidence, but I've got some OCD issues and this is just how my mind works, it seems...hahahahah.

I would also LOVE to have a MMF threesome with my Wife where we both get to participate with the other guy, but I would need to overcome my current obstacles before that could ever happen, and I would have to convince my Wife of it too. I would also love to have a MFF threesome, but I think that's normal for just about every guy

Any information/advice would be excellent. Thanks~!

 

[gingermango]

Well, first thing's first - anal.

Here's the deal - your butt makes next to NO lubrication on it's own. So the keys here are to use LOTS of lube, start very, very slowly, and be patient. Your best bet is to probably start smaller than the dildo you want her to use. Length isn't the issue so much as thickness. Get something very small and get used to it, then work your way up in size over a period of several weeks. You have to train your body to not clench up and fight the insertion process. Remember, stuff is supposed to go out, not in. So when something tries to enter, your body's reaction is to tighten up to prevent it. But the relaxation is something that can be learned.

Another tip, once you start using toys larger than about the size of a couple of fingers, you will probably have a problem getting past the first inch or two of insertion - the inner sphincter muscles are typically very strong and don't like to expand. But they will if you're patient. What we do is this: once my wife has gotten the very head of her dildo inside me, we relax for a minute. That muscle BURNS if you force it at this point and it will hurt like unholy hell (but it probably won't do any damage if you use enough lube). So she holds still and lets me relax and get that muscle to relax too. Once I'm ready, I start backing against her, thrusting back with my ass and hips to work it in slowly. Eventually, within a minute or two, I'm totally relaxed and she can fuck me with the entire length. Our dildo is about the same size as my cock: a bit over 8" long and 6.5" in circumference, and after practice and patience I can take the entire thing. However, we have a bi-friend we play with whose cock is shorter and thicker than mine (7.5" but about 7" in circumference) and I really doubt I could take him up my ass easily.

A word about lubes - use water-based lubes that are non-toxic and won't degrade a latex condom! We usually use KY jelly inside my butt, worked in with fingers before insertion, followed by generous amounts of Astroglide on the dildo itself. The combination works very well for us.

As for the rest of your concerns, you just have to work yourself up to it if you want to do it. I have a cum fetish myself - I love it. But if you're not up for it, you're just not. Sometimes people's fantasies are just fantasies and don't work for them in reality. And that's okay.

 

[efevece]

Use your brain, please

Humanity assfuck since the bigginings of time.

Olive oil. Butter... You name it...

For the next millions generations pepple will assfuck (unless "puff"-end game).

Don´t worry. No matter you´ll like it, or not, zillions of other people will do it tonight.

Remember Nike. " Just do it".

 

[bipat69]

Lube should take care of everything. That and relaxing a little. Don't forget to breathe. When I first tried it getting my cock stroked while I had it done was a big help.