So now a serious question....

[JazzManJim]

Okay, so a week ago I posted a new av. It was of my penis (like I need to say this??) and it stayed up about a week.

Before that, I had mostly used other self-photos - either full-body, or pics of me holding/feeding my son.

I've noticed, though, that sicne I've posted my penis, the board has changed a bit for me. I get more folks who comment on my posts and threads (other than those who kind of lurk me anyhow). I get flirted with a whole hell of a lot more. Folks who had known me almost from my first day onthe boards treat me differently (not worse, but different). Some folks with whom I had casual contact stopped contacting me. Some folks (even the folks who were blatantly sexy) who have been here a while actually contacted me.

So I'm wondering what's different, really?

I'm the same guy I was before I posted Mr. Winky. I've not changed in any appreciable way. My posts aren't really any different. I still flirt and post on the political and religious threads and manage more than my fair share of fluff, too.

So what's different? What's the big deal about a penis pic?

I'm interested in finding out. I'd love to hear from some folks who now view me differently - for good or bad. I'd like to hear from folks who have noticed this about themselves.

 

[wicked faerie]

i noticed i got a lot more attention after i hit post 100 & put up my first av

 

[lisalove]

Mr Winky is just so kissable.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

But, seriously ...

Am I in there some where ?

Do I fall into one of those sections ??

 

[KillerMuffin]

You've been objectified.

You're a sex object now.

Try posting a pic of my seizure activity, that'll take people's minds off Mr. Winky. It worked for my assav.

 

[Azwed]

A couple of people PMed me asking about it but they were people that I already interacted with on a regular basis.

I of course did not have mine up as long as you, I had it up for 2 or 3 days i think, though so that could be part of it

 

[Siren]

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Try posting a pic of my seizure activity, that'll take people's minds off Mr. Winky. It worked for my assav.

I still want that back up too

 

[Siren]

 

[Guest]

Mr Winky?

Did you say Mr. Winky?

Why do men name their cocks? Inquiring minds want to know.

As far as your question, I didn't care for your cock shot, and I'm glad you don't have it up now. I don't think I reacted any differently to you because of it though.

Moon

 

[LovetoGiveRoses]

If your AV is a reflection of your persona, there's a big difference between Mr. Winky and a father caring for an infant. It should cause a difference in how you're percieved. Try spiking your hair one day when you go into work and see if people react to you differently. LoL.

 

[freakygirl]

you had Mr Winky as an AV??

Fuck!!!!!!!!! I had Av's off most of the last week because of children in the house!!!!!!!


I missed Mr Winky!!!!!!!

could you email him to me? well not him but a picture of him?

 

[cybergirly]

I don't know what the difference is. I've noticed the same thing, since I put up an av of myself, I've gotten alot more pm's and have been flirted with alot more. But I think it's because, unconsiously I know that there is a pic of me beside what ever I say, so I'm more myself.
Who knows...

 

[Siren]

 

[cybergirly]

I guess I should start ignoring Cybergal as well.

Don't do that. My life would be over, I'd throw myself off the nearest tall building, or run in front of a speeding bus...or...or something.

 

[Never]

The picture beside your post changes the tone of your post.

 

[Siren]

 

[Azwed]

Don't do that. My life would be over, I'd throw myself off the nearest tall building, or run in front of a speeding bus...or...or something.

I know I would do that if I Siren started ignoring me.

 

[cybergirly]

well then start posting pics of your body parts pronto Cybergallie

body parts? I suddenly feel like I'm in one of the Hannible threads.

 

[Calamity Jane]

I dunno Jimmie. We haven't talked in a long time, I noticed Mr Winky... my penisdar is in fine working order.

I am however upset that I missed Azwed's wee wee.

No one treated me any differently when I had my ass up there. Should I be concerned?

 

[Guest]

I had a clothespin on my nip and noone cared. Maybe it's the power of the penis?!

I don't know how to answer this seriously because...well, to be honest, I don't know how to.

 

[red_rose]

I agree with LTGR, Myst and a few others.

What you have in your av changes how people view you because it is a different version of you.

If I meet you and I'm looking cranky... smiling... naked... whatever, it's going to change how you react to me.

You went from an avatar of you holding an infant to a cock shot. That was a big jump.

 

[Azwed]

I dunno Jimmie. We haven't talked in a long time, I noticed Mr Winky... my penisdar is in fine working order.

I am however upset that I missed Azwed's wee wee.

No one treated me any differently when I had my ass up there. Should I be concerned?

I don't normaly give my dick a name but when i do it is Mr. Happy.

 

[Calamity Jane]

I don't normaly give my dick a name but when i do it is Mr. Happy.

Got a problem with wee wee?

 

[Azwed]

Got a problem with wee wee?

Yah makes me sound like i am 10

I would put it back for a limited time only showing but I don't have it on this computer since I am at home.