So Laides.........

[dankerus]

What is it about the physical act of love making you find most enjoyable.
I ask because I'm curious how to arouse my wife who is not as "sexual" as me?
What could I do tyo help her open up more as it were.
My motto is to always let her cum first
I believe she's experienced her first and only orgasms with me
She's opended up some but still basically just lays there
Can I awaken her desires further or do I accept her as she is, which I love by the way

 

[Wolfs_Love]

What a sweet man you are, Dankerus.

There are a few things that I find truly heighten my enjoyment of sex.

The first is being wanted. For me there is nothing hotter than KNOWING he wants me. When Wolf sends me a message, or phones me or just gives me a look it gets my motor going. He tells me I'm beautiful, or sexy, or he tells me how I make him feel. He touches me in passing, not necessarily in a sexual way, but it keeps the fires stirred anyway.

Another thing, is that I really love HIS pleasure. Even if I'm not in the mood, knowing that I'm going to get to watch him cum heightens my pleasure, whether I want to cum or not. (Yes, believe it or not, sometimes I don't care if I cum.) It took a while for him to believe that I could be in it just for him. He wasn't comfortable with that at first, but he gets it now, and it's GREAT.

As far as what about sex, specifically, I find enjoyable, it's got to be that moment when he first enters me, when everything is hyper sensitive and I can feel every inch. Once he starts thrusting, it all blurs as far as sensation goes, but those first few times it feels amazing.

 

[momachaos]

Not that I am an expert by any stretch of any imagination but I do know this .... the best lover I have ever had listened to my body and not my voice. When I was saying no, please stop, I can’t take any more and my body was responding to his touch by leaning into him, nipples becoming more erect and vaginal juices flowing freely, my lover chose to listen to my signs of arousal and not my words of discouragement, fear, reluctance and hesitation. He played my body like it was a finely tuned instrument and he a master musician and by so doing, he was able to coax hidden desire, passion, pleasure and longings out of me. Things that I even now marvel at this very patient and attentive man was able to release in me.

So, if I were to give you some advice, begin to map your wife’s body with your mouth, your lips, your tongue, your fingers, your cock .... record mentally those places where her arousal or pleasure are revealed then spend time learning what kind of contact (the tempo, the texture, the pressure etc...) increase her arousal. Listen to her body and discover/release her passion and desire. But most of all, be patient and attentive, that alone can be a tremendous turn on.