so kinda freaked out

[Dalika5]

hi, I don't usually post here because I haven't internet but managed to get access to it. so I write stories, only have one posted but several written. I recently became open with a few people in my life about my sexual habits online and how I write my fantasies. one of these people however tole many more people. I don't know how to react here. apperantly the link to my story on this website has been found meaning deniability isn't a obvious option. so should I be open about it, avoid it what? any advice any of you can offer is greatly appreciated.

 

[fire_breeze]

hi, I don't usually post here because I haven't internet but managed to get access to it. so I write stories, only have one posted but several written. I recently became open with a few people in my life about my sexual habits online and how I write my fantasies. one of these people however tole many more people. I don't know how to react here. apperantly the link to my story on this website has been found meaning deniability isn't a obvious option. so should I be open about it, avoid it what? any advice any of you can offer is greatly appreciated.

Let me get this straight: although you have no internet, you posted a story describing one of your fantasies. You told a few people about your sexual habits, on-line or otherwise. Someone found your story, and told others. Is that the jist of things?

In any case, if you posted under your full name, you may wish to close your account and re-open another one with a handle (I sure as hell am not called Fire_Breeze off-line). If you haven't, who can truly verify if that's really you?

In my world, unless I am harmed, it's no one's business what I do sexually. I recently come back with some pretty spectacular bruises and marks, and had to explain to my oldest friend who was about to bust some knee caps after she saw them. THAT, I had to explain, to set her straight. Otherwise? I don't say a word; it's not that I'm ashamed. It's just that it's something between my all and myself, and no one else. If they want to know, they can ask, and I may chose to answer, or, I may not. What business is it to them? Do they ask how many times you use the lavatory per day?

And it's more fun to let them wonder

In other words? Calm down. Unless you're doing something that will cause harm or is criminal, it's your business as far as anyone is concerned. If you choose to tell people, so be it. If not, so be it. I sure as hell don't particularly care if your kink revolves around spanking, furries, or getting off with a swiffer and Reese's minis. Whatever floats your boat.

 

[NeonKnickers]

Mmm...Reese's Minis...



Listen to this one, she's smart.

Let me get this straight: although you have no internet, you posted a story describing one of your fantasies. You told a few people about your sexual habits, on-line or otherwise. Someone found your story, and told others. Is that the jist of things?

In any case, if you posted under your full name, you may wish to close your account and re-open another one with a handle (I sure as hell am not called Fire_Breeze off-line). If you haven't, who can truly verify if that's really you?

In my world, unless I am harmed, it's no one's business what I do sexually. I recently come back with some pretty spectacular bruises and marks, and had to explain to my oldest friend who was about to bust some knee caps after she saw them. THAT, I had to explain, to set her straight. Otherwise? I don't say a word; it's not that I'm ashamed. It's just that it's something between my all and myself, and no one else. If they want to know, they can ask, and I may chose to answer, or, I may not. What business is it to them? Do they ask how many times you use the lavatory per day?

And it's more fun to let them wonder

In other words? Calm down. Unless you're doing something that will cause harm or is criminal, it's your business as far as anyone is concerned. If you choose to tell people, so be it. If not, so being it. I sure as hell don't particularly care if your kink revolves around spanking, furries, or getting off with a swiffer and Reese's minis. Whatever floats your boat.

 

[lks2bite]

like they said...

like they said...close your old account and open a new one. Personally, I have put two stories on literotica and am proud of them. They aren't exactly conventional but then, neither am I. Be proud that you are a PUBLISHED author.

Those who don't like your sexual or writing choices can pee up a wet rope. Your choices are yours alone, not theirs. If they don't like it, or don't accept your choices (after all, the only person you may be harming with your choices is yourself) then they aren't very good friends.

 

[Dalika5]

Let me get this straight: although you have no internet, you posted a story describing one of your fantasies. You told a few people about your sexual habits, on-line or otherwise. Someone found your story, and told others. Is that the jist of things?

In any case, if you posted under your full name, you may wish to close your account and re-open another one with a handle (I sure as hell am not called Fire_Breeze off-line). If you haven't, who can truly verify if that's really you?

In my world, unless I am harmed, it's no one's business what I do sexually. I recently come back with some pretty spectacular bruises and marks, and had to explain to my oldest friend who was about to bust some knee caps after she saw them. THAT, I had to explain, to set her straight. Otherwise? I don't say a word; it's not that I'm ashamed. It's just that it's something between my all and myself, and no one else. If they want to know, they can ask, and I may chose to answer, or, I may not. What business is it to them? Do they ask how many times you use the lavatory per day?

And it's more fun to let them wonder

In other words? Calm down. Unless you're doing something that will cause harm or is criminal, it's your business as far as anyone is concerned. If you choose to tell people, so be it. If not, so be it. I sure as hell don't particularly care if your kink revolves around spanking, furries, or getting off with a swiffer and Reese's minis. Whatever floats your boat.

you know what, this is exactly what I needed to hear. thank you. in fact I'm not gonna make a new account. if they freak out then let them.

 

[lks2bite]

you know what, this is exactly what I needed to hear. thank you. in fact I'm not gonna make a new account. if they freak out then let them.

good for you!!!!!!

 

[satindesire]

you know what, this is exactly what I needed to hear. thank you. in fact I'm not gonna make a new account. if they freak out then let them.

Exactly the attitude you should have. What you do in your spare private time is none of their business, and they're the ones who end up looking like jerks for being so nosy. Hold your head high and let them poke around where they don't belong. You're not in the wrong.

 

[hiddenhere]

To the OP, with only one story uploaded you do not have too much of a habit, so you could have shared one of your written stories instead of one on the web...
At any rate, fire_breeze said what needed to be said. Good for you.

To satindesires, I love that you can hold many standards with the same aplomb.

 

[satindesire]

To the OP, with only one story uploaded you do not have too much of a habit, so you could have shared one of your written stories instead of one on the web...
At any rate, fire_breeze said what needed to be said. Good for you.

To satindesires, I love that you can hold many standards with the same aplomb.

Hitting on Fuckmeat during some of her darkest hours in her life is predatory and closet-rapist stalker-creepy. I really don't see how me telling the OP that she's going to be okay is even CLOSE to what I told you when you went psycho bunny-boiler on Fuckmeat. Because it isn't. Fuckmeat was going through some shit that would curl a Navy Seal's hair, and you came in like a shark scenting blood. If you want to hate on me because I called you out on being a creepster, do so and make sure everyone KNOWS what happened, rather than posting a link to just ONE post in a thread so that you can try and make yourself look innocent.

You're not.

Now gtfo, n00b.

 

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[sethp]

hi, I don't usually post here because I haven't internet but managed to get access to it. so I write stories, only have one posted but several written. I recently became open with a few people in my life about my sexual habits online and how I write my fantasies. one of these people however tole many more people. I don't know how to react here. apperantly the link to my story on this website has been found meaning deniability isn't a obvious option. so should I be open about it, avoid it what? any advice any of you can offer is greatly appreciated.

Yeah what they said. Only two real life peeps know that I write and they're both freaks like me. I keep this pretty DL. Just create a new email account and change your settings so that nobody can be sure it's you. If you're a writer like me, you write all kinds of stuff and erotica just happens to be one part of it. Keep writing ..that inner freak needs to be let out or you'll drive yourself insane!

 

[satindesire]

Sorry for hijacking the thread, or continuing an existing hijack, but I want to chime in for Satin on this one. Hitting on FM in the other thread was so out of line. Had you even read the rest of that thread? If so, how could that possibly be the time or the place for flirting with her? I understand having a crush on a fellow litster, I've been there myself. I also understand holding a grudge against the one who called you out in the thread. But, dude, go back and read the thread again. Have some compassion.

Also, anyone heard from fuckmeat? It's been a while since she's been here...

Jelly, I love you girl. You are so brash and I respect that. *highfive*

ETA: I have not heard from our darling FM...and I worry about her all the time. I miss her and VelvetDarkness the most.

 

[hiddenhere]

JtohisPB, I appreciate your kindness. I did read the whole thread back then, wretched and on edge as everybody else. I also remember the worry I had regarding all the compassion offered by fellow members. The love could be felt and the advise was sound, but the compassion… I think that was too much for FM.
I hope she is well. I miss her writings, but I am also sort of happy that she took a step back from these places.
The flirting, as you graciously put it, was nothing to second guess. It's Fuckmeat who we are talking about, not the ragged princess here who struggles following hyperlinks, but is so eager to jump on newbs… or anyone with a different point of view. I may have held a grudge if not for silverwhisper, who put better tail to the thread.
Closet-rapist stalker-creepy? psycho bunny-boiler? shark scenting blood?
wow… somebody please give this girl a good fuck for heaven's sake...


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[satindesire]

JtohisPB, I appreciate your kindness. I did read the whole thread back then, wretched and on edge as everybody else. I also remember the worry I had regarding all the compassion offered by fellow members. The love could be felt and the advise was sound, but the compassion… I think that was too much for FM.
I hope she is well. I miss her writings, but I am also sort of happy that she took a step back from these places.
The flirting, as you graciously put it, was nothing to second guess. It's Fuckmeat who we are talking about, not the ragged princess here who struggles following hyperlinks, but is so eager to jump on newbs… or anyone with a different point of view. I may have held a grudge if not for silverwhisper, who put better tail to the thread.
Closet-rapist stalker-creepy? psycho bunny-boiler? shark scenting blood?
wow… somebody please give this girl a good fuck for heaven's sake...

Yeah, that's exactly what it was. It was creepy and out of line. I'm not eager to jump on n00bs, just on anyone who tries to sniff around my friends' pussy when she's bleeding from the heart from deep emotional wounds and doesn't need a dickheaded hornbag like you fucking with her.

That kind of move is like hitting on a girl that just got roofied and raped at a party, and you see her crying in the bathroom with her friends. Even though you KNOW what just happened, you're so horny and so out of touch with your human compassion that you can't help but try and get laid.

It's fucking sick.

You need to step out of this conversation right now before you make yourself look like an even bigger shitheel than you already are. You messed up. I called you on it, now you're coming back months after whining that you got called out. Get over it, wise up and take your lumps like a big boy.

 

[hiddenhere]

You are trying way too hard. Your scenarios are very sick and everyone can see through them. Stay low for a while and you will be fine.

 

[Etaski]

Mmm....no. Myself knowing absolutely nothing about the previous situation (nor did I follow the link you provided, frankly, I don't care), I'd say you, hiddenhere, are coming across as the one who should lay low and leave it alone.

You were wrong to hijack the thread of a newb for some past grievance and make snide comments to satindesire in public. You could have done it in pm form instead to get your point across to her, but no, you wanted to solicit public cheerleaders, perhaps?

I don't think you're going to get it. Leave it alone, and build your own reputation over time. This will fall away if you let it.

Just saying. Since it's public an' all.

 

[klippert]

Not much of a friend. If one person knows its a secret....If two people know...than everyone knows.

I don't hardly tell my brother ana'thang. That fucker (I love him) has the biggest case of diarrhea of the mouth..

Not much advice to give. Rats out of the bag. More like a teaching moment. make sure you know your friends...

 

[Dalika5]

for those apologizing, don't worry, I've been on forums before, I get how they snow ball from post's into complete hijackings. anyway I don't know what the fightings about, nor do I want to. Back on topic. no Dalika5 isn't even close to my real name. between you and a few friends who offered advice I have decided the following.

1. I'll keep this account
2. Should my schoolmates read my writings and find some problem with me then okay, I've played the role of social outsider before.
3. This forum is a very good place.

 

[nastyman12a]

Everyone has fantasies. Not everyone can or has the strength (for lack of a better phrase) to explore their fantasies. And unfortunately those are the ones that usually have a problem with things.

 

[MR.GGG]

Whippeddeedoodaa

Firebreeze/Etaski summed it all up nicely. Not-withstanding all the other BS intrigue I'll agree. If you come here and write what would be considered weird shit by most standards (I shuddder to think what Fire does with her Reese's®) then be completely diabolically ANON.

If on the other hand you're writing simple erotica then who the hell cares? I've never written my real name in here but by association it is not hard to track me down to who I am. Nothing I've written in here on my TRY THIS thread or any other thread is anything to be ashamed of. Most of it is advice anyway so I'm sharing just like good erotica shares your erotic thoughts with others. No big deal.

I haven't read your stories so the above is just a generalization and common sense. Sadly many so called fantasies are criminally sadistic or so damn weird your own momma would consider post-natal abortion to keep you from the innocents. In that case JFO now. Write for yourself and stay in your own damn basement.