so I've got a dilemma

[szyc0-1]

My (not certain exactly what she is, ex or in process or wife) has now asked me to try to arrange something so that she can have an experience with another woman with me included in the mix.

Obviously, I have *no* problem with that, in fact I quite invite it, however, the dilemma is that she is being *VERY* particular as to some of the characteristics of the other woman. She has told me that the woman should be just about her size, perhaps just a little bit larger but not much (around 5'8" 125), very clean (almost weird-clean), pretty - not too pretty, little experience if any, and around 25-28 years old.

Has anyone out there experienced these demands before from someone who has now gone from mentioning it to becoming very buggy about it? If so, please let me know were you able to come up with anyone?

Oh, and if there are any nice young ladies out there who might fit the bill, please contact me.

 

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My (not certain exactly what she is, ex or in process or wife) has now asked me to try to arrange something so that she can have an experience with another woman with me included in the mix.

Obviously, I have *no* problem with that, in fact I quite invite it, however, the dilemma is that she is being *VERY* particular as to some of the characteristics of the other woman. She has told me that the woman should be just about her size, perhaps just a little bit larger but not much (around 5'8" 125), very clean (almost weird-clean), pretty - not too pretty, little experience if any, and around 25-28 years old.

Has anyone out there experienced these demands before from someone who has now gone from mentioning it to becoming very buggy about it? If so, please let me know were you able to come up with anyone?

Oh, and if there are any nice young ladies out there who might fit the bill, please contact me.

Good luck dude. We are looking to do the same, but my wife is not bugging me to find some one. It will happen in due time. Besides if you do find some one, did you stop think that your soon to be ex, wife, what ever, will fit the bill on what they are looking for? Ask her that.

 

[cuzinevil]

Oh, and if there are any nice young ladies out there who might fit the bill, please contact me. [/B][/QUOTE]

I think that since she is being so particular, that perhaps she should find the girl...she could be as fussy as she wants to be then

 

[houston32M]

hmmmmmm

Sounds like she does not want someone better looking then her, might be a normal thing - everyone has issues related to self confidence.

Not a big deal, just conform to her wishes and everyone will be happy.

Just remember - do not show the new person more attention then your current partner!

Good luck

 

[szyc0-1]

Re: Re: so I've got a dilemma

Good luck dude. We are looking to do the same, but my wife is not bugging me to find some one. It will happen in due time. Besides if you do find some one, did you stop think that your soon to be ex, wife, what ever, will fit the bill on what they are looking for? Ask her that.

aye, I did, she said that would be part of the game. I don't hold out much confidence that this will come to be, not being a pessimist, just trying to be realistic. I think that she's trying to put too many rules on the situation...

 

[szyc0-1]

Re: Re: so I've got a dilemma

I think that since she is being so particular, that perhaps she should find the girl...she could be as fussy as she wants to be then [/B][/QUOTE]

yeah, I mentioned that, she claims that I'm much better at picking up women than she could ever be, but I think that's just jealousy talking b/c she knows about my gf's...