So, I'm pretty sure there's a gay guy in my science class....

[StacyTG]

Now, admittedly, I don't have much real life experience with gay guys. But I'm pretty sure this guy in my science class is, and he is FUCKING HOT. I don't mean to generalize, and I don't want to come across as prejudice, but the way he talks and the way he carries himself, he's either very attuned to his femininity or he's gay. Personally, and truthfully, I'm hoping it's the latter, but, how do I approach the subject?

I mean, do I just go up to him and ask him? That seems a bit direct, and if he isn't gay, I risk offending him. I totally want to ask him out, but the fact of the matter is unless he came out and said so, I'm almost too afraid to ask...so, help a gurl out, fellow listers! How do I 1.) figure out whether or not he's really gay; and 2.) how do I ask him out?

I've never asked a guy out before, and I'm not sure how. Do I tell him I'm transgendered? Do I reveal that and risk scaring him off? Or do I open myself to him and tell him truthfully that I'm attracted to him, and I get the feeling that he's gay, and that's why I'm asking him out, and apologize for asking if he isn't?

I don't know, but all I know is that when he was standing next to me in lab the other day, my heart was about beating out of my chest. I don't know how else to say it...he was intoxicating.



Help me, Listers, you're my only hope!

 

[FloridaCouple]

How do I 1.) figure out whether or not he's really gay; and 2.) how do I ask him out?

Tell him you were watching an episode of Queer Eye for the Straight Guy. If he gets all excited and giddy, then he's gay.

 

[jackstud]

Dont ask him out

Be a friend. Have coffee. If he is, it will cum up

 

[ProfBoxers]

Jackstud has it right. Just be friendly, be yourself, and find out about him. Even if he isn't gay, you never know what may happen. Who knows what makes people attracted to each other, and if he's naturally open minded, he might like you regardless of his previous experience.

Good luck, beautiful.

 

[Marci_M]

My brother is bi, and the first time he had to approach another guy he was very unsure and nervous.

I told him to talk to him for a while, as a friend, then flirt a little. If he flirts back, you have your answer

I hope it all work out well for you.

 

[Chrissi]

Be a friend. Have coffee. If he is, it will cum up

This.

 

[Etoile]

Tell him you were watching an episode of Queer Eye for the Straight Guy. If he gets all excited and giddy, then he's gay.

Is that show still on?!

 

[bigglles]

Tell him you were watching an episode of Queer Eye for the Straight Guy. If he gets all excited and giddy, then he's gay.

Or he's one of the crab people.

 

[Marci_M]

Staci, what's been happening with that guy you were talking about? We need details, gf

 

[CandiCame]

Be a friend. Have coffee. If he is, it will cum up

This is probably the best approach- but I suck at that shit so I strait-up ask folk out. Then you're stuck paying.

Staci, what's been happening with that guy you were talking about? We need details, gf

Yeah! You know we love you, Stace! What happened!?!

 

[StacyTG]

This is probably the best approach- but I suck at that shit so I strait-up ask folk out. Then you're stuck paying.





Yeah! You know we love you, Stace! What happened!?!

Nothing yet.

He wasn't in lab the other day (Tuesday), and this past Thursday our class was cancelled. He's always one of the students that stays longer to finish the lab, etc. I was waiting for my moment, but it didn't work out.

I just hope I don't come on too strong. If he says he wants to grab a cup of coffee, how do I bring the subject up?

 

[jackstud]

Nothing yet.

He wasn't in lab the other day (Tuesday), and this past Thursday our class was cancelled. He's always one of the students that stays longer to finish the lab, etc. I was waiting for my moment, but it didn't work out.

I just hope I don't come on too strong. If he says he wants to grab a cup of coffee, how do I bring the subject up?

Talk about the class work. Ask for help with the homework