So, I suddenly realized today..

[Flower Petals]

That I am very very curious.. Bi, that is.


Now, how do I go about taking the 'curious' part of my title away? Not playfully, but like, for real?

 

[HeavyStick]

oh you'll be getting volunteers and PM's....

 

[RastaPope]

oh you'll be getting volunteers and PM's....

Not all from people she'd want to accept though...<shivers>

 

[Flower Petals]

Yeah, I likely will, but that's not exactly what I mean.



I wanna know how one goes about actualy changing from being a straight girl to... well... not. I guess what scares me, is trying to get into a comfortable situation without fear of rejection. Now, I know, that's normal in any relationship, but it's gotta be more so... doesn't it? I mean, a girl goes to another girl, only to be rejected because she doesn't swing that way... ok, ok, way to heavy of a subject for so late at night, and I know damn well that I am not projecting it the way I mean to.

 

[scylis]

That I am very very curious.. Bi, that is.


Now, how do I go about taking the 'curious' part of my title away? Not playfully, but like, for real?

here's a little tip: having sex with a woman goes a long way towards droping the "curious" monkier.

 

[SpiceCake]

That I am very very curious.. Bi, that is.


Now, how do I go about taking the 'curious' part of my title away? Not playfully, but like, for real?

What do you want to know?

 

[Sillyman]

Not my field of expertise. You just can't let yourself get too intimidated, and remember women are generally harder to catch than men.

 

[Flower Petals]

I guess, overall, what I want to know... is how do I go about trying something?


I don't have any bi/lesbian friends, so I don't know anyone to even... god, this is weird to even try to say. I don't know.

 

[Sillyman]

I guess, overall, what I want to know... is how do I go about trying something?


I don't have any bi/lesbian friends, so I don't know anyone to even... god, this is weird to even try to say. I don't know.

Have you though about gay bars?

 

[Laurel]

Are you looking to have a relationship with a woman, or are you looking to have sex with a woman?

I'm not asking for myself - I'm straight and involved. I just think you should be aware of what you're after from the onset. If you get involved with some chick who falls in love with you - when all you're interested in is finding out what another girl tastes like - and you end up breaking her heart, that would be pretty callous.

 

[RastaPope]

Bi chicks are trendier than SUV's these days. Shouldn't be hard to find one willing to give you a go.

 

[HeavyStick]

Big chicks are trendier than SUV's these days. Shouldn't be hard to find one willing to give you a go.

"Big" or "Bi"? don't scare the poor lady she's Bi-curoius for now I don't think her first objective is Xena the Warrior Princess.

 

[Flower Petals]

For starters, I don't enter any relationship just for sex. That's not a relationship, that's being used, and I've been in the bad spot of that, and refuse to do that to anyone. I don't think it's about sex right now. It's about finding out if I wouldlike to have a girlfriend for once, rather then a boyfriend. I think.


Like I said, confused, odd, weird, etc. Just ignore me tonight. I'm to tired to type out my thoughts the way they are supposed to come out. I'm thinking one thing, and it's nearly impossible for me to get it out in type right now.

 

[Cibo]

I don't think that's true...there is always just a fuck buddy. Who says your fuck buddy has to be a male?

 

[scylis]

ok, your best bet is to find an establishment that caters to the crowd you're looking for. maybe a bar, maybe a coffee house, whatever. just go there and be yourself. don't tell them you're bi-curious until you get a good feel for what they're like; some might just see you as an easy lay if you do. spend some time with someone, since it's best to do anything sexually for the first time with someone you trust. get to know them a little.

just approach it in a rational way. don't get carried away. don't panic and give up if at first you don't succede.






wait a minute... what the hell am i saying?!? i don't know what the hell i'm talking about. i've never been clubbing. the best i've done was cop a feel after failing to undo a bra strap, and then got dumped over MSN a few months later. ok, just disregard the above. it isn't the droids you're looking for. move along about your business. *waves hand in the air like some kinda Jedi*

 

[Laurel]

For starters, I don't enter any relationship just for sex. That's not a relationship, that's being used, and I've been in the bad spot of that, and refuse to do that to anyone. I don't think it's about sex right now. It's about finding out if I wouldlike to have a girlfriend for once, rather then a boyfriend. I think.

Right on.

What Scylis said.

 

[scylis]

Right on.

What Scylis said.

you fucking what?

hmm.. i guess it's one thing to know what to do and to give advice to others about it, yet something else entirely to actually go out and do it.

 

[SadnonMage]

Laurel

Do you ever sleep?

 

[Laurel]

Hell no. Sleep is for wimps.