So how much would it bug you...

[Mia62]

To find out when your spouse came home from work that he/she allowed some strange man/woman to touch them sexually at work?

I am curious because according to Ms_Lilith, it bugged her boyfriend but "not much" and it wouldn't bug her if he let some woman stroke him through his pants.

Yes it bugged him, but not much. Read more carefully.

And a blowjob, and a stroke of the sex are different. if some chick had rubbed his cock through his pants? Might bug me a bit. But I think I'd find it kinda hot.

For me...I would be furious. What about you?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I think you get overly concerned about things that have no effect on you.

 

[hydrex]

I was just wondering if Lilith had or was trying to fuck everyone on Lit.

 

[Mia62]

I tried to put myself in your shoes in an attempt to understand how you felt it was so cool and couldn't do it. First of all, I wouldn't let some strange guy stroke me in any way - through clothes or not - and it would bug the hell out of me if some chick had done the same thing to my boyfriend. I just wondered if I am the only one who would be bugged by this. Hell, maybe I am the prude if this is normal behaviour for people who go to work.

 

[Fata Morgana]

I'd have his feckin knackers through the mincer.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

it's not normal behavior for people who go to work. It was one day, one moment of one day, where I let myself get outta line. *shrug*

Way to make a mountain out of that molehill, mia.

You have a knack for that.

 

[hydrex]

I tried to put myself in your shoes in an attempt to understand how you felt it was so cool and couldn't do it. First of all, I wouldn't let some strange guy stroke me in any way - through clothes or not - and it would bug the hell out of me if some chick had done the same thing to my boyfriend. I just wondered if I am the only one who would be bugged by this. Hell, maybe I am the prude if this is normal behaviour for people who go to work.

yeah if it had happened to a GF of mine I'd be looking to kick someones ass but maybe Lilith and her s/o have a different relationship. Some couples are like that.

 

[hydrex]

I'd have his feckin knackers through the mincer.

*looks for jammie............hmmmmmmmmm no jammie, no knackers*

 

[Guest]

lilith, if I were you I'd just own up to a little fantasy that back fired - the more you pile on the deeper you sink.

 

[Mia62]

it's not normal behavior for people who go to work. It was one day, one moment of one day, where I let myself get outta line. *shrug*

Way to make a mountain out of that molehill, mia.

You have a knack for that.

As I said to you in your other thread...trust and security have different meanings for you and me, I guess.

first, he did not finger my pussy. There was no penetration, nor skin on skin. He rubbed my pussy a few times, through the fabric of my pants.

second, yes, trust is a wonderful thing... and so is security. He and I are secure enough in our relationship that things like this are not a huge deal... we're more open than we were a few years ago, and things like this serve as checkpoints for where we are on such issues.

He and I are both past it, and I've learned from my imprudence.

*shrug* Relax.

Trust and security must have different meanings for you than me. Trust and security to me and my boyfriend is knowing that we are the only ones to touch each other in a sexual way...not some stranger while at work.

 

[Mia62]

lilith, if I were you I'd just own up to a little fantasy that back fired - the more you pile on the deeper you sink.

Into my mountain or her little molehill.

 

[Fata Morgana]

*looks for jammie............hmmmmmmmmm no jammie, no knackers*

Hello Shifty! Are you planning on foraging through my undergrowth then?

 

[nitengale]

It would piss me off, and I would also wonder how he got himself into that situation to begin with.

 

[Morcheeba]

He's not daft and wouldn't tell me something like that happened.

He knows I'd introduce myself to her in a special way and wouldn't want the drama.

Besides, he's not about head games.

 

[Fata Morgana]

He's not daft and wouldn't tell me something like that happened.

He knows I'd introduce myself to her in a special way and wouldn't want the drama.

Besides, he's not about head games.

Does special involve a machete? If so, I like your style.

 

[restlessnights]

I just asked him.

His answer: "Getting fondled at work is not allowed."

 

[crazybbwgirl]

I don't know how you married people do it?

If my lover told me such a tale I'd probably make him tell me every little detail so we'd both get kinda excited and go have wild crazy sex. But that's just me...

 

[bisexplicit]

It would get me quite angry, personally.

But, other people have other ways they live their lives.

 

[Lost Cause]

I would wish her well with her single life.........it takes two!

 

[Morcheeba]

Does special involve a machete? If so, I like your style.

Actually, special once involved my selection of beautiful sconces as a Christmas gift for one of his co-workers... a woman he mentioned a bit too often for my taste. I made him give them to her and yes, I signed the card.

 

[*~sekzee1~*]

I would be livid! But then again as someone pointed out each relationship is different. What is something that would make me ready to make him a eunuch may be fine by anothers standards

 

[Mia62]

Wow, I am glad to know that I am not the only to feel this way...for about a nanosecond there I felt like a prude.

 

[GeorgeWBush]

I would be pissed if it happened to my girl and i would want to throw the guy out the window of where they worked.

 

[Tinkersquash]

First of all, I want to say that I'd be scared witless if a stranger tried to fondle me. Although I would like think I'd have one wit left with which to defend myself against them. There really are heaps of creeps out there and I wouldn't want to give that person even a hint of anything that could be misconstrued as encouragement, lest they decide to wait for me after work and give me a thorough going over in more private settings. For example, the trunk of his car.

My partner initially said he'd be angry and perhaps a bit jealous if I allowed a stranger to fondle me at work. After thinking about it a bit he said if it were something I really wanted to try/do then he'd be more open-minded about it.

 

[Malachi]

Actually, special once involved my selection of beautiful sconces as a Christmas gift for one of his co-workers... a woman he mentioned a bit too often for my taste. I made him give them to her and yes, I signed the card.

3 entries found for sconce.
sconce1 Audio pronunciation of "sconce" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (skns)
n.

A small defensive earthwork or fort.


sconce2 Audio pronunciation of "sconce" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (skns)
n.

1. A decorative wall bracket for holding candles or lights.
2. A flattened candlestick that has a handle.
3. Slang. The human head or skull.



What kind of sconce? Was it supposed to scare her?