So how is it possible that ....?

[virginleo20]

There are no single, adult, non-religious, non-smoking, non-alcoholic and oterwise completely drug and disease free women out there whom have not slept around and whom dislike loud over crowded parties?


The answers to my questions will most likely be as twisted as the lack of correct a aplication of the rules of laguage in the previous sentence.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

define alcohol-free, and 'not slept around'.

 

[Guest]

There are no single, adult, non-religious, non-smoking, non-alcoholic and oterwise completely drug and disease free women out there whom have not slept around and whom dislike loud over crowded parties?

I meet all of those requirements except for the 'single' part, lol.

 

[Lust Engine]

Just because they might be rare doesn't mean one gives up on trying to find one. Granted your list could be a bit stringent by some people's standards but it is YOUR wish list.

Good luck trying to find someone who fulfills all of these requirements for you.

 

[Etoile]

I know there are plenty of online matchmaking services that let you search based on those criteria.

 

[makeluv2u]

They are definitley hard to find! you may have better luck trying to convert some.

My definition of slept around means that you reasonabally loved each of your partners. ( hehe. just loving sex don't count)

And i can handle religion. but would like to add good looking/confident to the list.

Know whats strange, most girls are at those parties to find a guy! same thing with bars.... kind of strange that both sexes endure what they aren't fond of to hook up.

 

[SexyGiggles]

I know lots of women in their mid-20's that fit all those categories! They're all searching for the equivalent male! So far, none in the San Francisco area...

 

[dollface007]

Well, it looks like you have just knocked out 3 very fertile grounds for meeting women: churches, bars, and parties. You better start asking your friends, family, and coworkers to set you up with women who fit this description.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

so how is it that there are NO MEN in my side of the city that EAT PUSSY eh...

 

[virginleo20]

well....

well vixenshe to your question... how do i define "slept around"?
Well if they have already lept with someone i dont want to deal with it... same goes for alcohol abuse.

Women never have been very kind to me and having to deal with the memories of sertain game playing individuals and how they molested me severely in the past is not my idea of a good start for a relationship. Knowing that someone has behaved in accordance to the same behavior models as those individuals in the same sircumstances do bring up a lot of unwanted memories.



Lust engine.. well actually i gave up on dating long ago around the same time my hear grew cold and unfeeling due to the reasons mentioned above. Its what hapens to all men but to me a bit sooner than most. No self pity or anything involved just a bit of reality. But thanks for the vote of confidence.




Etoile... Well Do you know of any that do not involve me giving out my credit cardnumbers on the internet? ( aka free and reliable services.)
tried the internet thing a while back and as soon as i gave out my picture i stopped recieving e-mails. and we all know how often women actually cal guys on the phone first. . or even return them.

Sorry a bit of sarcasm there but i dreally do apreciate your help and advice. .




SexyGiggles..... Im glad to hear that there are atleast some out there i know that the number is somewhere in the range of 1/10000 of a %. but this much i do know.. there are none in the San Diego area...
Its nice to know that there are atleast some up north .. in case i ever decide to migrate.

 

[dollface007]

Re: well....

well vixenshe to your question... how do i define "slept around"?
Well if they have already lept with someone i dont want to deal with it... same goes for alcohol abuse.

You want an adult non-religious virgin????? I know they are your standards and there's nothing wrong with them except for the fact that they are entirely too unrealistic. Most of the virgins i know past the age of 18 or 19 are virgins for religious reasons. The average age at which girls lose their virginity in the U.S. is 15-16.
Let's say for instance, a woman was in love with the person/people she slept with. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, and as long as there are no exes hanging around and no lingering feelings for the other guy, i don't think that should be an issue.
If you want to be in a relationship with a woman, you have to be willing to trust her and judge her based on who she is, not what she has done in the past. I don't mean to lecture you, but i'm just saying that if you approached women with a different perpective, you might have more luck.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[virginleo20]

Doll face

Doll face did you read the paragraph i wrote on abuse from such individuals.... well that tends to thwart off any "different" perspectives on how to aproach women. As to these days.. i do approac women with an open mind but as of so far i am yet to meet one whom would treat l me as a human being. that is anyone single...

 

[dollface007]

Re: Doll face

Doll face did you read the paragraph i wrote on abuse from such individuals.... well that tends to thwart off any "different" perspectives on how to aproach women. As to these days.. i do approac women with an open mind but as of so far i am yet to meet one whom would treat l me as a human being. that is anyone single...

Yes, i did read it and my advice still stands. Now read your above paragraph. The key word there is "individuals." That's all they are. Game-playing does not apply to all women who are not virgins. I'm glad you are willing to keep an open mind, but an open heart would get you even further. It's unfortunate that you haven't met a nice girl yet. I hope you do!!

 

[MagicFingers]

No eating on her side of town?

ROFLMAO!!!!

I just spewed all over my computer...

...and I have the SAME complaint!!!!

Come on over to MY side of town and I'll eat you both until you can't stand up.
OBTW, If you get eaten, you can still qualify as a virgin on his list, right?
(Just don't yell OMG when you're cumming.)
You know, just thought about it. I'm not far from San Diego, and I was going to say, nope, there aren't any women there that fit that description. However, if you are not over 12, I think there may be a few left. Good luck.

 

[Guest]

lol I feel the love! ....

Babygirl ... put that AV back up!

 

[MagicFingers]

Keep searching

Virginleo20, I didn't mean to make light of your problem.
I just read your last post more carefully. I can understand why you want to avoid all those type women who have used and abused you in the past. You probably won't find a perfect woman. However, you CAN find one who is compassionate, loving, caring, accepting, and one who is working on making herself a better person.
I have known disfunctional people who found mates at group therapy meetings, and AA members who met people at AA meetings. These people were not perfect, but they were all doing something about it!
Good luck. Don't give up.

 

[virginleo20]

Magic fingers... thanks for you vote of conffidence but its kind of irrelavent since we both know the reality of the situation. ( I might as well go and "date" someone with more STD's than James bond)

but in any case i can take a joke of anykind ( unlike some of the peole present on these boards names shall go unmentioned)

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Carnus]

I am not sure exactly what you are hopng to get out of what you are saying here. I am 38 years old (today actually is my birthday) but in your comments you talk about women badly, talk about how horrible they have treated you, and how all men are doomed to be treated that way. Well I do NOT agree, I personally love women in general, whether they are someone I know or not, in my opinion all women are wonderful, have something about them that shows the world they are worthy of love. I don't know how you got so mixed up in the way you look at women, but I really hope for your sake you can find a way to get over the way you feel. Perhaps you should seek professional help instead of merely venting your feelings at people here who enjoy these boards and are not looking for a revelation about the world, but for warm friends and people to talk with.

I am sorry that life has made you feel they way you do, and I sincerely hope that your life will change soon and you will find someone to love and who loves you, just remember that no one is perfect and we all have our faults.

Good luck in life

Carnus

 

[anders^g]

Re: well....

well vixenshe to your question... how do i define "slept around"?
Well if they have already lept with someone i dont want to deal with it... same goes for alcohol abuse.

Sounds to me like "Non religious virgin who doesn't drink, seeks alike" ad...

I didn't expect that when i found my love - But i was a virgin until I got married at age 27! No religion involved - Just a commitment from/for myself

 

[anders^g]

I am not sure exactly what you are hopng to get out of what you are saying here. I am 38 years old (today actually is my birthday)

What can I say, other than HAPPY BIRTHDAY Carnus!!!

 

[Etoile]

Re: well....

Etoile... Well Do you know of any that do not involve me giving out my credit cardnumbers on the internet? ( aka free and reliable services.)
tried the internet thing a while back and as soon as i gave out my picture i stopped recieving e-mails. and we all know how often women actually cal guys on the phone first. . or even return them.

Sorry a bit of sarcasm there but i dreally do apreciate your help and advice.

I used to edit http://dmoz.org/Society/Relationships/Dating/Personals/ and I know there are plenty of free sites in there. If you're not interested in the Internet thing anymore, though, I'm not sure how much help that will be to you.

 

[Lust Engine]

I am not sure exactly what you are hopng to get out of what you are saying here. I am 38 years old (today actually is my birthday) but in your comments you talk about women badly, talk about how horrible they have treated you, and how all men are doomed to be treated that way. Well I do NOT agree, I personally love women in general, whether they are someone I know or not, in my opinion all women are wonderful, have something about them that shows the world they are worthy of love. I don't know how you got so mixed up in the way you look at women, but I really hope for your sake you can find a way to get over the way you feel. Perhaps you should seek professional help instead of merely venting your feelings at people here who enjoy these boards and are not looking for a revelation about the world, but for warm friends and people to talk with.

I am sorry that life has made you feel they way you do, and I sincerely hope that your life will change soon and you will find someone to love and who loves you, just remember that no one is perfect and we all have our faults.

Good luck in life

Carnus

Well happy birthday Carnus!

I couldn't agree with you more. It's one thing to state a fact about things but there are twinges of being a victim of society here. While it's not always peaches & cream, it's not that bad either. But as long as I don't constantly think of myself as being down & out, I can get through most things.

 

[Carnus]

Well happy birthday Carnus!

I couldn't agree with you more. It's one thing to state a fact about things but there are twinges of being a victim of society here. While it's not always peaches & cream, it's not that bad either. But as long as I don't constantly think of myself as being down & out, I can get through most things.

Thank you, and yep, as long as you look up, you will catch glimpses of stars and blue sky, keep always looking down and all you see is dirt.

Carnus