So confused.

[xpumpkinpiex]

Okay, so my girlfriend and I broke up couple of weeks ago. Was given the 'we should just be friends' line. I agreed of course, because I knew our friendship is much to important to me than losing her altogether. The problem is, I'm still in love with her. I'll be seeing her again soon, and I don't know what to do! I want her back, but I don't want to end up ruining anything. The break up was unexpected and a few things have been left unsaid. So I'm hoping to sort them when I see her. We were friends for a year before we got together. What I want to know is whether or not it's a good idea for me to try and win her back or respect her wishes and just treat her like my best friend again? Wasn't too sure whether or not this was the right place to post this. But yeah, any advice is welcome. And yes, I am a female. Lol.

 

[BlueyeGuy51]

Indifference and attitude are your best chances for a reconciliation. Forget the detailed pouring out of unsaid thoughts or pleas for another chance. Act as if it's her loss and give it a little time and separation. Push her away a little and then see if she doesn't come back.

 

[boredVAwife]

Baby she might not actually feel towards you the same as you do about her. Give it space and time. It sounds like an old cliche but it's true. If it was meant to be, it probably will be. If not, even the most heartfelt expression will only delay the inevitable. I wish the best for you and that it turns out good in the end.

 

[xpumpkinpiex]

Thank you =]

Thanks you guys. I really appreciate this. Time and space sounds about right. Actually I've been giving her a lot of space. Haha. She apparently doesn't like it when i don't contact her for like a week so it gets confusing. Ah well, I think I'll take both of your advice. Cliche or not, there's a reason why it's called a cliche. So THANKS AGAIN!

 

[boredVAwife]

Sending lots of hugs and warm thoughts your way. Times like these are not easy and sometimes you have to remind yourself of the good things that you still have in your life. I bet if you gave some thought you'd see that there are lots of folks around you that think you are a special person and lots of other reasons to smile. Keep loving yourself and maybe she will see that she is more complete with you than without.

 

[Krystal89]

Good luck. Things have a reason for happening. You just may need to wait a bit to find out what is supposed to happen. Be cautious give it space and time, and wait and see what happens.......Sending good thoughts....

 

[klippert]

pull yourself together man...er, woman. The best advice when your heart strings have been pulled..... especially from a break-up. DO NOT SEE THAT PERSON any any cost. I know bumping into someone is happen stance. Just avoid them. When you finally do see them you might have a roller coaster affect in you stomach...BUT. you'll be much more prepared.

 

[xpumpkinpiex]

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Thanks again everyone. You guys are amazing.