so any doms out there?
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CutieMouse
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Firstly, those of the male gender are "Doms"; those of the female gender are "Dommes". Due to this fact, your thread will more likely be opened by men, than women. (Just a helpful little FYI.)
Secondly, the number of male submissive types to female dominant types are about 10 to 1, which means if one wishes to attract the attention of a Domme, one generally has to stand out in the crowd, which is quite difficult to do in three sentences or less.
Thirdly, you make no mention if you are looking for an actual face to face encounter/relationship, or to simply fulfill some cyber-fantasy/exploration thing... if you are looking to explore online, you will probably have to line up behid the 7,652 other guys trying to convince a Domme that they should invest their time/energy/emotions on what statisticly tends to turn out to be a "do me queen". (no offense intended)
Good luck.
Secondly, the number of male submissive types to female dominant types are about 10 to 1, which means if one wishes to attract the attention of a Domme, one generally has to stand out in the crowd, which is quite difficult to do in three sentences or less.
Thirdly, you make no mention if you are looking for an actual face to face encounter/relationship, or to simply fulfill some cyber-fantasy/exploration thing... if you are looking to explore online, you will probably have to line up behid the 7,652 other guys trying to convince a Domme that they should invest their time/energy/emotions on what statisticly tends to turn out to be a "do me queen". (no offense intended)
Good luck.
Well put, but don't give up
Well put CutieMouse, you have given some solid advice there; but you shouldn't give up sneak, and don't read Cutie's message wrong. She is just stating some facts that initiates might not know. (Dom vs. Domme for example) You will have much better luck perhaps by starting a new thread with Domme in the title, and have some patience.
Although they say that patience is a virtue, and I'm not a virtuous person, you might scare some off by continually asking everyday if there are ladies out there. They will come if you present yourself as a slave worth owning, don't worry. And don't be afraid to be specific - it cuts down on the messages you'd have to wade through if you aren't.
Keep looking and don't be afraid of advice.
Well put CutieMouse, you have given some solid advice there; but you shouldn't give up sneak, and don't read Cutie's message wrong. She is just stating some facts that initiates might not know. (Dom vs. Domme for example) You will have much better luck perhaps by starting a new thread with Domme in the title, and have some patience.
Although they say that patience is a virtue, and I'm not a virtuous person, you might scare some off by continually asking everyday if there are ladies out there. They will come if you present yourself as a slave worth owning, don't worry. And don't be afraid to be specific - it cuts down on the messages you'd have to wade through if you aren't.
Keep looking and don't be afraid of advice.
