Smiling models at the end...

[miaction69]

i think it depends if the BDSM is a lifestyle or sex play
I like it - not in extremity - not as a lifestyle -but playful
yeah of course I'm gonna smile afterwards
there are different extremes
- mutual consent
- mutual enjoyment
- no physical or emotional damage
my rules only
btw I haven't seen the website vids the thread starter is referring to

 

[Netzach]

Porn just bores me. Maybe it's because the things that happen in my actual life are more appealing to me than the shit that happens in porn? I dunno.

99.999 percent of the time, I agree.

T girl porn is the only thing that I perk up for lately, and only some of it. Aggressive Brazilian T girls beating up a really "unfortunate" Brazilian dude was the only thing to get me going in the last year.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

There is usually an element of fantasy in my sexual fantasies.

Porn just bores me. Maybe it's because the things that happen in my actual life are more appealing to me than the shit that happens in porn? I dunno.

And that's why I'm never fully satisfied with porn. Well vids. Pics are different. I can build the fantasy I want around a particular picture, be it the position, the facial expressions, or whatever.

Vids always end up being mildly disappointing and often boring, because they never fully match the fantasy I'm seeking. Often, I find myself viewing several, and wishing I could mush them together into uber porn.

 

[ownedsubgal]

i don't get the whole fantasy/porn connection. what i fantasize about sexually and what i want to see in porn are very different...probably because 98% of the things i fantasize about are horrifying, inhumane, repulsive criminal acts, stuff which would be completely illegal to produce and would make me feel like a monster to actually sit and watch (not that i still haven't done so once or twice).

in filmed porn i just want to see nice, clear visuals of basic sex. but basic sex as i know and understand it, that's all.

 

[intothewoods]

I don't have an avid fantasy life really, and I wouldn't mind a straight up sex porn. I just don't need to relate to the woman in the porn in a literal way. She doesn't need to be anything like me.

 

[00Syd]

I just like watching people fuck. *shrug*

 

[ownedsubgal]

I don't have an avid fantasy life really, and I wouldn't mind a straight up sex porn. I just don't need to relate to the woman in the porn in a literal way. She doesn't need to be anything like me.

oh, well i get that totally. i don't seek out porn with females who are anything like myself...surfing for good porn is hard enough without adding those stipulations, lol. i don't need to identify with the female, i need to identify with the sexual experience, it needs to be sex as i know it. i know i keep saying that, but it's so important. in comparison to most folks, and especially in comparison to you kinky folks, my sexuality is extremely narrow. it's comprised of two things: serving men, and being used by men...and that's IT, no add-ons. therefore the most basic expressions of "normal" sexuality are completely foreign to me. if i watch a vid of a man even fleetingly attempting to arouse a woman sexually, or of a woman having an orgasm (fake or real, doesn't matter), or of smiling happy female faces, etc...my brain does not really process what i'm viewing as sex, because during the course of my entire lifetime, sex has never been remotely that way.

so yeah...basic sucking and scrumping is what i wanna see...but what is basic and mundane to me is rape/coercion/abuse/sad to most.

 

[nelson808]

....video clips that seem to follow a set pattern; the highlights of the bondage, followed by a session where we see the models involved all cute and bubbly and enthusiastic about the experience that they've had.

Nothing to do with anything exhalting or lofty. It is STRICTLY credit card processing requirement. The twisted logic is that if they smile at the end its all OK. The idiots do not understand editing a.k.a. shoot the smiles first and then snuff the buggers !! Nobody would know the difference