Small town life

[RSHornyCouple]

Are there any other sexually exploring couples that feel limited by the size of their community. Also seeking advice on keeping sexual adventures secret well being able to keep things exciting.

 

[Jacques_Corbin]

A small community is actually a blessing in disguise. My ex used to like to find local women for 3ways, but every so often, they would just show up, trying to hook up with her or I individually, looking for a place to crash, wanting to borrow money, etc.

Now, with my current wife, we seek a female third, or possibly another couple, that lives at least a 3 hour drive away, so that we can get together, have fun, and then get back to our very private lives, without and unwanted complications.

Literotica is full of wonderful people, mostly men, but still. It may be tricky to get some of the ladies here to bite, for various reasons. Safety has to be the biggest reason. It is a big risk for a woman to go meet a stranger or strangers from online. Insisting on a public place, like the bar at a casual dining restaurant, food court at a mall, or any place where there are lots of people, and likely at least one cop, that can hear a scream. Also, when I was single, I was cocky enough to think I could handle walking into a trap, given my military training in hand to hand combat, but now, with my wife, I take zero chances.

Like, if you want safe but exciting, do not send pics before meeting, just describe what you each will be wearing, and come up with challenge and password phrases. Maybe not the entire outfit, just a distinct accessory. It adds a suspenseful cloak and dagger element. You are looking for a couple, based on a rough description of their physical features, but the woman is wearing a blue knit hat, and the guy is wearing dress shoes with jeans. When you spot them, you ask, "Do you know any good Thrift stores around?" And they reply with, "No, but there is a wonderful Flower shop right around the corner" and then you will recognize each other. Of course you can just trade passwords, but coming up with phrases, to make is seem like small talk, adds that extra layer of mystique.

Also, maybe give some insight as to the excitement you are looking for. For example, I want a woman for my wife to have sex with, whether I can join in or not. My fantasy, is of facetiming/skyping my wife, and her setting up her mobile device in the bathroom, and I can be voyeuristic of her and her female friend getting undressed, and getting in the shower together. It just feels so much naughtier than just sitting on the toilet and watching, and I would want them to pretend they do not have an audience, and focus solely on each other.

And of course, it helps to have a healthy supply of unicorn bait...

 

[MKvDeepSea]

Are there any other sexually exploring couples that feel limited by the size of their community. Also seeking advice on keeping sexual adventures secret well being able to keep things exciting.

Hey RSHornyCouple.

We live in a small southern town here in SC. For several years we were on Swingers Life Style (aka SLS) and it was a decent site especially for local contacts.

Jacques_Corbin's post has some very sound advice. We use to meet folks at a large bookstore, which had a coffee shop and is located about thirty minutes from our town. It wasn't unusual for folks to meet there to go shopping, to one of the numerous restaurants located nearby or to a large multiplex theatre just down the street.

Good luck and be safe.

 

[RSHornyCouple]

thank you all for the advice.