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MasterPhoenix
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This is going to be a SHORT thread.
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Marquis said:
But if it's too short, it's not interesting.
If it's a huge thread... it hurts... my brain.... a lot.
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Netzach said:
I agree and it's too bad others couldn't take it a touch more seriously. Joking is fine and I love sarcasm but it also helps to provide some actual information afterwards.
Penile humilation and genital manipulation are very serious and very real triggers for a lot of people. It doesn't have to imply a small penis either. Well hung men can be equally degraded by such things. We so strongly associate our masculinity with our dicks that it can be very powerful.
It's also at the heart of a lot of cuckhold relationships. Maybe not the sole factor and certainly not present in all such relationships but it is very common.
Beyond just the idea of penile humilation is humiliation itself. That is a deeply powerful emotional trigger that should be indulged in with eyes wide open and a healthy dose of trust.
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Irony_Sinclair said:
I am really into anything involving dominating women, but love to read stories of women humiliating men because of their performance or size related issues.
As for the joke comments they are fine and were funny, but at least post something partially serious if you're going to post anything.
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read2me said:
LOL..freedom. of. speech. *smiles* i don't think everyone has to post something worthwhile on every single thread that gets started..the jokes were just that, jokes. they were funny...and the thread shall go on...
as for the original topic, well, i'm not into it, so i have nothin to say
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Irony_Sinclair said:
Yes, easing into humiliation is best in a healthy relationship.
To get back towards the topic of this thread, I find that the best humiliation is no humiliation at all. What I mean is that the woman just behaves like a small penis is nothing to get excited about (pun intended).
To put it another way, the humiliation is very matter-of-fact and casual.
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chatbug said:
Well played sir. And quite effective.
And yes, I jested a bit earlier... but it was in good fun. Personally I don't see the allure. But that's just me. I'm not one to judge. ^_^
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Auraka6669 said:Well played sir. And quite effective.
And yes, I jested a bit earlier... but it was in good fun. Personally I don't see the allure. But that's just me. I'm not one to judge. ^_^
It's all good. I know people were being funny. It's all with the submission to stronger women. Some of us with small penises like for women to tell us we're not good enough for them because of our lack of manhood
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try posting this in the Playground : )read2me said:
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read2me said:
Yeah, I made a smart ass post earlier in this thread because I am a card carrying smart ass.
Honestly, I am not really into Dominating guys. I could, but I don't think that I could do the small dick thing. I do think that the size issue is something that would be too much of a hot button.
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I honestly find that the small dicked thing ties in more strongly with guys who have a serious cuckolding fetish than guys who are just garden variety submissive full stop. I honestly wonder why that is - why guys like to have more of a "reason" the woman is choosing to fuck someone else other than she just wants to and is.
For this reason I've enjoyed having cucks who are even more endowed than the bull. "Yeah, but what a waste." "Yeah, but you STILL can't fuck worth anything."
For this reason I've enjoyed having cucks who are even more endowed than the bull. "Yeah, but what a waste." "Yeah, but you STILL can't fuck worth anything."
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Netzach said:
I can only speak as one guy with a cuckolding fetish.
Most women are not interested in having additional partners when they are in a relationship. Some that are interested in additional partners try swinging. Others try being a "hotwife". Very, very few women are capable of being in a relationship and having additional partners while they insist that their man stay monogamous or chaste.
Of this small minority of women, some of them feel more comfortable with the idea of additional partners if their man has one or more "shortcomings". Sometimes, it makes it easier for the man to accept his wife having additional partners if he is reminded of his "shortcomings".
As I said before, I prefer humiliation that is calm and matter-of-fact.
I suspect that you're thinking about this as a dominant first, and a cuckoldress second. I would love to find a cuckoldress first and foremost. I'd prefer that she be a switch or even submissive, but I'm looking for a loving relationship where she has other partners.
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Chatbug, I agree with you completely. The two characteristics or personnas are separate, but they can exist, to varying degrees, in the same woman. Submission is often the result of cuckolding- the cuckolding wife becomes submissive to her lover. This can become a problem when the cuckold is not submissive himself, but it can usually be worked out.
My actual experience is limited (note that I said limited but not nonexistent), but I know a few people- even one family member-who are or have been in extended bdsm and/or cuckold relationships.
I also agree with you that calm, matter-of-fact humiliation is best, and most effective. It can also be done lovingly.
Chatbug, I agree with you completely. The two characteristics or personnas are separate, but they can exist, to varying degrees, in the same woman. Submission is often the result of cuckolding- the cuckolding wife becomes submissive to her lover. This can become a problem when the cuckold is not submissive himself, but it can usually be worked out.
My actual experience is limited (note that I said limited but not nonexistent), but I know a few people- even one family member-who are or have been in extended bdsm and/or cuckold relationships.
I also agree with you that calm, matter-of-fact humiliation is best, and most effective. It can also be done lovingly.
Netzach said:
I had never been into small dick humiliation. Maybe it's because my dick isn't small, but it always seemed forced to me. And I don't like being humiliated.
But then my wife started seeing a man with a huge cock. I'm still not into being humiliated for having a small dick-- I can't get behind that, because it isn't true, and I don't like being diminished.
But I am thrilled by the truth that her boyfriend has touched part of her, both sexually and physically, that I never will. It is a betrayal that I might hear about or witness, but will never experience myself. It keeps a piece of my wife's sexuality inches out of reach. Something I will always long for...
For her, I think it is something dangerous and ephemeral. An ecstacy so intense that it threatens to erase everything else about her.
She returns to me for the love, discipline and sexuality that are enveloped in twenty years of devoted marraige.
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Interesting.
I guess my cuckolding activity has been more an outcropping of sadistic and dominant traits. I have an open relationship with my husband, which I guess has some of the loving cuckoldress edge to it - he finds it arousing that I find sexual fulfillment and ecstasy on my terms and where I please, because he's included in that grand scheme either figuratively by being told the details as an erotic enhancement or directly as a voyeur- but my slave is also cuckolded and this is much more about sadism, humiliation, and denial.
I have also noticed a trend of bicuriosity among men who love seeing their SO's get the big dick. I mean it's not a giant leap to wonder what the big dick must BE like.
I guess my cuckolding activity has been more an outcropping of sadistic and dominant traits. I have an open relationship with my husband, which I guess has some of the loving cuckoldress edge to it - he finds it arousing that I find sexual fulfillment and ecstasy on my terms and where I please, because he's included in that grand scheme either figuratively by being told the details as an erotic enhancement or directly as a voyeur- but my slave is also cuckolded and this is much more about sadism, humiliation, and denial.
I have also noticed a trend of bicuriosity among men who love seeing their SO's get the big dick. I mean it's not a giant leap to wonder what the big dick must BE like.
Netzach said:
It's all so intertwined, isn't it? For me, terms like Dom, sub and switch have never worked. Often I find myself combining sadism and masochism in a single moment. I am simultaneously inflicting discipline and identifying with the pain of my sub. If she's inflicting some emotional pain on me, through cuckoldry, at the same time, it's even more arousing.
Perhaps its just the thrill of the discovery of all the bad things in the id that you're not supposed to know about as a kid.
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sister76 said:
don't hear too many women that love small dicks. I don't know why it turns me on to have women laugh at it and to degrade me or it, just like it. Never had anyone actually do it to my face. Actually I've gotten compliments more than complaints. Maybe their just being nice but I'd like to think I'm doing something right. LOL.
It's not something I could get into as a full time life style cause I think eventually it would take a toll but it's fun to try different things and that's something I would think about trying
