Small Cock Humiliation turns me on.

[betabrad]

I confess I do have a smaller than average cock Although I don't have any real experience with SPH , I do have many fantasies about it, but I don't like extreme humiliation or cruelty.

Some of my fantasies are - after finally getting tired of my small cock my g/f makes several demands if I want to continue to see her : I have to wear panties, I may no longer fuck her , but only pleasure her orally, she will fuck other men and may have me suck their cock to make them hard for her. I may be called upon to lick her cum filled pussy and lick her lover's cock clean. I may not refer to my penis as a "cock" anymore, but only "dicklette" or "clitty-cock".

I don't know why these fantasies turn me on so much but they do. Do you have any ideas for SPH ? Have you had any experience with SPH ? I'd love to hear about it. Obviously I have submissive tendencies too, do you think men with smaller than average cocks are more likely to be submissive ? Do you think men with small cocks are less manly ? I know I'm not the only one who has fantasies like this. What purpose ( other than just getting off) would fantasies like this have and where do you think they come from ?

 

[jomar]

So post a pic of your clit.

What make/model car do you drive?

 

[switchersm]

I am in permanent chastity since two and a half years. my cock is not small, a little over average. for a serious reason I have let my wife put a cock cage on my penis and lock it as long as she is in the mood. she likes to tease me and ask "can my little cock not become hard and grow to it's nice lengh, oh must it stay small in this lovely metal jail? oh you will come? but how?I have the keys. so no cumming and no fucking..... " and so on. that turns me on and is very very arousing. so also men with average or more cock can be treated as a klitty

 

[sixfeetundernea]

I was wondering why you could tell us why it turns you on? Honestly, it breaks my heart. I've had a couple of men online have me try and do it for them, but I just can't, I feel so cruel, even if it's what they want. One of my partners was small: he was 6'7 with a 4 in dick. He's probably my favorite because he tried to compensate for it, but it was so fun to suck on, he could fuck my face and I still gagged enough, I actually enjoyed anal. I considered him just as much as a man, if not more. The first time I saw him pull out, he kept trying to somewhat conceal it with his hands and it broke my heart. I never said anything about it being "small" especially since we had so much fun, so intense.

I would have no problem with being with with a "smaller" man for the rest of my life, especially if he was even half as passionate as my partner. I would do everything in my power to make him feel masculine.

 

[ShyJake]

I was wondering why you could tell us why it turns you on?

I'm curious too. To each their own but I've never been able to wrap my head around this.

 

[betabrad]

I was wondering why you could tell us why it turns you on? Honestly, it breaks my heart. I've had a couple of men online have me try and do it for them, but I just can't, I feel so cruel, even if it's what they want. One of my partners was small: he was 6'7 with a 4 in dick. He's probably my favorite because he tried to compensate for it, but it was so fun to suck on, he could fuck my face and I still gagged enough, I actually enjoyed anal. I considered him just as much as a man, if not more. The first time I saw him pull out, he kept trying to somewhat conceal it with his hands and it broke my heart. I never said anything about it being "small" especially since we had so much fun, so intense.

I would have no problem with being with with a "smaller" man for the rest of my life, especially if he was even half as passionate as my partner. I would do everything in my power to make him feel masculine.

Well, maybe this falls into the category of "Fantasies that turn me on, but I wouldn't like in real life". All I can say is that the fantasy really turns me on. But again, I don't mean anything really cruel. A lot of the stories that I have read here on Lit deal with the woman being very cruel to the man - the woman in the stories saying to the man things like " you're worthless" and "you're a piece of shit", as well as slapping the man and treating him like a dog .. etc... That kind of thing does NOT turn me on.

This is also not something I would like to live full time. I would consider this more as an occasional sexual role playing. Can there be such a thing as "playful humiliation" ? It would turn me on for a woman to say things to me like;
" oh your little dick would look so cute in pink panties."
"that's not a cock, that's more of a clit, or a clitty cock".
" oh my , little dicks like that should be kept in chastity" .
And she says things like this while I lick her pussy.

I would also enjoy a woman telling me about how much bigger her lover's cock is . Of course this also goes along with my other fantasies of cuckolding , creampie eating and forced bi.

Basically I guess , this is just a fantasy that turns me on. Again, this would not be a lifestyle, but more of an occasional kinky role playing. Everyone has their own turn-ons and this is one of mine. Let me know if this helps explain this fetish a little better.

 

[sixfeetundernea]

Yes, that does help explain a little. More of the sissy kind of a thing... your version is different from what I've most encountered.

I always wonder if I had a partner that wanted that done to him really bad if I could do it. What you said, I think I could maybe do it every now and then. Did you grow up with a lot of women it had anything happen during puberty that would be a driving force behind this?

 

[betabrad]

Yes, that does help explain a little. More of the sissy kind of a thing... your version is different from what I've most encountered.

I always wonder if I had a partner that wanted that done to him really bad if I could do it. What you said, I think I could maybe do it every now and then. Did you grow up with a lot of women it had anything happen during puberty that would be a driving force behind this?

Hmmm, well, I guess there are several things that led me to have this fetish. Like I've said in other postings here on Lit. - I have low testosterone. I did go to the Dr a few years ago because I was having problems with E.D, that's how I found out about my testosterone level. The Dr tried me on testosterone shots, but it didn't help. So, he just prescribed Viagra and a penis pump. I also have always been a quick cummer no matter what I tried. I know I've never satisfied a woman with my cock, so I always try to get the woman off with my mouth first . Other influences are - I've always have had a rather meek personality, I've always felt a little bit submissive in general and I did have a weak father and a domineering mother.

All of that above made me who I am now I guess. I guess I've never really felt like a man. And when I look at pics of big hard cocks in porn I even feel less of a man. But again, because of all that I listed above, I guess I have developed my fantasies to be something that I feel like I could honestly do ; even tho I cant pleasure woman with my cock, I know I can give her pleasure with my tongue and I guess I would like for the woman I was with to still feel the pleasure of a big cock and a good fuck - something I know I cant provide. Plus , I also have these bi-curious fantasies of sucking another man's cock while a woman watches or licking another mans cum out of a woman's pussy.

Despite everything I have written above tho, I do like who I am. I do have a lot to offer a woman; I'm intelligent, sensitive and caring , but I have just come to accept that I'll never be a good lover ( at least not with my cock) and I guess my head has come up with fantasies to adjust to that.

 

[LincolnDuncan]

I was wondering why you could tell us why it turns you on? Honestly, it breaks my heart. I've had a couple of men online have me try and do it for them, but I just can't, I feel so cruel, even if it's what they want. One of my partners was small: he was 6'7 with a 4 in dick. He's probably my favorite because he tried to compensate for it, but it was so fun to suck on, he could fuck my face and I still gagged enough, I actually enjoyed anal. I considered him just as much as a man, if not more. The first time I saw him pull out, he kept trying to somewhat conceal it with his hands and it broke my heart. I never said anything about it being "small" especially since we had so much fun, so intense.

I would have no problem with being with with a "smaller" man for the rest of my life, especially if he was even half as passionate as my partner. I would do everything in my power to make him feel masculine.

I think that there would be far less lonely people in the world if women who feel like you were able to communicate those feelings to men with size concerns.

 

[mterrence]

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[Miasorrow]

So straightforward and openhearted views were raised here.
It's not always easy to accept such tendencies. Those somewhat humiliating fantasies do have a certain appeal. Finding your sexuality can be a bouncy journey. Good luck.

 

[screwher]

My wife has told me that her lover's cock is bigger than mine. In both length and girth. Not by much but enough. While I wouldn't be into any real strong humiliation about it I must admit I do like the fact that she's enjoying a bigger cock than mine. Maybe in the future we can use that during our sex. Maybe some mild dirty talk with her telling me that his cock is bigger and that he fucks her much better than I do. Even if it's not true.

 

[luckyseven]

My wife has told me that her lover's cock is bigger than mine. In both length and girth. Not by much but enough. While I wouldn't be into any real strong humiliation about it I must admit I do like the fact that she's enjoying a bigger cock than mine. Maybe in the future we can use that during our sex. Maybe some mild dirty talk with her telling me that his cock is bigger and that he fucks her much better than I do. Even if it's not true.

My wife and I have been in the swinging lifestyle for several years now and she has also told me that she has had several lovers who have had much larger penises than me in both length and girth. She described how the sensation of them completely filling her, and ejaculating deep inside, though initially painful, just sent her over the top with pleasure.

She has now learned that she is multi-orgasmic with deep penetration from one particular well-endowed guy and is now swinging with him more frequently. The guy in question is over the moon knowing that he has found a woman to swing with who can take his enormous size. He had previous problems himself getting fully erect but my wife is able to take his full erection.

The sex she had with him was very, very good. It was extremely erotic for me to see her taking such an enormous penis in her, and watching her revel in the sex with this guy. It was truly fantastic for her and for me. It had no negative effect on our sex lives together.

I felt insecure at first knowing that she could never have that kind of feeling with me but I felt secure enough in our relationship that we could have an intimate married relationship and still play with others. She felt the same way and loved me more for letting her have that kind of experiences.

 

[yukonnights]

You're Just Fine

Hmmm, well, I guess there are several things that led me to have this fetish. Like I've said in other postings here on Lit. - I have low testosterone. I did go to the Dr a few years ago because I was having problems with E.D, that's how I found out about my testosterone level. The Dr tried me on testosterone shots, but it didn't help. So, he just prescribed Viagra and a penis pump. I also have always been a quick cummer no matter what I tried. I know I've never satisfied a woman with my cock, so I always try to get the woman off with my mouth first . Other influences are - I've always have had a rather meek personality, I've always felt a little bit submissive in general and I did have a weak father and a domineering mother.

All of that above made me who I am now I guess. I guess I've never really felt like a man. And when I look at pics of big hard cocks in porn I even feel less of a man. But again, because of all that I listed above, I guess I have developed my fantasies to be something that I feel like I could honestly do ; even tho I cant pleasure woman with my cock, I know I can give her pleasure with my tongue and I guess I would like for the woman I was with to still feel the pleasure of a big cock and a good fuck - something I know I cant provide. Plus , I also have these bi-curious fantasies of sucking another man's cock while a woman watches or licking another mans cum out of a woman's pussy.

Despite everything I have written above tho, I do like who I am. I do have a lot to offer a woman; I'm intelligent, sensitive and caring , but I have just come to accept that I'll never be a good lover ( at least not with my cock) and I guess my head has come up with fantasies to adjust to that.

Betabrad, I think you are just fine in this new understanding of yourself. I read through your posts and your profile and feel that you are discovering new and exciting things about yourself. Sometimes these new discoveries crash into some of the old ideas you held for so many years, and this can get kinda scary. Don't overlook the testosterone issue as it is probably a pretty big player in finally moving you just a bit closer to the beta male side that has always been just under the surface. It is quite common for men your age to begin to feel these things. And no doubt, this new you is probably hiding in fear of discovery by "normal society". So I say; just don't let "normal society" in on your little discovery

Personally, I think your take on the situation reveals a lot of thought on your part as well as a very good understanding of who you have discovered hiding in your own skin. You have discovered yourself and you are perfect. I think your take on the humiliation aspect of it is what I like to call "bedroom games". The humiliation is simply that, a game to be played for fun and arousal...but all fun games come to an end and so should this one once the scene is over. It is the minority who desire the more intense humiliation, I believe. Anyway, in my opinion you are just fine and you should feel okay in exploring any of this that feels right for you...I'm sure you won't have any problems finding someone to "play" with !