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[nasty]

I have a VERY hard time cumming. Could this be due to the fact that my testicles are only the size a peanut? I had thought there was some kind of exercise I read that increases their size. Suppose I was wrong. DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Even IF I CAN get out of this wheelchair, but, CANNOT have sex with a woman due to the fact that I was disablied during puberty, what's the point of getting out of it?

 

[Bob Peale]

nasty, this really is a job for a urologist.

Although honest to goodness size doesn't matter, you do need someone to determine if your development was interrupted.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Seriously nasty, if the only reason you can possibly think of to get out of the wheelchair is so you can fuck someone, you need to rethink your priorities.

Other than that, BP is right. It's a question for a urologist and possibly an endocrineologist (they're the hormone docs, right?).

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Seriously nasty, if the only reason you can possibly think of to get out of the wheelchair is so you can fuck someone, you need to rethink your priorities.

Other than that, BP is right. It's a question for a urologist and possibly an endocrineologist (they're the hormone docs, right?).

I say Nasty, if that helps you take every pain staking step along the way - bloody good on you.

Good advice though.

 

[nasty]

Well, I DO think about sex VERY often,(but, that's normal, isn't it?). But, when you're a 23 year old virign, you'll do just about ANYTHING to have sex. Sometimes, I WISH I was born a vegetable, like the doctors said I would. Then, I wouldn't have a brain to think about this stuff. i appreciate your advice, though. If I could just get some, it would relieve some of the tension from my head,(if ya know what I mean.)

 

[Calamity Jane]

Well, I DO think about sex VERY often,(but, that's normal, isn't it?). But, when you're a 23 year old virign, you'll do just about ANYTHING to have sex. Sometimes, I WISH I was born a vegetable, like the doctors said I would. Then, I wouldn't have a brain to think about this stuff. i appreciate your advice, though. If I could just get some, it would relieve some of the tension from my head,(if ya know what I mean.)

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Yeah, it's normal. I think about sex a lot too. I'd venture a guess that just about everyone thinks about sex a lot. But it shouldn't be your reason for living (or walking). It's but one facet of life, and while it's a pleasant facet, it's a small one in the grand scheme of things.

I know you're venting, but 'vegetables' as in quadrapalegics still have brains. They still have desires and needs.

I don't know what it would be like to be a 23 year old virgin, that's true. But where's the guarantee that if you weren't in a chair, you'd have women lining up to fuck you? It's been suggested before, but maybe a support group would help. There are other people in your situation that may be able to shed some light on ways to 'relieve the pressure' or engage in sex. At the very least, they'd be able to relate to your situation in ways that we just can't.

 

[nasty]

It's the other way around, actually. If I had more feeling in my body, I'd probably have a bit more self esteem. So, I'D be flocking woman. And, I don't mean vegetable as in quad, I mean as in never being able to get out of bed, or, really do ANYTHING, PERIOD!!!!!!! Yeah, I wish I didn't vent so much. I'm getting tire of myself.

 

[RhumbRunner13]

Nasty....

I would think that the strong desire for sex indicates a relatively normal mix of hormones, why not let the Dr.s find out?

"i appreciate your advice, though. If I could just get some, it would relieve some of the tension from my head,(if ya know what I mean.)"

I don't think any of us can understand your suffering, most of us would never even try to imagine ourselves "in dire straights". I can't sympathize with you, but I'll try to empathize.

Rhumb

 

[Cirrus]

Nasty, I don't know you and therefor don't know your whole situation...so I don't mean to offend.

I have a close friend paralyzed in a diving accident when he was 14. He is now 20 and has a girlfriend, and they "do what they can" sexually speaking. He is capable of orgasm and has *ahem* found ways to satisfy his girlfriend sexually. So...maybe the fact that you ?are? in a wheelchair is only holding you back in your mind. A visit to the Dr. never hurt anyone, but if you're in a chair that's no reason to think you can't have a relationship.