Slow L-driver on Positions. Help!

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Our relationship is really great, sex life is ok but it can be better.
When it comes to having sex we stuggle with some of the basic positions.

Almost 3yrs we been together and our positions mostly used are basic man on top, and the woman on top, wife is really great being on top and loves it too.

But we tried the other basic positions like side-on, standing and doggie but doesn't seem to work for us. We've watched movies and read books on it, and we try without doing any good at all.

Does body shape have anything to do with it, cause my wife hasn't got a perfect slim shape like a hour glass, she not fat but her bottom is big and it sticks out alot, her ass is like a G shape. Myself do have abit of fat at the belly and stuggle to do it from behind.

Can all the expert help us with how to do the basic positions.
We still at the L-driver level after 3yrs still!

 

[Bobmi357]

I know this isn't probably what you want to hear, but you've got a couple positions that work for you. Life isn't a porn movie, and if they taped what happened after the sex is done in those movies you'd probably find both partners complaining about the positions. Unless you're into pain, sex isn't supposed to be uncomfortable.

Changing positions isn't what most people mean when they say they want to add some excitement into their sex lives. It does mean being open to new and different things. Try some fetishes, you don't have to personally have a fetish to enjoy something. Open yourselves up to explore new things, bring toys into the bedroom, read the lit stories and pass the ones you find interesting to your partner for comment. When you find something that intrigues you both, try it out.