Slight Problem....Please help heh

[InSaNe]

There is a girl down the street from me that I have known since I was about 12....I am 18 now and I really think I love her but I can't get the guts to ask her out or anything.....It's starting to get really bad and I need some help on how to convey my feelings....When I am around her I get speechless and really worried if I look alright.....I don't want to be hurt by I really want to tell her how I feel.....I know I can't just come out and say that I think I love or it might scare her off but....like I said I am having trouble saying anything at all to her.....I apperciate your help.

 

[Armygirl]

ok so your a shy guy

have ya tryed askeing her out to a movie
that usually works just be calm if you become speechless
tell her she looks nice

i know you have probley been told this stuff before but
just ask her

hope this helps
Armygirl

 

[InSaNe]

Thanks

actually no I have alot of friends but they dpn't help

Thanks alot armygirl I will try I can't really promise anything being shy and all but still open to more suggestions ?


And Thanks again armygirl I think I was just thinking noone would post

 

[ProSkater]

You're gonna have to ask her out to a movie or something eventful together. If she says no, throws you down and shows absolutly no interest in you, fair enough, you'll feel a bit gutted but at least you know. It's much better than not knowing ever. Just because you feel loads for her, don't expect her to be the same but you have to give it ago!

 

[cyndiesweet]

First relax. I know easy to saay hard to do. Visualize asking her out. See yourself calm, collected, smiling in your vision.

Focus on her instead of yourself. That way you are tuning into her. Check her body language. Are her arms crossed? Then open yours and help her feel more relaxed. She may be just as worried as you about saying something stupid. So again, relax.

Focus on friendship first. I know you love her but she may not be there yet. Be casual, take her somewhere you can have fun and laugh together get to know each other. Show her who you are and see what comes of it.

Good Luck I am sending you good thoughts. Let us know what happens.

 

[InSaNe]

Well =)

Well I did it and got shot down.....Thanks alot to all those who posted. This Experience I think has some what hardened me. But it only hurt minimal since I was pretty much expecting it. =) Just suck it up and move on =)

 

[lovetoread]

Re: Well =)

Well I did it and got shot down.....Thanks alot to all those who posted. This Experience I think has some what hardened me. But it only hurt minimal since I was pretty much expecting it. =) Just suck it up and move on =)

Oh darlin, I'm sorry. There are so many fish in the sea....so throw your pole out again and catch a good one....

 

[InSaNe]

Thanks for your support you don't know how much it helps but yeah its true there is many fish in the sea...maybe I am using the wrong bait

 

[weathered2]

It may not...

...seem like it now, but you very, VERY lucky to have found this out having only taken the time and personal energy to ask a question, even if it took a long time to get nerve to pop it. Now you can get over the fixation that was distracting you from finding your true soul-mate. There's one out there, trust old uncle weathered on that.

 

[Mhoram]

you just have to go for it with these things, if you get shot down, it wouldn't have worked out anyway so you really havn't lost anything, and if the timing is right it will work out. The only thing I guess you have to be concerned with is scareing the person away.

 

[cyndiesweet]

Thanks for your support you don't know how much it helps but yeah its true there is many fish in the sea...maybe I am using the wrong bait

The bait was just perfect. You were just fishing for the wrong kind of fish. I am sending you a BIG hug. Close your eyes. Can you feel it?