Slave in Waiting

[Slave4You4Ever]

I have offered myself countless time to the master of my destiny. How do i convince her to make me her slave? What can i do? Any thought or ideas?

 

[Desdemona]

You don't. I hate to sound harsh but, if this person wanted you, it would have already happened. Pushing or trying to convince a dominant to take you on generally isn't going to work. Best to look elsewhere for a relationship.

 

[Etoile]

Des hit the nail on the head. I'm sure it's not the answer you wanted to hear - and you may well ignore us and keep pressuring this woman - but if you've made your desires explicitly clear and she hasn't taken you up on them, she doesn't want to.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I have offered myself countless time to the master of my destiny. How do i convince her to make me her slave? What can i do? Any thought or ideas?

As a dominant, I would say you cannot do anything but wait. If you push too hard, you may ruin everything. I personally do not like pushy subs.

 

[cellis]

Why don't you just try to get to know her as a person.... just be yourself... learn about her and let her learn about you...

Rushing in and offering yourself to someone is very off putting...

 

[catalina_francisco]

I have offered myself countless time to the master of my destiny. How do i convince her to make me her slave? What can i do? Any thought or ideas?

From a 24/7 slave's point of view, and perhaps this is just my opinion, a slave waits to be asked if they wish to cmmit to a Master/Mistress, not the other way around. It is then their decision to accept or decline the offer. To offer can be seen by some as being far too much into controlling, and by others as presumptious to presume the dominant would want thier submission unless previously discussed.

Catalina

 

[Dick Cheyney]

Push, push, PUUUUUUSHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!

Show that Dom who's boss!

 

[_bad_kitty]

Yeah, try to top the Dom I'm sure that is very appealing

 

[Chicklet]

Re: Re: Slave in Waiting

As a dominant, I would say you cannot do anything but wait. If you push too hard, you may ruin everything. I personally do not like pushy subs.

I don't like pushy people period - if I tell someone I'm not interested, then that means I'm not interested. I know it hurts sometimes but you need to look at this with a clear head...maybe you like this person as a friend, too...are you willing to sacrifice a friendship for lust? Maybe you need to step back and give her some time, and yourself some time, before you pursue your friendship anew. Don't push.

Chicklet

 

[Etoile]

The first post in this thread is the only post ever made by Slave4You4Ever. I doubt we'll ever hear from that person again. Ah well.