SkinnyDipping : The Agony & The Ecstacy

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For a long time I was somewhat terrified of skinny dipping. Of course the draw of being around naked girls was strong but I as often as not avoided exposure in this manner in daylight hours particularly. The dreaded shrinkage was always a concern as my already very tiny penis tends to shrink to baby sized proportions. This is not generally a great way to impress the ladies especially because even though other guys involved may also suffer I most assuredly made them feel better about it. I think my worst experience of this nature was a late evening skinny dip in a very secluded lake with about a half dozen guys and gals. Too much alcohol removed some of my inhibitions but I was still careful not to be ogled before I reached the safety of the water. Unfortunately my re emergence was far from discrete and to cut a long story short my childlike appendage was viewed by several girls in direct comparison to one of the other guy's. If he suffered shrinkage it was not at all apparent in my eyes. His flaccid cock would totally dwarf mine if I was fully erect but compared to the acorn between my legs he was a tree trunk.

 

[LupusDei]

The dreaded shrinkage was always a concern as my already very tiny penis tends to shrink to baby sized proportions. This is not generally a great way to impress the ladies especially because even though other guys involved may also suffer I most assuredly made them feel better about it.

I have never understood this particular concern, despite I'm too not large in that regard and extreme "grower" so my shrunk state is indeed child-like. Then, I'm speaking from remarkably different cultural context and have seen that as active advantage.

While nudity is generally non-isue around here (legal by default except urban areas) and normally should be politely ignored -- unless you are actively engaged with the nude person -- it is also beat in my subconsciousness that male genitals are universally and unconditionally offensive. Exposing the dick -- especially erect -- is supposed to be somehow harmful to others (while seeing female genitals is only somehow harmful to her, and only if she choose to think so).

In that context social nudity situations by default revert to rules familiar to nudists/naturists: it is supposed to be actively offensive to flaunt an erection. This actually give a lot more leeway for small and/or grow-y dicks, because you can comfortably socialise even half-mast, while huge show-y guys are barked on and suggested to calm down for a slightest stir of it.

And, for the record, skinny dipping is my default. For a time I used to claim I do own no swimming trunks, but then I was publicly presented with several, so had to drop that line, lol. I still wear anything in water about once per season or so, it is exception, not the norm.

 

[amofiga]

The interesting about "shrinkage affected dick syndrome" (SADS) is that most women who have any experience know about it and know that the acorn can grow to an oak under the right circumstances. Besides, when in a naturist or "skinny dipping" situation that is not a true orgy but simply a social event, eyes should stay focused on eyes and not on that which is between the legs. Go.... relax. Enjoy. The funny thing about those shy little guys is that when you're relaxed and the "fear effect" is gone, the little fellas can come out to relax and dangle as well.

I have this sort of theory that dicks shrinking and balls crawling back up inside you is more than just a cold effect..... it's a "fight and flight" effect. Back when cavemen had no clothes and no jockey underwear, it would have been hard to fight off a saber toothed tiger or run through the woods with balls and dick flapping in the breeze. Hence, the shrinkage factor. Don't worry. It's all good.

 

[LupusDei]

The interesting about "shrinkage affected dick syndrome" (SADS) is that most women who have any experience know about it and know that the acorn can grow to an oak under the right circumstances. Besides, when in a naturist or "skinny dipping" situation that is not a true orgy but simply a social event, eyes should stay focused on eyes and not on that which is between the legs. Go.... relax. Enjoy. The funny thing about those shy little guys is that when you're relaxed and the "fear effect" is gone, the little fellas can come out to relax and dangle as well.

True. This is exactly what I'm talking about. It is only polite to at least pretend that situation is just a social event and not prelude to something else, and that is actually easier to do for shrinkers. And by the time it may become relevant the "problem" will have corrected itself.

In the off chance some mean stupid babe call you out on being small, look at her shamelessly, imagine what you want to do with her and let her see the little problem grow away rapidly.

Unless you're into SPH, in that case admit you're a girl and go sit down with girls as one of them.

I have this sort of theory that dicks shrinking and balls crawling back up inside you is more than just a cold effect..... it's a "fight and flight" effect. Back when cavemen had no clothes and no jockey underwear, it would have been hard to fight off a saber toothed tiger or run through the woods with balls and dick flapping in the breeze. Hence, the shrinkage factor. Don't worry. It's all good.

This is very true as well, and another real advantage to be a shrinker, although lot less important in modern world. Still, my best friend could be half a feet taller (over my mediocre six and a little), but when it come to playing catch with girls in the nude, his permanently huge schlong was actually an impediment.

 

[blowit]

................... but when it come to playing catch with girls in the nude, his permanently huge schlong was actually an impediment.

I bet they didn't run away as quickly!