super-swank
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what size penis do women (or men) prefer? large, average, small? (and what do you consider large, average, or small?)
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NawtylilGirl
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in truth - average would be 7 or so in my book - but then again just under or/and wider (thicker) would also be benificial... 
sexy_geek_girl
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This one of my pet peeves with online men. Someone has to explain to me why this is so important to guys.
A. you're not going to get into my pants if you're mind doesn't work right.
B. it's how you use it and do other things
On a side note I read somewhere that the average size is like 4.75 inches unless youre on the internet where the average size is like 8.
A. you're not going to get into my pants if you're mind doesn't work right.
B. it's how you use it and do other things
On a side note I read somewhere that the average size is like 4.75 inches unless youre on the internet where the average size is like 8.
Bobmi357
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Anything less than 420 feet is small. If you can't use it to put out forest fires, don't bother. If it doesn't cast a shadow as long as the Empire State Building, don't bother.
If it can't be mistaken for an ancient boa constrictor, don't bother.
The mark of a good lover isn't in the size of his tool, its in the volume of the screams he can generate using it properly.
If it can't be mistaken for an ancient boa constrictor, don't bother.
The mark of a good lover isn't in the size of his tool, its in the volume of the screams he can generate using it properly.
incognito989
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sexy_geek_girl said:
That sounds wrong. Either that or I'm elephant man.
http://www.edu.uni-klu.ac.at/~amiklaut/dr_nick/answer19.htm
6.5-7 is about average. According to that study, anyhow.
I've also found that the height of the gal is very important for 'size' issues. My 'average' member has bottomed out easily on shorter girls, but tall ones not so much. And as for the original question....
Different women like different sizes. Like men with breast sizes, pretty much. So you asking this question here are going to get a lot of opinions from particular women on lit - not a universal answer. YMMV.
kinky shy girl
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sexy_geek_girl said:
Great points...
I always thought the average internet size was 8.5 Every guy always has to mention that extra .5 inch. why is that? do you think that the girl will round up?
phoenix1224
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Man... I'm sick and tired of having to say this...
According to the editor's of 'Men's Health Magazine', the average man is 5.03" in length and 5.14" around...
And like the ladies' here have said... It's how you use it...
Besides the most important sex organ any of us has is our brains... Try using it to think about other ways to please a woman than with just your cock...
According to the editor's of 'Men's Health Magazine', the average man is 5.03" in length and 5.14" around...
And like the ladies' here have said... It's how you use it...
Besides the most important sex organ any of us has is our brains... Try using it to think about other ways to please a woman than with just your cock...
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super-swank said:
Honestly, doesn't matter to me. I've had guys with smaller penises that performed better than guys with larger ones.
Now girth is another story. Not too wide.
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vixenshe said:
Try doing a search on Penis Size. I'm sure you'll find a plethora of threads.
See what ya did? Ya done gone and made Vixie put up her "Not another size thread" av. Vixie, put up your "When DT comes over" av. Like that one much better!
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It's a dilema for us men for some reason. I myself am comfortable with what I have ( just a tweak above average, 6"-7" ). On the other hand though I am on the short side of stature and I feel that women look at me and think oh he is a short little fucker and his package is the same. But if they only knew what was under the wrapping. It's a shame isn't it. Just my 2 cents worth.
wolfgar said:
I'm a large, tall, fat woman. Men automatically think that I've got a gaping pussy. I don't. And I don't give a shit what they think. I mean, if they were ever with me, they'd learn that I'm as tight as can be, AND super-flexible. Who CARES what people think of you? All you have to do is love yourself, and people will flock to you because of your confidence.
*shrug*
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Most important sex tool is the brain.
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vixenshe said:
Thanks for the inspiration vixenshe. I have always thought enough about myself as being pretty confident and secure. I'm a little on the shy side until you get to know me then watch out. I like to have fun no matter what I am doing.
And for pussy, I love pussy. All pussy is good, some are just better. The same goes for cocks. My main objective is to satisfy my women no matter what it takes to reach that goal.
's for you.Every woman, I think, has a different idea of what a perfect penis would be like (well mannered, calls you back the next day, always puts the seat down, etc).
From my brief study of the Tantra, they had a system of dividing both penis and vagina into three size categories. In order to get a good ashram, there needed to be at least one representative of each category.
From a very nice view of a gf's husband while skinny dipping, I can tell you her idea of "very large" is slightly less than my idea of "average".
However, even a perfect cock can be ruined if they don't know what they're doing. You aren't trying to clear out a plumbing blockage, there's a person there. On the other hand, it's not a paperweight either (and if it was, there's no paper there).
Hugs,
Kat
From my brief study of the Tantra, they had a system of dividing both penis and vagina into three size categories. In order to get a good ashram, there needed to be at least one representative of each category.
From a very nice view of a gf's husband while skinny dipping, I can tell you her idea of "very large" is slightly less than my idea of "average".
However, even a perfect cock can be ruined if they don't know what they're doing. You aren't trying to clear out a plumbing blockage, there's a person there. On the other hand, it's not a paperweight either (and if it was, there's no paper there).
Hugs,
Kat
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Bobmi357 said:Anything less than 420 feet is small. If you can't use it to put out forest fires, don't bother. If it doesn't cast a shadow as long as the Empire State Building, don't bother.
If it can't be mistaken for an ancient boa constrictor, don't bother.
The mark of a good lover isn't in the size of his tool, its in the volume of the screams he can generate using it properly.
Actually, I reckon the debate on "size" is kind of pointless... for us guys, you got what you got, and there aint no point in either bragging or complaining... 99.9% of us cant do anything about it either way....
But the description you put here Bob, (particularly the last two lines) is probably the best, most succinct answer I ever saw !
Nice one !
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Sometimes I think men and women forget that there can be too big. I've heard a few stories about guys being really quite large, which entices the women until they see it and realize that it won't be able to fit. It can be difficult for them to find sexual partners.
Cakegirl
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I agree with C_G. Been there, done that! I'd prefer average to below average with a person I'm genuinely interested in and cared about and who cared about my pleasure. Too big is just... too big! And not a turn on for me at all.
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I mainly mention this because I was watching an episode of Sex and the City and Samantha ended up with a guy who was too big for her. She tried her best, but it didn't work. I couldn't help but feel bad for the guy because with all the talk about "bigger is better", no one ever talks about how there is usually a limit to it. I also remember someone on Lit talking about how they met an male exotic dancer once who was 10" and he said how it was hard to meet women because they usually felt that he was "too big". It depends on the man and it depends on the woman; everyone will like something different.Cakegirl said:
