Size.....I need some advice..plzz

[Latinababe]

I been seeing a person for awhile now. We haven't had sex yet but I have seen his penis and it looks great to me and it is average size but very nice. I know I would like what ever he does to me.

The thing is no matter how much I tell him that he looks great and that he will please me, he never listens to me. He thinks he is not going to please me sexual when we do have sex. I tried to boost his ego but no matter how much I tell him. It doesn't work.

Can any one give me some advice on how to go about this. I would be greatful for the help.

 

[medjay]

You may want to try being more the aggressor. Take what you want from him without being all nice-nice. Give him the impression that his performance is not what he should be worried about because you're the one in charge.

Or play up the angle that it's all about you pleasuring him.

Just a couple of ideas off the top of my head although I don't think I'm too qualified to give advice in this area. I don't know too many guys with ego problems.

 

[Latinababe]

Thank you I will try and see if that will work

 

[weathered2]

Show him some of us average or less guys around Lit. I'm able to ring the bell pretty much anytime I pull on the rope. Position has a lot to do with it. Once you get him going experiment with that. Most rear entry positions seem to me to maximize penetration. If "doggy" seems too impersonal or unattached, try the same thing with you lying on your stomach and raising your hips just enough to provide "access". That gives him more contact and seems to me a little more intimate, somehow.

 

[Alsharlan]

I agree with Med

Be aggressive on this... take charge Latin...... rip his zipper down and make him feel sexy..... I am sure whatever you do will make him forget whatever short comings he thinks he has.

Good luck... hope it works.

Al

 

[wellnow]

The advice given is excellent, IMO.

"Be aggressive on this... take charge Latin...... rip his zipper down and make him feel sexy....."

I would add that you should teach him how to press your, very personal, turn-on buttons. If he knows that you are having mind blowing climaxes, he will have no reason to worry about any perceived inadequacies. Don't just focus on his penis, keep it exciting and varied with oral, toys, different positions for penetration, etc.

Another very important point is to not lie to him no matter what he asks. I'm sure that he has a pretty good idea how he compares.

He will ask about your opinion of his and previous lovers size and if he is the smallest, etc. I suggest that you tell him and don't hide the importance of size to you (What ever that is). When you feel the urge to be "filled up", suggest that he use one of your toys or better yet, go shopping and select new ones together. It will turn him on as much as it will you and he won't be any worse off than someone with an 8 inch cock whose lady uses a very thick 12 inch dildo on occasion

Good luck,

 

[aaron32]

IMHO

i think he protests because he likes to hear you build up his ego. try putting him down and see if he doesn't respond by showing you what a "man" he really is.

aaron

 

[wellnow]

Re: IMHO

i think he protests because he likes you hear you build up his ego. try putting him down and see if he doesn't respond by showing you what a "man" he really is.

aaron

I really doubt it but you can try.

I think that if you like him you should work with him (as in my previous post) so that you build a satisfying relationship for both.

 

[aaron32]

size

i think if you try to work with him by placating his insecurities, you're gonna end up with a real whimp for a boyfriend.

 

[Latinababe]

Thank u all for the responses and the help. I really do appreciate it