I am about the same size and also love it when my wife tells me I am so much larger than her ex and hitting the right spots. Definitely makes one feel good. For me its not about humiliating anyone, rather that she is getting pleasure from it.I'm a bit over 7" and around 5.5" in girth. It is an absolute major ego boost to hear certain women tell me how they haven't had it that big before and how their men were a lot smaller.