Size difference

I'm under 4" at my largest and a little acorn when soft. I've spent most of my life worried about being small. After phys-ed class I was the guy in the most out-of-the-way locker carefully changing behind a towel.

Something happened over time. That insecurity twisted into a fetish and now nothing is more arousing than being made to feel small and inadequate. I love my wife's preference for toys rather than intercourse, the incredulous looks from guys in the locker room, and the rare (just twice in my life) cock-to-cock comparisons with a better hung man.
 
Any guys, particularly guys with smaller cocks, turn on by size difference, particularly between their smaller member and a really long, thick one.
I have an average sized cock. I’m not into the whole sph thing. Nor humiliation from my wife or any heavily endowed lovers. But I have to admit that I love that my wife has played with much larger cocks than mine.
 
I'm under 4" at my largest and a little acorn when soft. I've spent most of my life worried about being small. After phys-ed class I was the guy in the most out-of-the-way locker carefully changing behind a towel.

Something happened over time. That insecurity twisted into a fetish and now nothing is more arousing than being made to feel small and inadequate. I love my wife's preference for toys rather than intercourse, the incredulous looks from guys in the locker room, and the rare (just twice in my life) cock-to-cock comparisons with a better hung man.
Been there, done that
 
I have an average sized cock. I’m not into the whole sph thing. Nor humiliation from my wife or any heavily endowed lovers. But I have to admit that I love that my wife has played with much larger cocks than mine.
The fact that you love that your wife has had much larger cocks than your average sized, is, in essance, a form of mild SPH or teasing even if it’s only in your mind.
 
I'm under 4" at my largest and a little acorn when soft. I've spent most of my life worried about being small. After phys-ed class I was the guy in the most out-of-the-way locker carefully changing behind a towel.

Something happened over time. That insecurity twisted into a fetish and now nothing is more arousing than being made to feel small and inadequate. I love my wife's preference for toys rather than intercourse, the incredulous looks from guys in the locker room, and the rare (just twice in my life) cock-to-cock comparisons with a better hung man.
Good for you, mate. 😜
 
I'm under 4" at my largest and a little acorn when soft. I've spent most of my life worried about being small. After phys-ed class I was the guy in the most out-of-the-way locker carefully changing behind a towel.

Something happened over time. That insecurity twisted into a fetish and now nothing is more arousing than being made to feel small and inadequate. I love my wife's preference for toys rather than intercourse, the incredulous looks from guys in the locker room, and the rare (just twice in my life) cock-to-cock comparisons with a better hung man.

Almost exactly like myself when younger. I also have an "acorn" which my wife calls nub or hubby's nubby.
We're in the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle with our friend and neighbor who my wife compared and measured. I loved the feeling of total inadequacy with the difference.
Hard I'm 4.5" bone pressed and a 3.5" circumference.
Him 7.5" and over 5.5" circumference.
It's flaccid that I'm tiny at 1" at most.
 
I have mentioned several times that my cock is on the smaller side of average (5 1/2 hard) but my trans girlfriend's cock is a good two inches bigger. I love the fact that she has a much bigger cock.

She always makes sure I get a look at it when we chat on cam by taking a shower or peeing. I consider it an honor to be the person who services such a beautiful big cock by sucking it or being fucked by it.
 
The fact that you love that your wife has had much larger cocks than your average sized, is, in essance, a form of mild SPH or teasing even if it’s only in your mind.
I have to respectfully disagree with you. For me any kind of humiliation is disrespectful and a real turn off. I am average size, perhaps a bit on the thicker side and I enjoyed hearing about my wife having experienced larger cocks. I love the fact that she got to experience variety and I hope she had some really good fucks from a variety of cock sizes because I love her and I wish her to enjoy fond memories of past experiences.
 
I have to respectfully disagree with you. For me any kind of humiliation is disrespectful and a real turn off. I am average size, perhaps a bit on the thicker side and I enjoyed hearing about my wife having experienced larger cocks. I love the fact that she got to experience variety and I hope she had some really good fucks from a variety of cock sizes because I love her and I wish her to enjoy fond memories of past experiences.
Maybe it’s a definitional thing with SPH. I don’t like the H part anymore than you. I can go for teasing at worst. But when smaller guys get a feeling, perhaps concentrated in yheir groin, when comparing to a long, thick, swinging cock, I think that’s part of the syndrome as well
 
The fact that you love that your wife has had much larger cocks than your average sized, is, in essance, a form of mild SPH or teasing even if it’s only in your mind.
No, I don't think it is.

I'm averagely endowed (I haven't measured it since I was 15, I'm not insecure about it in any way).

I swing and I'm in a poly relationship with two women. My primary partner thinks my cock is perfect and hits the spot every time. I don't think I've ever fucked her and her not cum on my cock. However, we swing and I've seen her with a lot of other cocks, several of them bigger, a couple of huge ones. I love seeing the effect it has on her, and I love seeing her getting pleasure, regardless of cock size. Plus there's a visual thrill seeing her taking a big one down her throat or seeing it stretch her pussy wide open.

My other partner loves my cock equally. We've discussed previous partners and she's told me about a guy in her home town she sees a couple of times a year who's so big she can hardly walk after he's fucked her, but also says she can only handle it a couple of times a year, whereas I get to fuck her whenever I want.

Not everything has to be fetishised.

I find all this exciting but in no way humilating.
 
No, I don't think it is.

I'm averagely endowed (I haven't measured it since I was 15, I'm not insecure about it in any way).

I swing and I'm in a poly relationship with two women. My primary partner thinks my cock is perfect and hits the spot every time. I don't think I've ever fucked her and her not cum on my cock. However, we swing and I've seen her with a lot of other cocks, several of them bigger, a couple of huge ones. I love seeing the effect it has on her, and I love seeing her getting pleasure, regardless of cock size. Plus there's a visual thrill seeing her taking a big one down her throat or seeing it stretch her pussy wide open.

My other partner loves my cock equally. We've discussed previous partners and she's told me about a guy in her home town she sees a couple of times a year who's so big she can hardly walk after he's fucked her, but also says she can only handle it a couple of times a year, whereas I get to fuck her whenever I want.

Not everything has to be fetishised.

I find all this exciting but in no way humilating.
The term SPH is really a poor one. I do not like it or use it. I do feel a thrill when my woman tells me about the long thick cocks she has had, or if I see one that is longer and thicker soft than I am hard.I know how to use mine, but seeing a cock that is twice the size of mine fills me with a sense of inadequacy that I find is quite stimulating. Whether that is fetishing or not, it certainly excites me and I am sure scores of other guys with smaller than average cock sizes.
 
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