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Well, I thought I'd take the platform here and use the opportunity to introduce myself to the future female members of the group.

I guess I can start by saying that there is a photo on my profile and several more in the photo section here. I am a 38 year old man who has yet to marry or father any children. I just ended a five year live-in relationship about a year ago. I have had the fantasy of sharing my girlfriend(s)/wife with black men since I was about 18 and have done so with just three (and yes, the last live-in gf did it one time).

I am college educated with a degree in social science and a minor in english. I was a social worker for fourteen years but I recently quit to pursue a dream of writing for a living. To that end I have just had my first book published (November, 2004). There is also a photo of the book covers in the photo section of my profile to prove what I say is true. It is entitled Reflections of a Wayward Soul and is a book of 250 poems. I have 18 other poetry anthologies to follow. My first of six novels, The Painmaker, will be out sometime this year.

I am a very loving and caring man, conventional in many ways. I have interests and a life outside of my sexual persuasion. Some of those interests include reading, writing, skydiving, travel, cultural events, sports, politics (to a degree), current events and ordinary life interests. I'm philosophical, passionate, a truth seeker, deep,
troubled, I like to debate issues and have my mind engaged. I have long said that if a woman arouses my mind, my heart and cock will follow.

Given my starting my own interracial group, it's well-documented that I hope to find a female partner who is open to having black sex partners on a semi-regular basis (ideally even several at the same time) but even more so than that, what I am ideally looking for is someone who is more than a sex partner. Someone who can be my partner for life. The love of my life, my soul-mate. I do not seek a doormat or a woman who has esteem issues-nothing is more unattractive (to me personally). I may desire a woman who is by nature sexually submissive but I desire her to be independant, strong-willed, feisty and together otherwise. Someone to keep the walk down life's road interesting. Someone to challenge me, keep me on my toes and partner with me. Help me sail our vessel through life's storms together. In short, I want you to
walk beside me; not in front or behind. :)

Physically, the characteristics in a woman that will most often turn my head are dark (blk/brwn) hair or a redhead. Auburn/chestnut hair (with freckles on the chest & shoulders) will make my heart melt EVERY time. I also prefer a thicker woman in comparison to a stick thin one. I am NOT into heroin chic or Kate Moss types. I want a
woman-one who is soft and has curves. Bigger breasts are a plus (especially if they are natural) and my age range is 22 to 42 (maybe a bit older). Admittedly the ones on the younger side of the scale will have to work harder to prove their maturity and togetherness. ;) I also prefer any prospective woman who might return or express an interest in me to be between 4'11" to 5'7" tall.

Well, there you have it. That's about all I can tell you about myself without rambling on even further than I have already. I believe my profile is quite informative as is this post. I also have ads at other internet sites as well as a couple of other yahoo profiles. They are listed below. I hope if any female member of the group would like to become better acquainted that they take the intitiative to get in touch either through here, a profile or my
e-mail address which will be given upon request.

Sincerely,
Don-tha vanilla thrilla

http://profiles.yahoo.com/tha_write_one
http://profiles.yahoo.com/tha_real_vanilla_thrilla
http://profiles.yahoo.com/jimmyhaggard
http://vanilla_thrilla.swinglifestyle.com
 
By the way, I live in Ohio but relocation and/or travel are considerations I'd take seriously.
 
One private e-mail. Hmmm.....if it wasn't from such an awesome woman my ego might be a bit bruised. But her presentation has taken the sting out of the lack of response to a large degree. Still.........it behooves a man to have choices and options.....no one else??? :p

:rose: :devil: :rose:

:heart: :kiss: :heart:
 
Amanda: I meant to save your e-mail and accidentally deleted it. Please get in touch with me again asap. Thanks! ;)
 
It's too bad you're in OH... I almost fit your specifications and you're quite the hottie! (I've always had a thing for facial hair on a guy.) Brown/blue, definitely thick/curvy, natural D cups, but 5'8". I've been accused of being a bit too high-minded at times, verbose with an expanded vocabulary that drives many people I know, nuts. If you're interested in challenging me to break out the dictionary, PM me. :D
 
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Thank you for saying I'm a hottie; quite the ego stroke. I am definitely interested in getting better acquainted and I sent you a pm. Hope to hear from you and get to know you and challenging you.....in lots of ways! :rose: ;) :rose:
 
I'll bump this one last time for awhile and add another photo. I appreciate the response so far and I'm enjoying getting to know those who've taken the time to say hello. Thank you! :rose:
 
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Good luck finding someone!!


I'm probably not one to suit your needs, considering that a). I'm half- black and b). I have a boyfriend ( live-in) and c). I live in Alberta, Canada.
All the best to you, and I hope your finding the girl you're looking for! Have faith, and prehaps try the Playground or General Board on here. There's lots of single girls around there. I met my boyfriend on the Playground a year ago : )


So good things do come to those who wait =^.^=
 
Well even if you're not the probable "one" for me, we could still chat and get acquainted. No harm in having an online friend is there? ;)

And I appreciate your advice and sentiment. Thank you for being so supportive.
 
I have added a few of you on yahoo messenger in an attempt to get to know you better but never see any of you as showing online. It could be that you're just invisible, as I am usually, but I don't want to be presumptious and message without ok to do so first.

Also......are explicit photographs allowed here?
 
A few photos of me in action

Since I got no reply or answer to my question I will go ahead and post a few from the last party I threw. The moderators can take them down or leave them up at their discretion. Still interested in chatting with curious or interested swf's into bbc.
 
cock shot

There is one woman out there who wants the best of both worlds: a loving, supportive, non-sissified white man and occasional black men as sex partners as her man watches (and then joins in).
 
A new photo

Taken right before the type of evening I'd like to occasionally share with the woman of my dreams......
 
Hey there baby cakes...
I'm definitely suprised you haven't gotten more responses. You're a very good looking man, and it sounds like you've got a lot to offer. It's a complete wonder to me why you don't have the ladies crawling all over you!
I certainly would be, if I were in the market for a man.
I really wish you the best of luck, it's bound to improve sometime in the near future. :kiss:
And hey, if no one else is around, you and I could have a little chat, till you find a lady with the right specifications.... that is, if you wanna. ;)
:D :rose:
~Tricky
 
Thank you both very much ima6 and Angel

For your kind comments and complimentary responses. I would be very glad to chat with both or either of you to get to know you better in a completely and strictly platonic, respectful way to begin with. Either or both of you can e-mail me (parrothead4ever@hotmail.com) or im through yahoo (tha_write_one).

P.S. I'm pretty sure the lack of interest thus far has been due to the sexual interests in my "ad," Angel. But thanks again; you were very kind in your remarks and I appreciated it.
 
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