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Modern Mephisto
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Single Guy Seeks Asian Girl for Relationship
Okay, while this ad probably won't get any responses, I figured I might as well give it a shot. So, here's the deal:
I'm a guy who happens to be overwhelmingly attracted to Asian women. It all about the look, that erotic allure of exoticism and mystique. I love the raven hair like midnight skies kissed by moonlight, the softer-than-silk texture of their skin, those darkly seductive eyes that so perfectly express a range of emotions from shy and innocent to sweet and silly to devilishly naughty. And the small stature gives them that deliciously nymph-like appearance where you just want to scoop them up into your arms and devour them...
Of course, when I say it's all about the look, I'm just referring to the appeal of Asian women. The woman I'm looking for also has a sharp mind and an intoxicating personality. She should be intelligent, preferably with a college education or even graduate degree, but can just be an all-around bright girl who loves to read. Regardless of education, she should be a voracious reader, always wanting to expand her mind and learn new things. I'd prefer if she was cultured or, at least, interested in culture. If she's into opera, theatre, art, and the like, she'll quickly win my heart. She should have a good sense of humor, witty with touch of sarcasm. A good sense of humor is one that clicks with my own. At the very least, she should find my jokes and antics entertaining. My dream girl is also extremely playful, with a sort of silly, girlishness about her as well as a teasing, seductive, sexual playfulness. At the same time, she's also very much a woman, mature and responsible. She knows when to act silly and carefree and when to be serious. Furthermore, she's feisty. She's strong and independent, not afraid to argue her points and take a stand on her beliefs. (I'm looking for an Asian woman, not an Oriental rug - read: doormat.) A woman with goals and ambitions doesn't upset or intimidate me in the least. In fact, there's nothing sexier than a woman who knows what she wants out of life and pursues it with passion. She should also be honest, loving, and faithful. Communication is vital for a relationship to thrive, so I want her to feel free to tell me anything, as I'll hopefully be able to do with her. And she needs to be adventurous. The sort of girl that's a little wild, crazy, and spontaneous...who suggests taking off on a weekend getaway spur of the moment or pounces on me unexpectedly in a sexually ravenous mood.
Also, if she can feed any of my other fetishes - girls in glasses, artistic/musically gifted women, women with European accents - she scores major points.
I think that's a good enough start to describing the sort of woman I'm hoping to find. As for what I offer in return?
I'd say I'm cute - even handsome, depending on your views and tastes - as well as intelligent, witty, romantic, caring, creative, loving, charming, supportive, thoughtful, and faithful. I have a decent job, though I still harbor the dream of becoming a publish novelist at some point. I'm interested in committed, monogamous relationships. I don't know that I'm necessarily marriage-minded (because I have certain issues with the concept of marriage...which you're welcome to ask me about if you really want to know) but I do know that I'm not interested in having children. Not now. Perhaps not ever. So, if that's important to you, we may not be compatible.
I'm a bit old fashioned when it comes to relationships and romance, in that I still believe the guy should pay and open doors. I believe in showing a woman how I feel, as well as tell her at every opportunity. I'm not one of those guys that won't talk about his emotions or plays games. I say what I feel and mean what I say. And I believe in romance. And romance is all about the little things. It's giving a girl flowers for no other reason than you happened to be thinking of her. It's leaving her little notes in unexpected locations, a few sweet words or a bit of poetry that will brighten her day. It's given her a backrub, not because you're horny and want to get her clothes off, because you just like near her, touching her, and you want to make her feel special. Simply put, I love women and just absolutely adore their company. I'm not a "player." I definitely flirt when I'm single, turning on the charm with anyone who catches my eye. But when I'm with someone, she's my world. I don't believe in cheating. It's never made any sense to me. If you aren't happy or fully satisfied in a relationship, then you should work to make the relationship better or end the relationship before pursuing something/someone else.
Also, I want to make it clear that I'm not looking for just casual sex. As wonderfully thrilling as sex is, I find that it's infinitely more passionate, intense, and erotic when shared with someone with whom you have a mental, emotional, and even spiritual connection. I'm looking for that special person I can potentially spend the rest of my life with.
I could ramble on, but I seriously doubt anyone is still reading. However, if you are still reading and what you've read maybe described you (or someone you know?) and what you're looking for, or if you're just interested in knowing more, please feel free to leave a comment or send me a PM.
I thank everyone for reading and hope to hear from some of the Asian women out there.
~Mephisto
Okay, while this ad probably won't get any responses, I figured I might as well give it a shot. So, here's the deal:
I'm a guy who happens to be overwhelmingly attracted to Asian women. It all about the look, that erotic allure of exoticism and mystique. I love the raven hair like midnight skies kissed by moonlight, the softer-than-silk texture of their skin, those darkly seductive eyes that so perfectly express a range of emotions from shy and innocent to sweet and silly to devilishly naughty. And the small stature gives them that deliciously nymph-like appearance where you just want to scoop them up into your arms and devour them...
Of course, when I say it's all about the look, I'm just referring to the appeal of Asian women. The woman I'm looking for also has a sharp mind and an intoxicating personality. She should be intelligent, preferably with a college education or even graduate degree, but can just be an all-around bright girl who loves to read. Regardless of education, she should be a voracious reader, always wanting to expand her mind and learn new things. I'd prefer if she was cultured or, at least, interested in culture. If she's into opera, theatre, art, and the like, she'll quickly win my heart. She should have a good sense of humor, witty with touch of sarcasm. A good sense of humor is one that clicks with my own. At the very least, she should find my jokes and antics entertaining. My dream girl is also extremely playful, with a sort of silly, girlishness about her as well as a teasing, seductive, sexual playfulness. At the same time, she's also very much a woman, mature and responsible. She knows when to act silly and carefree and when to be serious. Furthermore, she's feisty. She's strong and independent, not afraid to argue her points and take a stand on her beliefs. (I'm looking for an Asian woman, not an Oriental rug - read: doormat.) A woman with goals and ambitions doesn't upset or intimidate me in the least. In fact, there's nothing sexier than a woman who knows what she wants out of life and pursues it with passion. She should also be honest, loving, and faithful. Communication is vital for a relationship to thrive, so I want her to feel free to tell me anything, as I'll hopefully be able to do with her. And she needs to be adventurous. The sort of girl that's a little wild, crazy, and spontaneous...who suggests taking off on a weekend getaway spur of the moment or pounces on me unexpectedly in a sexually ravenous mood.
Also, if she can feed any of my other fetishes - girls in glasses, artistic/musically gifted women, women with European accents - she scores major points.
I think that's a good enough start to describing the sort of woman I'm hoping to find. As for what I offer in return?
I'd say I'm cute - even handsome, depending on your views and tastes - as well as intelligent, witty, romantic, caring, creative, loving, charming, supportive, thoughtful, and faithful. I have a decent job, though I still harbor the dream of becoming a publish novelist at some point. I'm interested in committed, monogamous relationships. I don't know that I'm necessarily marriage-minded (because I have certain issues with the concept of marriage...which you're welcome to ask me about if you really want to know) but I do know that I'm not interested in having children. Not now. Perhaps not ever. So, if that's important to you, we may not be compatible.
I'm a bit old fashioned when it comes to relationships and romance, in that I still believe the guy should pay and open doors. I believe in showing a woman how I feel, as well as tell her at every opportunity. I'm not one of those guys that won't talk about his emotions or plays games. I say what I feel and mean what I say. And I believe in romance. And romance is all about the little things. It's giving a girl flowers for no other reason than you happened to be thinking of her. It's leaving her little notes in unexpected locations, a few sweet words or a bit of poetry that will brighten her day. It's given her a backrub, not because you're horny and want to get her clothes off, because you just like near her, touching her, and you want to make her feel special. Simply put, I love women and just absolutely adore their company. I'm not a "player." I definitely flirt when I'm single, turning on the charm with anyone who catches my eye. But when I'm with someone, she's my world. I don't believe in cheating. It's never made any sense to me. If you aren't happy or fully satisfied in a relationship, then you should work to make the relationship better or end the relationship before pursuing something/someone else.
Also, I want to make it clear that I'm not looking for just casual sex. As wonderfully thrilling as sex is, I find that it's infinitely more passionate, intense, and erotic when shared with someone with whom you have a mental, emotional, and even spiritual connection. I'm looking for that special person I can potentially spend the rest of my life with.
I could ramble on, but I seriously doubt anyone is still reading. However, if you are still reading and what you've read maybe described you (or someone you know?) and what you're looking for, or if you're just interested in knowing more, please feel free to leave a comment or send me a PM.
I thank everyone for reading and hope to hear from some of the Asian women out there.
~Mephisto
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