Sincere, Nice and Romantic Gentleman... I guess this isn't what women want huh???

[Shyguy1369]

I am a 29 y/o male who lives in Northern Ontario, Canada and have once more suffered the agony of heartbreak. I am beginning to wonder if being a nice guy and being somewhat of a romantic as I am is what women even want. I see so many women treated like scum by the guys they are with, and yet they stay with them. Now maybe my standards are high, or maybe I am not that great looking. But I have a heart too, and I have a lot of love to give and share with someone. It really is starting to feel that no one wants that though... I guess maybe I have drank a little too much tonight, but I just want to know... are there any women out there who really want a nice, caring and romantic man in their life???

 

[Zinfandel]

Shyguy, don't give up hope, I think there are many women who are looking for a sweet, caring, loving man. You have much to offer, I'm sure

Sometimes women find the cocky men to be sexy.... but they end up loving the sweet ones. I speak from experience

 

[INeedLove]

Chin up! There are nice ladies out there! We have the same frustration-we see girls staying with jerky men who cheat on them and treat them terribly too. But, the nice ones perservere! So chin up and keep your eyes open!
It will happen!
Hugs!

 

[ickle_stace]

I'd prefer a nice guy to the assholes i've had in the past, but the nice guys just wanna be mates or don't think i'm good enough for them normally

just hope the guy in my life now is the nice guy i've spent years searching for

 

[INeedLove]

I'd prefer a nice guy to the assholes i've had in the past, but the nice guys just wanna be mates or don't think i'm good enough for them normally

just hope the guy in my life now is the nice guy i've spent years searching for

Keeping my fingers crossed for you!!
Hugs

 

[ickle_stace]

Keeping my fingers crossed for you!!
Hugs

*hugs back*

thanks

 

[Shyguy1369]

Thank you ladies for your encouragement. It is nice to know there ARE women who do appreciate these qualities... I just have a hard time meeting them. I really miss being able to hold a woman in my arms, and just hold her. Feeling the closeness and love between us. Maybe I am just a hopeless romantic.

 

[ickle_stace]

Thank you ladies for your encouragement. It is nice to know there ARE women who do appreciate these qualities... I just have a hard time meeting them. I really miss being able to hold a woman in my arms, and just hold her. Feeling the closeness and love between us. Maybe I am just a hopeless romantic.

just keep waiting and it'll happen

i've spent nearly the last 3 years single because guys didn't seem to want a nice full figured girl like me

 

[Shyguy1369]

Thanks stace... it just that its been 7 and a half years for me... that's why its so hard to keep my hopes up.

 

[ickle_stace]

Thanks stace... it just that its been 7 and a half years for me... that's why its so hard to keep my hopes up.

you'll find someone, just don't give up hope

 

[goodsex777]

i love romantic men

hi there my name is crystal
anyhow i dont know why some women dont like romantic men...

i am married but my husband doesnt please me in any way
wish someone could i am 25 and live in flroida

but anyhow just wanted to say hope to chat with you soon

 

[Shyguy1369]

hi there my name is crystal
anyhow i dont know why some women dont like romantic men...

i am married but my husband doesnt please me in any way
wish someone could i am 25 and live in flroida

but anyhow just wanted to say hope to chat with you soon

It is nice to know that there are some women out there who like romance as well. However, like yourself, they are either taken, too far away or not attracted to me. I'd like to think that I could meet someone and be able to share all that I have to offer. Perhaps one day it will happen, but let me tell you, this close to Christmas makes things even worse as once again I am alone at this time of year.

 

[gwaemool]

It is nice to know that there are some women out there who like romance as well. However, like yourself, they are either taken, too far away or not attracted to me. I'd like to think that I could meet someone and be able to share all that I have to offer. Perhaps one day it will happen, but let me tell you, this close to Christmas makes things even worse as once again I am alone at this time of year.

I'm there with you.

From my experience the nice guy ends up the friend to whom they complain about their asshole boyfriends.

Don't mean to sound bitter but it's frustrating.

 

[Shyguy1369]

I know what you mean. That is how it has been with me too. I am the best or good friend, but that's about all. I mean I am glad to have some of them as friends as they are really kool and I mean I would rather be friends than have no relationship at all with them... but the few I am friends with, well they have made it obvious that that is as far as it will go.

 

[gwaemool]

I agree about prefering to have them as friends instead of them not having any part in my life. I have one friend that I have strong feelings for that the thought of not having her in my life saddens me even though she sees me as a friend and that's it. (And yes she knows how I feel about her.)

 

[Shyguy1369]

I have a friend in a very similar situation and as with you, she does know how I feel... but it just is a strong friendship and nothing more.