Shy Girl Wants to Talk

[shyly]

Hi, I have read the posts here for a long time but today I finally made an account.

I am a very shy 21-year-old virgin. I am a little naïve about some things perhaps, but I am a fast learner. Unfortunately I usually am too shy to talk about some things which means learning can be difficult.

I have many fantasies about forced sex. Usually this means that there is a struggle, I am forced, and then I am forced to admit like it.

From everything I have read here, I am not sure this is normal. I guess to be seduced to be submissive is my fantasy, but I do not think those are quite the right words. I know that I am not submissive really, but I fantasise that I am forced to be.

lol So I am a little confused as always. I signed up today because I think now I am ready to talk to someone about these fantasies.

I do not seek to be a sub for a Dominant or a Master: I only want someone to help me define my fantasies and help me understand them. I do not know how to start. I am very inexperienced and to talk to me may require much patience.

My English is excellent and I can also converse in German, French and Dutch. If you wish to speak to me via the Yahoo or the Skype that would be best because then I could talk with my voice while I sew which would give more time to talk.

Please send me a Private Message before you put me on your list of contacts on an application. Also I have other applications to use if you prefer. Just ask.

So... I cannot think of more to say. Please do not post rudeness here, I am nice and I have not insulted you.

 

[darkenhorse]

It sounds like you may wish to be a submissive but you don't fully realise it yet.

Being "forced" or ravished to use an olde worlde term is quite a common fantasy amongs women of all ages. This is not to be confused with rape ,which is a horrid and traumatic experience. I think thats where your confusion lies. You're fantasising about being ravish but not raped.

There is a school of thought that , on an instinctual level, some women wants a man to be a man. They want a man in charge, freeing them up on some level. Other women want to be in charge and the man to take the orders.

It could be that you want to be a submissive but within certain boundraries. Thats quite acceptable, you just need to find your right dom. Some subs prefer to be subs 24/7 , whereas others have regular lives but step into their sub when in private.

Don't be confused by the labels - sub is a large grey area sometimes.

 

[ManofMastery]

Yeah, yeah.

I wish I had a pound for every 'confused 21 year old virgin' that makes an appearance on these pages.

 

[JudeRodney]

...says the guy who's been here for a month.

 

[shyly]

It sounds like you may wish to be a submissive but you don't fully realise it yet.

Being "forced" or ravished to use an olde worlde term is quite a common fantasy amongs women of all ages. This is not to be confused with rape ,which is a horrid and traumatic experience. I think thats where your confusion lies. You're fantasising about being ravish but not raped.

There is a school of thought that , on an instinctual level, some women wants a man to be a man. They want a man in charge, freeing them up on some level. Other women want to be in charge and the man to take the orders.

It could be that you want to be a submissive but within certain boundraries. Thats quite acceptable, you just need to find your right dom. Some subs prefer to be subs 24/7 , whereas others have regular lives but step into their sub when in private.

Don't be confused by the labels - sub is a large grey area sometimes.

Thank you for your time to respond.

I can see that the label sub must be a very large category! But still, I think the definition probably must remain to be submissive. I think more of to be not submissive and to struggle but then to be forced to do something, and then when I am vulnerable and needing, I am forced to say I like it and things like this.

Yeah, yeah.

I wish I had a pound for every 'confused 21 year old virgin' that makes an appearance on these pages.

I am glad to not be the only one, then!

 

[darkking]

I'd gladly help you out just PM me

 

[unregistered]

 

[Nitedaddy]

Hi, I have read the posts here for a long time but today I finally made an account.

I am a very shy 21-year-old virgin. I am a little naïve about some things perhaps, but I am a fast learner. Unfortunately I usually am too shy to talk about some things which means learning can be difficult.

I have many fantasies about forced sex. Usually this means that there is a struggle, I am forced, and then I am forced to admit like it.

From everything I have read here, I am not sure this is normal. I guess to be seduced to be submissive is my fantasy, but I do not think those are quite the right words. I know that I am not submissive really, but I fantasise that I am forced to be.

lol So I am a little confused as always. I signed up today because I think now I am ready to talk to someone about these fantasies.

I do not seek to be a sub for a Dominant or a Master: I only want someone to help me define my fantasies and help me understand them. I do not know how to start. I am very inexperienced and to talk to me may require much patience.

My English is excellent and I can also converse in German, French and Dutch. If you wish to speak to me via the Yahoo or the Skype that would be best because then I could talk with my voice while I sew which would give more time to talk.

Please send me a Private Message before you put me on your list of contacts on an application. Also I have other applications to use if you prefer. Just ask.

So... I cannot think of more to say. Please do not post rudeness here, I am nice and I have not insulted you.

Hi Shyly, Looks like your problem has been solved; at least I cannot see any activity on this matter from your part anymore. If I am wrong, you may PM me and I'll give you my ICQ ID, so we can chat about your problem. And we can do so in Dutch if you like. Somehow I have the feeling that you are from The Netherlands.