Showers vs growers.

[freakinblue]

When erect I have a fairly proportional to my size - 6’2, 200- cock, cut, around 7 in, med thickness, nice shape, thick ridge and head. Soft, at best it’s 3”, quite often less.
Makes the idea of getting nude in public uncomfortable.

Anyway, nothing to add other than if I could I’d rather not be such an extreme grower.

 

[Nezhul]

I'm the same. In fact, in cold weather I once saw my cock shrink to under an inch. It was basically just a small thing, was really funny.

I wouldn't be uncomfortable about stripping though. There are a few things at play here:
1) everyone KNOWS about growers, so would never assume your acutal cock size based on your flaccid state.
2) People don't usually pay attention to other people's sex parts. How often do you look at other men's penises and try ti estimate their erect size? I wager - not often. THing is, you willy may be a special and dear thing to YOU, but other men basically don't give a damn.
3) Cock size is not on the forefront of anything. It's not crucial to sexual performance, barring extreme cases. It tells nothing about your sucess with women or your position in life. It just doesn't make you ANYTHING. For all they know, you may be a macho-man who has ten times more sex then them, with women who are model material.

It's just so irrelevant, dude. Just don't think about it, is what I propose.

Also if you want to look really cool and like a sex monster - honestly, having some muscle works much better in the eyes of anyone who gets to behold you. And this - you can improve.
Having a groomed body and a neat trimmed pubic area also makes you look sexually proficient - much more so than having your flaccid dick a bit longer.
Masculinity doesn't come from your flaccid size.

If you are self-conscious - pay attention to those areas.

 

[HampshireBoy]

I'm the same. In fact, in cold weather I once saw my cock shrink to under an inch. It was basically just a small thing, was really funny.

I wouldn't be uncomfortable about stripping though. There are a few things at play here:
1) everyone KNOWS about growers, so would never assume your acutal cock size based on your flaccid state.
2) People don't usually pay attention to other people's sex parts. How often do you look at other men's penises and try ti estimate their erect size? I wager - not often. THing is, you willy may be a special and dear thing to YOU, but other men basically don't give a damn.
3) Cock size is not on the forefront of anything. It's not crucial to sexual performance, barring extreme cases. It tells nothing about your sucess with women or your position in life. It just doesn't make you ANYTHING. For all they know, you may be a macho-man who has ten times more sex then them, with women who are model material.

It's just so irrelevant, dude. Just don't think about it, is what I propose.

Also if you want to look really cool and like a sex monster - honestly, having some muscle works much better in the eyes of anyone who gets to behold you. And this - you can improve.
Having a groomed body and a neat trimmed pubic area also makes you look sexually proficient - much more so than having your flaccid dick a bit longer.
Masculinity doesn't come from your flaccid size.

If you are self-conscious - pay attention to those areas.

All very good advice.

I have spent a fair amount of time on nudist beaches and at a couple of naturist camps, honestly I don't think anyone takes much notice of a flaccid penis but they will notice a nicely toned body.

 

[bicuriohub]

I’m pretty similar,very tall guy but I’m a big grower otherwise it doesn’t look like I’m hung like a horse lol. I still love being naked,just around the house but even though I’m not porn star huge I’d still love to go to a nude beach or resort someday with the wife and have that liberated feeling of being nude in public.
Like others have said,most will know of growers and show-ers and not be turned off or disrespectful in any way

 

[LookingGlassLicker]

On a good day, with a fair wind, I'm about 7 inches erect. Most of the time, flaccid, I'm closer to 2 inches or less. Yes that makes the idea of public nudity humiliating.

 

[HornyHal]

I don’t know about all of you guys but I don’t come across that many nude beaches. If you do want to attend one or a nude camp ground, and you want to have a decent showing while walking around talking to the other nudists, just give yourself a couple casual strokes before you leave the car or the tent and chub up a little. Not enough to get fully hard but enough just to get a little blood flowing. If you do go full erection, just go with it, it’s bound to happen naturally anyways. Either way it’s a better showing than a flaccid nub that’s resting on your nutsac.

 

[TallOne]

Yeah another tall guy grower here. In the cold can be around an inch, but erect hits 8. When flaccid a couple tugs will make it look a little more respectable heh.

 

[live4thebj]

I sometimes grow in the shower especially after reading a story on the toilet or watching a video.

 

[Nezhul]

If you do want to attend one or a nude camp ground, and you want to have a decent showing while walking around talking to the other nudists, just give yourself a couple casual strokes before you leave the car or the tent and chub up a little.

People go there NOT to look at your penis. And definitely not to show off theirs. You will only embarrass yourself more if you are stroking to seem bigger.

 

[waratah]

On a good day, with a fair wind, I'm about 7 inches erect. Most of the time, flaccid, I'm closer to 2 inches or less. Yes that makes the idea of public nudity humiliating.

Snap. Could be my long lost twin brother.

 

[HoldYouDown]

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[jackbird]

still small

Flaccid 1/2 ins hard 4 ins but thick 5 ins around

 

[dannyboy1958]

After many years ive decided ita temperature thing, im 6 4 - 90 kilos - 8 inch erect - about 5-6 around, so a good size i think- flaccid i can 5 inches but have seen it get so small in dissapers into the little bit of fat i have at the base of my dick- quite extreme - same as my balls - soemtimes they seem enormous hanging may below my flaccid dick, other times no exsistent.
If im undressing at the end of the day, back from work, normally thats when the large stuff happens, but in a few minutes all goes south!

I would worry too much, a has been said - its what you do with it that important

 

[Texastuffbbc]

Little of both as my avatar and profile picture shows.

 

[bicuriohub]

Little of both as my avatar and profile picture shows.

Damn either way man you’ve got the goods regardless of your showing or growing status lol

 

[roc23]

I’m definitely a grower.

 

[Mtnmike]

Grower, every lady has commented on it.
They say " I can't believe this started out from that ".

 

[dp4shelly]

We really don't care...

Porn depicts sex in a very unrealistic way. Other women can weigh in on this but I am sure the majority of us really don't care about cock size. Think of it this way: Isn't it true that breast size varies a great deal? But while a huge rack might be awesome some ugly woman with massive breasts are not going to get a rise out of you. While other women with small breasts might be really hot and great in bed.

It is the same for us. It is mostly just guys worrying about it. I have a friend with a small penis and he has only come to one of our parties and I am sure it is because he knows he is the smallest guy in our group of FWB. He knows I love his junk and we have a lot of fun together but he is just way too concerned about size.

 

[J_Bone]

Definitely a shower. Solid 5.5-6” flaccid and roughly 8” hard.

 

[MidKnight1378]

I’m in this club, I’m 6’5” tall 220lbs in good shape, my penis is 7.25”L X 2”D and shrinks down to about 3” or less depending on the weather.

But as my girlfriend told me a long time ago, “I know they shrivel up when it’s cold, they don’t get hard when you want them to and they come too fast when you don’t want them too. I’m not in love with a dildo, I’m in love with a man.”

My wife chimed in, “And they pee on the toilet seat all too often.”

 

[hulmule]

Grower here. It's all good. 8" full but can be 2-3" soft. funny how much it can grow.

 

[magicalmoments]

2) People don't usually pay attention to other people's sex parts. How often do you look at other men's penises and try ti estimate their erect size? I wager - not often. THing is, you willy may be a special and dear thing to YOU, but other men basically don't give a damn.

Well... You've just lost your wager. I have always checked out other guys at every opportunity. I always try to imagine them hard and what their cock feels like. I certainly give damn.
I'm not alone either. Next time you're in a locker room you can guarantee there will be at least one sizing you up.

 

[newhere2learn]

On a good day, with a fair wind, I'm about 7 inches erect. Most of the time, flaccid, I'm closer to 2 inches or less. Yes that makes the idea of public nudity humiliating.

Exactly the same here. Saving grace has been that usually on the first time new partners see it, it's hard

 

[AficionadoAngel]

As a woman I have appreciated both showers and growers over the years. Who doesn't love to watch things grow? However, there is something sexy about a man who appears partially erect as he goes about a normal routine in the nude. I love the appearance of a long penis arcing out and down, or swaying between his legs while he moves. There is just something primal and undeniably masculine about it. I also love seeing man's cock half hard and dripping after sex...so it's not just for showers.

 

[Pee4Fun]

It's a biological fact that the longer a penis is in its flaccid state, the less it grows when erect. The opposite is also true. A man who is only 2" when limp can easily triple in size when he becomes hard. That would be impossible if he was 6" long while soft. I hope you see my point.

This is why it was often difficult to determine when John Holmes was hard. He was huge when soft and hard. His size increased very little.

(SOURCE: I studied human sexuality in college.)