should I think about a threesome?

[dramaqueen124]

Ok, I looked around a little bit and couldn't find this topic, so I hope I am posting this in the right spot.

Here is a little background- my husband nad I have been married for 2 years. We are both very happy and our sex life is good. I was a virgin when I met him and he had 4 previous partners, but all were one night stands.

Having a threesome with another woman is something we have frequently discussed. I know he really wants to do it, as an experience we can share together. But I am a little apprehensive about it. For one thing, I don't know if I am bisexual- having sex with another woman definitely arouses me, but I don't know if I could act on it. Also, since my sexual experiences are limited to one person, I don't know if I would feel right being with someone else. Then there is the doubt factor- I am worried what this might do to our relationship- I wonder if I would regret it, and picture him fucking her, and wonder if he liked her better or wanted to be with her more. Or worse, what if he thinks I am not good enough anymore?

He would only consider being with another woman, he doesn't even want to think about swapping or another man being there.

So is there any advice from people who have been in this situation? I know they are not for everyone, I just don't know that to think- I am intrigued and aroused byt the idea, but don't want to do it if it will negatively affect our relationship in any way.

Advice, thoughts, etc? I would appreciate some feedback. Thanks

 

[darknite2]

Advice

Well that says it all in one sentence. If he will not even consider you having a 3 some with a man then he isnt really ready. I think both you and him need alot more communication between yourselves before you even consider taking it a step further.Bringing a third person into a relationship is a giant step that if both are not completely open and honest with each other it will wind up hurting if not destroying your current relationship.Ive been there...i have been the third in two previous marriages. But one was for the impregnating of a wife..the other was so amazing youd hardly believe it.They were so open and honest it still amazes me to this day. I was very fortunate to be able to share thier marriage and become close friends for a very long time. Take care and i wish you all the best.
darknite