Should I settle down with a nice guy

[LadyFunkenstein]

Before my body falls apart and gets all drippity droopity like most of you? Everyone has a shelf life, my expiration date is probably coming up soon.

I have gone out a few times with a guy from Staten island. Usually that would be a hell no but maybe I can get a residents ez pass out of the deal. He likes me but is really pushing it on the chub department.

That said i can't turn down young hard cock. Last Tuesday a 30 year old dude stepped to me. Ended up going back to his place. As it turned out he is friends with Dan... Wonder of they compared notes. If so things are all but done where I hang out.

Maybe I should give the chubby dude a shot. I made out with him last night. Good personality so far anyway. But his diet must suck

 

[SolarHomo]

Before my body falls apart and gets all drippity droopity like most of you? Everyone has a shelf life, my expiration date is probably coming up soon.

I have gone out a few times with a guy from Staten island. Usually that would be a hell no but maybe I can get a residents ez pass out of the deal. He likes me but is really pushing it on the chub department.

That said i can't turn down young hard cock. Last Tuesday a 30 year old dude stepped to me. Ended up going back to his place. As it turned out he is friends with Dan... Wonder of they compared notes. If so things are all but done where I hang out.

Maybe I should give the chubby dude a shot. I made out with him last night. Good personality so far anyway. But his diet must suck

All the nice guys are taken.

 

[smoothg103rd]

Settle down Funk. You gotta give this hoe shit up one day.

 

[The Greek]

From your words, your concern about your age/beauty is driving this decision versus finding the "right" person. The fact that you have cravings to play the field and your focus on his build indicates this is probably not the right guy.

You obviously have nothing to worry about in the beauty department. Be open to finding that right guy for you but do not settle on someone who is not that person. You both will likely get hurt in the end.

 

[Que]

You seem lacking in the "I can fix him" gene department. I thought that was located on the X chromosome, but since neither of ours have it, I might need to re-think that.

In my experience, most women would assume they will make him over into what they want.

On a serious note you seem to have a lot of knowledge and interest in things nutritional. I would not think pointing such things out to him would be effective, but perhaps he is more a lazy gourmand than someone committed to poor eating choices. Have him take you places with healthy choices and encourage him to try this or try that and find out if he is interested in developing a broader range of food choices.

I notice people that make poor choices usually don't cook much, are disinterested in it, and do not stray far from a pretty small selection of menu options.

One of the guys staying here is a competitive body-builder. It is not in his DNA to be lean. He works hard at it. The other guy is a lanky 6'4". When I met him about 7 years ago he was cooking ravioli in the can on the stove top. He isn't much better now. The one speaking of the other said recently, "He eats like a homeless person."

See if he is open to some additional food choices. I was watching a nutritionist who had a great strategy with his clients. Have them keep adding healthy stuff to whatever they already eat till it crowds the bad out.

 

[ImSinister]

If you have to ask the answer is no.

But maybe you could settle down with the chubby guy as a cuckold.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

From your words, your concern about your age/beauty is driving this decision versus finding the "right" person. The fact that you have cravings to play the field and your focus on his build indicates this is probably not the right guy.

You obviously have nothing to worry about in the beauty department. Be open to finding that right guy for you but do not settle on someone who is not that person. You both will likely get hurt in the end.

I appreciate the compliment, but "beauty" isn't really a word often applied to me. I am rather average looking. I keep my body together because I can, and frankly don't understand why ask women don't follow suit. Glad they don't though.

Is there a such thing as the "right" person? I am pretty set in my ways as are men. I don't think the "right" one will ever appear. I think I missed the boat on that.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

You seem lacking in the "I can fix him" gene department. I thought that was located on the X chromosome, but since neither of ours have it, I might need to re-think that.

In my experience, most women would assume they will make him over into what they want.

On a serious note you seem to have a lot of knowledge and interest in things nutritional. I would not think pointing such things out to him would be effective, but perhaps he is more a lazy gourmand than someone committed to poor eating choices. Have him take you places with healthy choices and encourage him to try this or try that and find out if he is interested in developing a broader range of food choices.

I notice people that make poor choices usually don't cook much, are disinterested in it, and do not stray far from a pretty small selection of menu options.

One of the guys staying here is a competitive body-builder. It is not in his DNA to be lean. He works hard at it. The other guy is a lanky 6'4". When I met him about 7 years ago he was cooking ravioli in the can on the stove top. He isn't much better now. The one speaking of the other said recently, "He eats like a homeless person."

See if he is open to some additional food choices. I was watching a nutritionist who had a great strategy with his clients. Have them keep adding healthy stuff to whatever they already eat till it crowds the bad out.

People have tried to change me, happens all the time. I always dig in my heels and double down on who I am. As a result I see no point in trying to change anyone.

He may just be a lazy eater which can be fixed. But if he actually enjoys the Standard American Diet (SAD) it can't be fixed.

 

[1sickbastard]

Based on what you've said on this thread, no.
What's wrong with staying single anyway?
If you "settle" for some schmuck "nice guy", chances are you're both going to be miserable and end as stat in the failed marriages column.

 

[The Greek]

I appreciate the compliment, but "beauty" isn't really a word often applied to me. I am rather average looking. I keep my body together because I can, and frankly don't understand why ask women don't follow suit. Glad they don't though.

Is there a such thing as the "right" person? I am pretty set in my ways as are men. I don't think the "right" one will ever appear. I think I missed the boat on that.

The odds of finding the "right" person does not diminish as you grow older. The qualifications of that person may change, however, and that is not necessarily a bad thing.

..and I seriously do think beautiful applies to you. As people mature, however, a person's physical beauty can diminish in importance versus other traits. Intimacy is wonderful, but you need to tolerate each other the rest of the day too.

 

[GimpyIntellect]

How old are you? Or does that go unspoken?

 

[Que]

People have tried to change me, happens all the time. I always dig in my heels and double down on who I am. As a result I see no point in trying to change anyone.

He may just be a lazy eater which can be fixed. But if he actually enjoys the Standard American Diet (SAD) it can't be fixed.

SAD...I'm stealing that.

 

[pointless]

i prefer social anxiety disorder and seasonal affective disorder myself.

 

[Beco]

Before my body falls apart and gets all drippity droopity like most of you? Everyone has a shelf life, my expiration date is probably coming up soon.

I have gone out a few times with a guy from Staten island. Usually that would be a hell no but maybe I can get a residents ez pass out of the deal. He likes me but is really pushing it on the chub department.

That said i can't turn down young hard cock. Last Tuesday a 30 year old dude stepped to me. Ended up going back to his place. As it turned out he is friends with Dan... Wonder of they compared notes. If so things are all but done where I hang out.

Maybe I should give the chubby dude a shot. I made out with him last night. Good personality so far anyway. But his diet must suck

Marry money if you can....

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

The odds of finding the "right" person does not diminish as you grow older. The qualifications of that person may change, however, and that is not necessarily a bad thing.

..and I seriously do think beautiful applies to you. As people mature, however, a person's physical beauty can diminish in importance versus other traits. Intimacy is wonderful, but you need to tolerate each other the rest of the day too.

I think you have put such a positive spin on things you aren't being realistic. When no one wants to fuck you, no one wants to date you either let alone have a relationship. The clock ticks for us all

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

How old are you? Or does that go unspoken?

44, turning 45 in about a month

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

Marry money if you can....

Think I am about 20 years too late. Should have listened to my father about that!

 

[The Greek]

I think you have put such a positive spin on things you aren't being realistic. When no one wants to fuck you, no one wants to date you either let alone have a relationship. The clock ticks for us all

A bit positive....but also accurate to what I have seen with multiple friends of mine. As you get older, tastes change and priorities change. It does not mean you go and settle but you will only achieve success if you take time to understand what you truly want and focus accordingly. That can take a lot of work. That also may likely mean looking at the crowds you hang out with and what your success rate might be with them.

 

[someoneyouknow]

All the nice guys are taken.

Hardly. There are those yet to be found because they are always overlooked.

 

[Beco]

Think I am about 20 years too late. Should have listened to my father about that!

Never too late!

 

[girlsmiley]

Get married. Have children. Buy a nice big home and live happily ever after. Yes.

 

[Disgustipated]

Before my body falls apart and gets all drippity droopity like most of you? Everyone has a shelf life, my expiration date is probably coming up soon.

I have gone out a few times with a guy from Staten island. Usually that would be a hell no but maybe I can get a residents ez pass out of the deal. He likes me but is really pushing it on the chub department.

That said i can't turn down young hard cock. Last Tuesday a 30 year old dude stepped to me. Ended up going back to his place. As it turned out he is friends with Dan... Wonder of they compared notes. If so things are all but done where I hang out.

Maybe I should give the chubby dude a shot. I made out with him last night. Good personality so far anyway. But his diet must suck

You like dumbshits who like dumbshits. Go for it, bro!

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Does anyone give a shit?

 

[GimpyIntellect]

44, turning 45 in about a month

I think you've got another two or three years before you hit the wall.

No reason you can't enjoy some young, firm cock in that time.

Just string a nice guy along the way, and when you wake up one morning and your face has dropped, and you've got those droopy arms, that's when you get serious with the nice guy.

 

[girlsmiley]

I think you've got another two or three years before you hit the wall.

No reason you can't enjoy some young, firm cock in that time.

Just string a nice guy along the way, and when you wake up one morning and your face has dropped, and you've got those droopy arms, that's when you get serious with the nice guy.

This guy.

Dude, 'string a nice guy along the way'?

That's not nice.