Should i hae done something?

[7inukbi36]

A few weeks ago i was on lunch at work with a group of work friends, one of which i fancy, she was very attractive but is attahced and so am i, the conversation was the usual work lunch stuff, until it gets on to the topic of affairs.

We all came to the same agreement that we couldn't cheet on our other halfs, until that is the girl i fancied looked me straight in the eyes and said "I might with the right person" and held her gaze on me for a while longer.

Me being me did nothing, except gulp and nervously finish my lunch and go back to work and that was the end of that apart from the odd knowing look from her afterwards

So the question is, should i have done something at the time, persue an affair with her - god knows i would have liked to - or did i just read too much into one comment.

 

[_prudence_]

Tell her the truth...





...she's a tart.

 

[Angellica1612]

Thought you said you wouldn't cheat? If you're married and not happy, it's time to do some serious thinking and communicating with your wife. Either work on the marriage, or get a divorce. You can wait until it's final to have a fling, it won't kill you. Cheating is wrong and hurtful. Don't do it. You once loved her enough to marry her, so respect her enough now to do the right thing.

 

[shrek100]

I have and do have a similar dilemma. I wrote abit on here in the how to section "how to distance yourself from someone"
I too won't cheat but temptation is a killer sometimes

 

[MNGuy]

It's been two and a half years, didja have the affair, or puss out?

How do these old threads get found?

 

[kbate]

You are in luck. Cheating is not the same thing as Cheeting. Just be certain that you clean your hands afterward, the orange residue of cheeting is what causes most people to be caught.

 

[Amy_K]

Sorry, I read up to the word fancy and thought this was an Ann Landers question.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

It's been two and a half years, didja have the affair, or puss out?

How do these old threads get found?

What's even more crazy is that the OP didn't bump this back up, but is online now and had to have noticed it.

 

[kbate]

What's even more crazy is that the OP didn't bump this back up, but is online now and had to have noticed it.

The OP poster spends little time on the GB and probably didn't see it.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

The OP poster spends little time on the GB and probably didn't see it.

Possible, but if he checks his User CP at any time today, it'll be at the top of his subscribed thread list.

 

[kbate]

Possible, but if he checks his User CP at any time today, it'll be at the top of his subscribed thread list.

If he subscribed. I never bother and don't receive the emails or anything related to threads. I just start them and let them die a properly quick death.

 

[thør]

You are in luck. Cheating is not the same thing as Cheeting. Just be certain that you clean your hands afterward, the orange residue of cheeting is what causes most people to be caught.

And if you're going to go for it, go for the gusto and only do the crunchy fried variety. Never settle for second best.