Should I dole it out in smaller doses..?

[sporty]

Okay....strange question...mostly for the guys I guess..
I love oral sex with my boyfriend of a year and a 1/2...giving and receiving. GIving him a blow job is a regular part of our sex play....whether culminating in orgasm, or as a prelude to intercourse....it's almost ALWAYS part of our lovemaking.

Now, i've read a number of posts here that many guys are just happy that a woman is going down on him........what a treat ...kinds of posts.

Since it's something he always gets, i hate to think he could become bored with it......I adore giving head....but maybe I should keep it as something more "special"...and use it as more of a treat ? ....I want him to always view it as a very special act.

any thoughts....?

thanks

 

[James G 5]

Okay....strange question...mostly for the guys I guess..
I love oral sex with my boyfriend of a year and a 1/2...giving and receiving. GIving him a blow job is a regular part of our sex play....whether culminating in orgasm, or as a prelude to intercourse....it's almost ALWAYS part of our lovemaking.

Now, i've read a number of posts here that many guys are just happy that a woman is going down on him........what a treat ...kinds of posts.

Since it's something he always gets, i hate to think he could become bored with it......I adore giving head....but maybe I should keep it as something more "special"...and use it as more of a treat ? ....I want him to always view it as a very special act.

any thoughts....?

thanks

He won't get bored
trust me
you're a rare treasure, never dole

 

[Blindinthedark]

Re: Re: Should I dole it out in smaller doses..?

He won't get bored
trust me
you're a rare treasure, never dole

I second that.

 

[sporty]

okay...thanks guys ...
but really ....... if you were / or are getting it on an almost daily basis.....are you saying it would still be just as great and exciting..?

 

[Semler]

I love to get it as much as possible myself, but your right, it can get a little routine. Sometimes its great to skip it and and go straight to the sex. Another thing is de a little dominate and just have him please you.

 

[Lust Engine]

okay...thanks guys ...
but really ....... if you were / or are getting it on an almost daily basis.....are you saying it would still be just as great and exciting..?

It's ALWAYS exciting! I don't think that we'd ever get bored with it. It's as much mental as it is a physical sensation for us. As long as you're not too mechanical about it, I can't see a guy saying no to it.

But, oh to consider it a treat that's to be doled out! Treat us like the dogs that we are at times... sheesh!

 

[sporty]

But, oh to consider it a treat that's to be doled out! Treat us like the dogs that we are at times... sheesh!

Did I mention he also does tricks ?

 

[Lust Engine]

Did I mention he also does tricks ?

As long as it's not on a street corner for cold hard cash, I'm not gonna worry too much.

 

[sporty]

As long as it's not on a street corner for cold hard cash, I'm not gonna worry too much.

Um....i meant like " sit " , "stay", "beg", roll-over and spread em", etc..

 

[Lust Engine]

Um....i meant like " sit " , "stay", "beg", roll-over and spread em", etc..

Oooo the "spread 'em" command huh? YOW!

 

[James G 5]

okay...thanks guys ...
but really ....... if you were / or are getting it on an almost daily basis.....are you saying it would still be just as great and exciting..?

You don't have to go whole hog to completion ever day, or do it in exactly the same way every time (to completion at least every other day, probably )
But at least give him some to work him up, as foreplay, etc etc
It's ALWAYS great & exciting
A lot of guys I have tlked to have said they prefer the feeling of a good BJ to vaginal or anal sex
He won't get bored

 

[sporty]

James -
Thanks again...great advice to follow......especially as it means I still get it regularly too !!!

 

[Nicole]

I sent you a PM with this information in it, and wanted to share it here too.

A man can never get sick of a good blowjob, we just have to learn new techniques to keep him wanting more.

Also it's good because we get to give more and more often because of all the practice

Giving the Best Blowjob Ever - (to get whatever you want from him in return)

No doubt that going down is pretty much all about his pleasure. If you're going for it though, you might as well do it with style. These techniques will leave him weak in the knees (and other places!) calling you a blow job goddess. And you never know - they might leave you a little wet between the legs as well.

Schoolgirl Steps:

*Practice* on something non fleshy like a banana or a dildo. Sure you're friends may call you porno, but just think of it as training for a marathon. Play around with the shape and size you prefer, trying new techniques sans the ever feared teeth grind.

*Go slow* taking as much of the penis as you can in your mouth, coming all the way up - letting your lips touch the head before going back down. As things start to heat up, you can suck harder and faster. Be sure to cover your teeth with your lips if he has a big cock.

*Talk dirty* and wiggle your ass, especially if you are on your hands and knees. Guys go crazy for the whole porno act, and you probably do too. If you act like a superstar, he'll believe it. Ask for a good fucking, and you shall receive.

Tasty Sucks:

*Prime your mouth* with a couple Altoids or menthol mints. Even Monica Lewinsky knows about this Tingler move. All you need to do is suck down one or two Altoids, suck or even blow on your guy's dick, and their magic will work their way through the mucus membranes. Make him turn around and try it on you too!

*Cool him off* by sipping on a glass of ice water before going down. Keep your lips warm and your mouth cool, giving him as much of the icy treatment as he can stand. He can repeat the process on you, but remember, getting too wet down there prevents you from being lubed up for main course activities!

*Keep things hot* by having a cup of hot tea or chocolate in the bedroom to warm up your mouth. If you are feeling super ambitious, pair it with the ice water for alternating hot and cool sensations.

*Make him taste good* by giving his cock a good amount of whipped cream decoration. Top it off with powdered sugar, coconut, chocolate syrup, and whatever else tickles your taste buds. Take a picture for blackmail, and enjoy making your way through the dick sundae. Be sure to wash the Mr. Happy up before letting him explore other areas.

Porno Positions:

*Licking it like a lollypop* is something you've probably tried before - all those nice summery memories of Creamsicles and all. It is a great way to prolong ejaculation or get your guy warmed up for some more intense moves. The best way to do this is to start at the bottom of the nutsack going slowly up to the tip of the head. Make sure your tongue is nice and flat, and repeat as needed. Yummy!

*Hard sucking*, known as the Mango Kernal Suction in Kama Sutra talk, is a good way to speed up ejaculation in some guys. The deeper you go down, the better this seems to work. Sucking strongly on the head alone is too much for most guys unless you temper it with some nice tongue action.

*Small bites* are another trick Kama Sutra masters swear by. First hold the shaft in your right hand, and "bite" the left side of his member with your lips. Repeat the process with the shaft in your left hand, biting the right side. If you are daring enough, incorporate a little teeth into the bites.

*Suck like a gay boy* with the internet's infamous butterfly flutter. This little trick supposedly originates from a dark X rated theater in San Francisco. Kneel in front of your lover, with him either standing or lying down. Wrap your lips tightly around the top part of his shaft, and flutter your tongue around the head and underside of the cock. Voila, instant man squirm! And he'll wonder where the hell you figured that out...

*Coordinate your efforts* a little, and you'll drive him mad with the silken swirl. You simply combine your normal up and down sucking grove with a little clockwise tongue action. Sounds easier than it is, but if you master this one, he'll be dying to give a little back.

Deep Throat Diva:

*Taking it all in* is a feat worthy of its own category. Doing it Linda Lovelace style can be accomplished, but you'll need to tell your subconscious not to gag anymore. Not a self hypnosis expert? If a few simple suggestions to yourself in a relaxed state don't work, try taking his well lubricated cock in slowly coupled with deep breaths. Starting to feel that reflex coming on? Relax and pull it in a little more. Don't forget to open wide!

 

[lickboxer]

Oral sex is a regular part of our foreplay also, that doesn't mean that it is every time. Sometimes it's just oral sometimes just intercourse. Receiving a bj is always special though, she makes sure of that. During her cycle is when she just likes to take care of me. There is nothing more special than having her go down on me. And I can barely think of having sex without going down on her, it's my major turn-on. Which always get her going at the same time

 

[bharman4102]

sporty, on behalf of your guy......please please please don't stop giving them as often....he will never get bored...and if he does, call me, I'll be right over!

 

[peachykeen]

well you know sporty there is somehting to be said for making a man beg for it maybe stop doing it for a little while and see what happens, give an occasional little lick but no more....

 

[Amfig]

any thoughts....?

thanks

You love it. He loves it. To hold back would be to become a tease. Don't.