Should I break his heart?

[lovecraft68]

I received this feedback earlier today

the writing is great the idea of excitement from a dude is wrong

They had an e-mail to reply to, so I thanked him for taking the time to reach out and pay me a compliment then asked what he meant.

Got this reply.

well if you read a story about a a girl and her adventures or a women and her adventures or mom and son
you hope it dose not turn out written buy a dude it take a liitle out of the stimulation

So....should I tell him?

Honestly I will never understand what the hell the difference is. If I find a story hot it doesn't bother me at all if a guy wrote it.

Why does it bother some guys? Is it homophobia?

 

[HeyAll]

If you don't, he's going to keep messaging you.

Some people love the thrill of chatting with a female erotic author. I've had many of those pm's and emails of people thinking I'm a woman. Sometimes I get asked to send them pics of me, or things like that. Once I say that I'm a man, the correspondents stop.

It's still pretty amazing given that my info is in my profile.

 

[lovecraft68]

If you don't, he's going to keep messaging you.

Some people love the thrill of chatting with a female erotic author. I've had many of those pm's and emails of people thinking I'm a woman. Sometimes I get asked to send them pics of me, or things like that. Once I say that I'm a man, the correspondents stop.

It's still pretty amazing given that my info is in my profile.

They don't seem to read anything like that.

I have mentioned my wife in many author's notes and said other things stating I'm male. Sometimes I think its just what they tell themselves....that homophobia thing again.

And I've gotten a lot of requests to send them 'sexy pictures' I have also received more cock pictures than I want to think about.

 

[Nathan_Brazil]

Oh Hell no, let a happy reader think whatever they want to think.

Oh? You say I'm really Mick Jagger, writing under a pen-name... err... OK.

 

[lovecraft68]

Oh Hell no, let a happy reader think whatever they want to think.

Oh? You say I'm really Mick Jagger, writing under a pen-name... err... OK.

I most likely won't respond at all, which is what I usually do. I just always think fo the look on their faces if they find out I"m a guy.

It would be like this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAQhG59zqZc

 

[jomar]

Nah, tell him you rubbed one out fantasizing he was your brother making you come over and over taking his big cock.

 

[Nathan_Brazil]

Heh! Funny video.

I'm not showing it to my daughter tho.

 

[Nathan_Brazil]

I've gotten some really funny comments on my ongoing serial. Every single time that I deviate from "form", one of my readers will just fucking lose it. But but but... that's not how all the stories do it! I want your story to be just exactly like the other 497 stories were.

I just thank them for their interest, chuckle to myself... and keep on keeping on.

 

[Zeb_Carter]

I have never gotten that. Why does the authors gender come into play, unless of course you're homophobic and afraid if anyone finds out how excited you became you might turn into a homosexual. OMG!

I never look at who wrote the story...it doesn't matter what the gender is of the author. Only that the words are strung together coherently and turn me on. What more do you want?

And if the author is female, you don't know what she looks like. What if she's a hideous creature from out of a horror flick? What if she is fat and ugly? Wouldn't that turn you off just as much as it being a man?

I bet it would.

Suggestion, don't look at the authors name and try to figure out if they are male or female. Just open a picture of you favorite woman/girl and read what's written.

Sorry for the rant. Not really.

 

[Noor]

I received this feedback earlier today

the writing is great the idea of excitement from a dude is wrong

They had an e-mail to reply to, so I thanked him for taking the time to reach out and pay me a compliment then asked what he meant.

Got this reply.

well if you read a story about a a girl and her adventures or a women and her adventures or mom and son
you hope it dose not turn out written buy a dude it take a liitle out of the stimulation

So....should I tell him?

Honestly I will never understand what the hell the difference is. If I find a story hot it doesn't bother me at all if a guy wrote it.

Why does it bother some guys? Is it homophobia?

Tell him what you said above. It's not homophobia, it's just not his fantasy.

 

[Noor]

I prefer cozy mysteries written by female author, but I could tell if something was written by a man

 

[lovecraft68]

I prefer cozy mysteries written by female author, but I could tell if something was written by a man

So let me ask you, why does it matter its a woman writing it? Do you think they're better at it, or they have a certain style? Is it more comfortable for you somehow?

And yes, most men can't pull off a woman's writing style for a long piece. Sooner or later something 'male' slips in.

 

[HandsInTheDark]

I love the fact that some female readers assumed I was female, before they looked it up.

I don't care who writes stories. Back in the long-ago when I did online roleplay, though, I'd get grossed out if I found out the other player was male, pretending to be female. Eh, I'm only a zero on the kinsey scale because he didn't define -1.

Before anyone even tries to start it, being grossed out by male/male sex, even fictional, doesn't make me homophobic.

 

[Zeb_Carter]

I love the fact that some female readers assumed I was female, before they looked it up.

I don't care who writes stories. Back in the long-ago when I did online roleplay, though, I'd get grossed out if I found out the other player was male, pretending to be female. Eh, I'm only a zero on the kinsey scale because he didn't define -1.

Before anyone even tries to start it, being grossed out by male/male sex, even fictional, doesn't make me homophobic.

I don't consider someone homophobic who doesn't like M/M stories. I don't like those but I'm not homophobic. I don't really care what a persons sexual orientation is and I won't shun someone because of it.

But someone being turned off by the same gender writer? That's homophobic. It's all about the words, not the writers gender. If the only thought going through your head as you read is "a male wrote this, yuck" then you're homophobic.

 

[lovecraft68]

I love the fact that some female readers assumed I was female, before they looked it up.

I don't care who writes stories. Back in the long-ago when I did online roleplay, though, I'd get grossed out if I found out the other player was male, pretending to be female. Eh, I'm only a zero on the kinsey scale because he didn't define -1.

Before anyone even tries to start it, being grossed out by male/male sex, even fictional, doesn't make me homophobic.

I've been in your shoes in the role play scene

But to me that is different because its not a story people are reading. In a role play you are interacting with that person so its basically being lied to in a sleazy way.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

http://uu.wixxerd.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/asshole.jpg




Truman Capote is near the top of my favorite writers list, and its not possible to be more queer than him. His writing wasn't queer, tho. Almost all the female writers I like are lesbian.

But I invented homophobia, at Scout camp when I was 12, the3 same summer I got my racist merit badge. Its round and green with a burning cross.

 

[Athalia]

It may be a consequence of the readers projecting their fantasies not only onto the characters of a story, but their conception of the author. As I've noted elsewhere, I get the occasional mail or comment where the correspondent identifies me with the main character in the story, doing all the weird stuff that the character does. Well, no harm done, but it reminds me that the reader may be reading more into the story than what I've included.

I suppose I should feel complimented that I've created a character that's so strong that it leaks out into the area outside the story, at least in the eyes of that reader. He (and it's invariably a he) wants that character to be an actual person, and I as the author am the obvious target. There's not much I can do about that.

 

[lovecraft68]

It may be a consequence of the readers projecting their fantasies not only onto the characters of a story, but their conception of the author. As I've noted elsewhere, I get the occasional mail or comment where the correspondent identifies me with the main character in the story, doing all the weird stuff that the character does. Well, no harm done, but it reminds me that the reader may be reading more into the story than what I've included.

I suppose I should feel complimented that I've created a character that's so strong that it leaks out into the area outside the story, at least in the eyes of that reader. He (and it's invariably a he) wants that character to be an actual person, and I as the author am the obvious target. There's not much I can do about that.

They do get the fiction mixed with the author. Because I write mother son stories I have gotten many e-mails asking if I have sex with my son and one woman saying "I want to seduce my son how do I do it?"

I refrained from answering you don't do it, you leave the kid alone, this is fiction, but...whatever. For all I know they could be a guy too and playing games.

 

[Bramblethorn]

Saw a Reddit AMA with a phone sex operator. She mentioned that one of the other "ladies" in her call centre was a 6'5" black guy with a talent for voices.

All fun and games until one of the clients got obsessed with his persona and managed to figure out where "she" lived, then showed up on the doorstep. Guy had to do the "I'm her husband" bit.

 

[lovecraft68]

Saw a Reddit AMA with a phone sex operator. She mentioned that one of the other "ladies" in her call centre was a 6'5" black guy with a talent for voices.

All fun and games until one of the clients got obsessed with his persona and managed to figure out where "she" lived, then showed up on the doorstep. Guy had to do the "I'm her husband" bit.

Again. like role plays, at that point the lie is a little deeper as you are interacting with the person and in the case of phone sex finding out the hot woman who talked you though jacking off is a guy? I think the embarrassment outweighs everything else, but in some people shame leads to rage.

But I think its an assumed risk. If you go into the net thinking everyone is what they say they are you're in for rude awakenings on many levels.

 

[loquere]

I received this feedback earlier today

the writing is great the idea of excitement from a dude is wrong

They had an e-mail to reply to, so I thanked him for taking the time to reach out and pay me a compliment then asked what he meant.

Got this reply.

well if you read a story about a a girl and her adventures or a women and her adventures or mom and son
you hope it dose not turn out written buy a dude it take a liitle out of the stimulation

So....should I tell him?

Honestly I will never understand what the hell the difference is. If I find a story hot it doesn't bother me at all if a guy wrote it.

Why does it bother some guys? Is it homophobia?

Was it a third person/narration?

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Saw a Reddit AMA with a phone sex operator. She mentioned that one of the other "ladies" in her call centre was a 6'5" black guy with a talent for voices.

All fun and games until one of the clients got obsessed with his persona and managed to figure out where "she" lived, then showed up on the doorstep. Guy had to do the "I'm her husband" bit.

You bring back memories.

Twenty years ago a sex phone performer came to the hospital I worked for, to see someone about her depression. I spoke with her for 50 minutes or so, and she said she felt much better, then asked, HOW MUCH DOES THIS COST? I replied, $3.95 A MINUTE.

 

[Noor]

So let me ask you, why does it matter its a woman writing it? Do you think they're better at it, or they have a certain style? Is it more comfortable for you somehow?

And yes, most men can't pull off a woman's writing style for a long piece. Sooner or later something 'male' slips in.

Different voice and point of view. I do read a few males-Simon Brett, Donal Lakeland.
I mainly don't like the Mickey Spillane type of mystery. I did read all the the Perry Mason ones as a child. I read a lot. I used to read everything. I just don't seem to like a lot of current male mystery writers and at the moment I prefer cozies which are mainly written by women.

I like to read strong female characters and not many men use them. I also prefer to support authors who look at women as equal members of society in all areas, and I find that more, although not exclusively, among women authors.

 

[lovecraft68]

I like to read strong female characters and not many men use them. I also prefer to support authors who look at women as equal members of society in all areas, and I find that more, although not exclusively, among women authors.

Then avoid 80% or more of what's written here where the most successful stories/authors portray women as a pair of tits with three holes who lose their minds and turn into drooling cock whores at the mention of sex.

I get assholes commenting all the time on my stories because the women take the lead a lot(not in a femdom sense) but they don't difer to the men and act like "oh, thank you for letting me blow you sir" so I get called a faggot and a wimp and whatever

In milf stories where a twenty year old kid goes for the ride of a lifetime with his hot 40 year old neighbor its not good enough because he didn't say "bitch know your place"

So I agree with your tastes and have given up trying to find it here except for a small handful of authors.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Then avoid 80% or more of what's written here where the most successful stories/authors portray women as a pair of tits with three holes who lose their minds and turn into drooling cock whores at the mention of sex.

I get assholes commenting all the time on my stories because the women take the lead a lot(not in a femdom sense) but they don't difer to the men and act like "oh, thank you for letting me blow you sir" so I get called a faggot and a wimp and whatever

In milf stories where a twenty year old kid goes for the ride of a lifetime with his hot 40 year old neighbor its not good enough because he didn't say "bitch know your place"

So I agree with your tastes and have given up trying to find it here except for a small handful of authors.

women as a pair of tits with three holes who lose their minds and turn into drooling cock whores at the mention of sex.


Very true. When did they evolve minds?