"Short Fuse

[wwarrior152]

My Wife and I have had a problem all our marrige. We make love often, but during intercourse my staying power is seriously lacking. It seems to me that 45 -60 seconds and it's all over, my load is blown and I'm going soft. We have tried different positions and techniques to little effect. My question is about these so called herbal suppliments, do they work? Is there anything else we can try that would help me last longer? An interesting twist though, When I wake up in the A.M. with an erection, it seems to last longer than normal, howcome? Any serious replys will be appreciated


WWarrior

 

[lovechild27]

I would talk to your doctor, and maybe try some of the lubes or gels that are supposed to help your erection last. (I think they have Lidocane in them or something to that effect) I really dont think those herbal things do a damn thing...who knows though..I dont have a penis and no reason to try them!

 

[BrokenWings]

the trick is to block the pleasure from your brain when you are about to come, its called the 'floodgate method'

I suggest putting some music on or something that you can focus on when youre about to come, when you feel that you are about to blow, slow down or stop thrusting, take deep breaths (breathing fast increases your arousal) and focus on something other than sex, like the music, saying the alphabet backwards in your head, old nuns in their underwear..whatever.. after a while you can have the control to do this instinctively and then you'll be able to last as long as you want..

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

WWarrior, perhaps a cock ring might be good in addition to Brokenwing's and Lovechild's suggestions. Restricting the blood flow to your cock might help in keeping your erection longer.
Hope that you find something that works for youAND your wife's pleasure!
Best wises


-kym- just checking in from the playground

 

[jenlovesamy]

I listen to Loveline alot and a guy called with the same problem. Dr Drew told him to masturbate alot, like 5 or 6 times in a day, he said (and I wouldn't know, not being a guy) but he said at the end it should be harder to cum. Do that then have sex, see if it works.

 

[lost5pints]

you can also do clenching exercise's. htese are exactly the same as kegel exercise's that women use do tighten up. When i get back from work ill post again with a detailed description of this method but in the meantime a search on google should be sufficient.