i am kind of new on here but it seems like their is definately a lot of "experience" if you may on these forums. my fiance and i absolutely love sex, if it's not everyday it's every other and she recently (few months ago) became open to the idea of anal sex. we've tried plenty of lubes, she goes to the bathroom everytime before we do it, and all that stuff. i warm her up by playing with her clit and fingering here while rubbing the outside of her rosebud with my other hand. the thing is i can put a finger inside of her ass pretty easy with spit and no spit without it bothering her but no matter how slow i try to take it out she says it hurts her. now we've used a handful of different lubes some thicker in substance than others (all water based because we have yet to grab a glass toy and use rubber toys) and she says the lube actually makes it less pleasurable. i find it easier to put toys in her while she is doggy and my finger while she is on her belly and her back. i'm just looking for some input from you girls (guys too!) on how you look your man/woman to ease you into actually putting the real thing in. like i said she is willing and we always try but like i said, it's once i get my figure in, i can't move it at all without ruining the mood. thanks in advance! 
