She's into it...

[pmgman15]

Ok the reason for this thread is two fold, first I need to gloat and second I need advice! First a little back story.

To begin, I'm a typical lurker on the site and it's time I start a thread, or should I say I finally have something that deserves starting a thread for .

Last night as my girlfriend and I were going to bed we started having a talk about some sexual situations. This comes off a long day filled multiple sex sessions and fun. We have some fun with sex and it really is great but we haven't pushed too many boundaries.

As we're laying there I asked her "what is something that pushes the limits that you want to do with me?" And boy did my jaw drop when she said that she has thought about a threesome with me and another girl. We talk about it some more in general terms and she agrees that if I could ever find a girl who would be willing to do it that she would be in to a threesome!!!

I admit part of starting this thread was just to gloat about this fact....but I'll continue with the story now.

As we continue to talk she asks me what about a threesome turns me on. She then proceeds to tell me that one of her very good friends (we'll call her Julie) has a) had a threesome and b) messed around with on of her best girlfriends. So I say "How about Julie?" GF thinks about it and says "I could fool around with Julie...plus she turns into a freak after a couple drinks."

To make a long story even longer, we end up texting Julie last night...Julie seems interested too!!! Now I'm faced with the possibility that this may actually happen. (GF and Julie are talking on the phone this week...we'll see if it comes up again) GF had trouble sleeping last night and had to take her panties off she got so turned on by the possibility of this.

Anyway, this may actually happen...where do I go from here? Any advice from experiences in a ffm threesome? Anything is appreciated.

 

[MichiganMike]

For sure that you are going to have to get a whole new set of friends and grow a goatee!

But good luck in your new adventures, you lucky dog. Please let me know how it went with your sexcapades.

 

[horsie_gurl]

dunno what advice to give, so far it seems to be going great. the only problems that have ever come out of this are jealousy... julie gets attached to you/gf feels like you like julie more or something like that. but as long as everyone knows it's all in good fun, I've never had a problem.

 

[pmgman15]

Thanks for the replies... I will definitely keep everyone updated.

The GF and I talked about the jealousy thing. As long as we keep communicating and talking about it I think we can all be adults about it.

The girls are friends...and pretty good friends at that, I don't know if that is a good thing or a bad thing.

Julie is a "free-spirit" type who just oozes sexuality. She's naturally pretty but her personality/spirit is what makes her fun.

Like I said I'm excited.

P.S. Nice catch on the Seinfeld allusion MichiganMike

 

[pmgman15]

dunno what advice to give, so far it seems to be going great. the only problems that have ever come out of this are jealousy... julie gets attached to you/gf feels like you like julie more or something like that. but as long as everyone knows it's all in good fun, I've never had a problem.

Are you fairly experienced in the threesome category HG? I feel like I'm just dipping my toe in the deep end of the pool and want to know what to expect if I dive in head first.

 

[Somehowyou]

Thanks for the replies... I will definitely keep everyone updated.


P.S. Nice catch on the Seinfeld allusion MichiganMike

Yes now you have to get "swinger" furniture.

 

[Berwyn]

My advice would be for you to take detailed video and then post it here so we can critque it for you ;D
On a serious note, have fun you lucky bastard. I would imagine that if you both feel secure about the jelousy thing it sould be fine.

 

[infinity706]

Well, I say, just have fun. I've never had any problem with threesomes or more.

 

[liquidpig]

Lucky duck. The wife and I have been looking for a girl for us for a while... no luck

 

[banes27]

Yeah, no advice to give over here either, it's going pretty well for you so far. One piece of advice, actually. If nothing comes of it the first time all three of you are together, i.e. if it doesn't lead to anything sexual, then don't get too down about it and just try again at a later date. It should be a casual thing which happens when everyone's in the mood. When me and my fiancee were trying for an mmff foursome it took like three times before we were all in the mood at the same time and bar the bed breaking and having to move the mattress into the living room to carry on it was pretty damn awesome.

Oh, and there's also performance anxiety which might come up as well. The way to get round this is basically just to relax about the whole thing. You're all up for it so who cares

Pretty much then, as long as you have a cool, calm and relaxed attitude to the whole thing it should go alright so good luck man

 

[silverwhisper]

pmgman: first of all, congratulations, that's great!

i've had a few threesomes in the past. there are a few things you should watch for, IMX:

1. be clear with your gf about how much you can or cannot play with "julie": is penetration b/n you and "julie" OK? what about kissing? you mentioned that per your gf, "julie" turns into a freak after a few drinks. it seems prudent to talk this stuff through prior.

2. work out some kind of signal that means "something just happened i don't like and this needs to stop".

based on what you've said in the thread, it sounds like there's no worries about jealousy or "julie" getting the wrong idea about what happens, so that's good.

a threesome is a lot of fun. it's different, at least for me, from how you fantasize about it, in that it's both smaller, yet vastly bigger, than what you imagined. have a blast!

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