Sheaths and such

[oggyoggy]

We have a double question. The wife is very sensitive inside, a result of a very early in life hysterectomy resulting in the thinning in the vaginal walls, this is with estrogen creams and such. Even after prolonged foreplay during which she can get very aroused and wet she may mention pain during sex. Her Dr. says this is common among women with very early hysterectomy's.

Coupled with this is my inability to get a full erection and common premature ejaculation. My Dr. says it's because of my concern about hurting her. Too often she's said that she was close but just didn't get there. I assume it's because of me. She never complains and says she enjoys sex. But I wonder if that's the case when she never orgasms.

I've read that penis sheaths may help me. Most of the ones I've seen are studded with all kinds of "ticklers" and also act as extensions.

My primary concern is hurting her. We've selected and purchased a few sheaths but have not used them. 2 are nubbly and 1 is smooth, both are also extentions to some degree. So, here's our questions for those with experience.

1. Can or do the nubs and bumps cause pain? Yes we use a lot of lube because she usually needs it.
2. Does a sheath help prolong an erection or help support a "soft on" enough for a woman to enjoy herself?

I know there will inevitably be the "you just have to try and find out" replies. However... anyone with experience and their thoughts?

Thanks,
OggyOggy

 

[suckonsimon]

I'm not persuaded a sheath is the answer, for you or for her. I would suggest that if you do something to enable you to sport a really confident erection, then you can be deliciously slow with penetration and with all that follows. That could be medication or herbal equivalent, or it could be a cockring, or both. Really dreamy movement might mean the pain doesn't kick in for her, and you last a lot longer.

 

[LauraWilling]

Suckonsimon, makes sense as for your part and how you do it. I don't think a sheath is the answer. I had a hysterectomy at a very early age (18) The nubby sheaths hurt me and I won't let a man use them with me.

I use plenty of lubrication even though I had a tendency to be a bit more wet, than one would normally expect. I don't know the best answer, but I can only speak for myself. I feel like I have gotten used to the feeling of a man inside me and it does not hurt any more. I fact it hasn't in years and I have been with more men than I probably should have. Now I am just very sensitive, but it feels good. I usually do not have any problem having an orgasm or multiple ones, but that also depends on the man I am with. I guy who just jumps on e with little or no foreplay, and then gets off and rolls over is not going to work for me at all, but I think that is true for most of use with guys who don't pay enough attention to us in bed. Sorry guys.