Sharing who's idea was it..

[jamper1957]

This is to all of you that share your mate. Who's idea was it to start sharing your lady or man with others ? I have always wanted to share my wife but she will have nothing to do with it and I must respect her feeling on that I just wounder who and how you got started ?

 

[mikendel]

It was my fantasy and I told her about it. I always said bet my friends think you are hot and they would have sex with you. At first is was "your crazy and they don't think I am hot" Then she did notice that my friends looked at her and would flirt. The finally after a few years said said ok. 20 years later she cant get enough sex.

 

[jamper1957]

Your a lucky man. That to was always my desire but unlike your wife mine never gave into the idea, but life is what it is.

 

[screwher]

Both

It was my wife's idea (of sorts) to start sharing her. But it was my idea to keep it going. The two other men that my wife dropped her panties for we're guys she was cheating with. Without my knowledge or approval. But after the second I gave her my blessing to continue. I can't wait for the third guy. Then fourth...fifth...

 

[CindyCD478]

We both grew up with parents who were swingers, so it just came natural for us to be part of the lifestyle.

 

[Samisstout]

My wife's sorta . We were texting about sex and I asked her to plan a naughty night so she asked me to role play the part of another man ... I asked her and quickly she texted back my best friend tom

 

[Arianne6947]

Hubby brought it up when we first started dating and I figured if that's what he wants, ok I'll give it a try, since then either of us might suggest it but usually it's him

 

[Eliphaz]

I had a gf who used to also sleep with a (female) mutual friend. When we started dating more seriously I sent her off occasionally for a night with our friend, because I knew they both enjoyed it and I didn't foresee any problems. So it all just sort of worked out and set the context for future adventures.

 

[blowit]

I had a gf who used to also sleep with a (female) mutual friend. When we started dating more seriously I sent her off occasionally for a night with our friend, because I knew they both enjoyed it and I didn't foresee any problems. So it all just sort of worked out and set the context for future adventures.

I would also be very happy for my wife to have a girlfriend. She wants to but is too scared to go for it.

 

[Green_Knight]

Many, many years ago, my girlfriend of the time sent her best friend into my bedroom while I was still in bed. BF stripped off, jumped in and... well, one thing led to another, as you might expect.

I never really found out why she did it and we split up a few months later. One guess is that she was looking for an excuse to end the relationship. Another is that she was fairly adventurous and thought she could handle it but discovered she couldn't.

 

[Luvtoeat11]

This is to all of you that share your mate. Who's idea was it to start sharing your lady or man with others ? I have always wanted to share my wife but she will have nothing to do with it and I must respect her feeling on that I just wounder who and how you got started ?

Totally my idea. We were very young when we married. I started thinking about showing her off in public then began to fantasize about other men seeing her naked and then my thoughts went to her actually fucking other men. I began to hint about it in bed. Finally I told her I would like her to fuck another guy. She asked "are you sure?" and I said I thought I was. She said "we'll see". Two or three weeks later, she did and continued doing it for nearly 20 years!

 

[DewMee]

Being that my husband met me while I was the center of attention at a bukkake, he knew what he was getting. He does like to share me with his friends, especially after I have been out with others first.

 

[JackOffer]

With my late first wife it was pretty much a given. We both grew up having sex with our bi, swinger parents and we met when she walked in on me fucking her then boyfriend. I met my current wife when she and her late husband moved in next door shortly after my first wife passed. They invited me over and we had a great three-way that evening.

 

[Larkfield61]

We had only been married a couple of months when my wife discovered there was a wife swapping group on the housing estate where we lived, we talked about it for a month or so but once she made up her mind she wanted to join l was happy.
We stayed in that group for 20 years, indulged in all sorts of activities, then suddenly she had a complete change of personality, refused to take part in the group and after a while stopped sex with me completely, it's now over 15 years since we've had sex so l find it elsewhere.

 

[JackOffer]

We had only been married a couple of months when my wife discovered there was a wife swapping group on the housing estate where we lived, we talked about it for a month or so but once she made up her mind she wanted to join l was happy.
We stayed in that group for 20 years, indulged in all sorts of activities, then suddenly she had a complete change of personality, refused to take part in the group and after a while stopped sex with me completely, it's now over 15 years since we've had sex so l find it elsewhere.

Too bad you are so far away. We would be happy to have you join us.

 

[littlecordelera]

I've known since high school that I would never be monogamous. I've been honest about that with every guy I've ever dated.

 

[peter99jackson]

It was me that broached the subject of sharing my Wife . She couldn't believe it at first but we brought the fantasy into the bedroom and she started to get quite excited by the idea . I think that she wanted to meet someone but just couldn't go ahead with it . I arranged a meeting without her knowledge and things went very well . The Guy spent the night with us and after that first experience she couldn't get enough of it . We are still sharing .

 

[peter99jackson]

Hubby's idea that he would like to share me. Sometimes a wife just has to do whatever is necessary. Take one for the team, so to speak.

Were you shocked when Hubby first broached the subject and were you happy to go along with it or did you need to be persuaded ?.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny & Dollie

This is to all of you that share your mate. Who's idea was it to start sharing your lady or man with others ? I have always wanted to share my wife but she will have nothing to do with it and I must respect her feeling on that I just wounder who and how you got started ?

Actually it was me and my school girlfriends fucking my husband for over five years when we first married. I'd say no everytime he asked me about another man.

It was my fantasy and I told her about it. I always said bet my friends think you are hot and they would have sex with you. At first is was "your crazy and they don't think I am hot" Then she did notice that my friends looked at her and would flirt. The finally after a few years said said ok. 20 years later she cant get enough sex.

I'd tried for years to get my wife to fuck other men. It was only fair since she was the one that had her female friends fucking me. But it took many more years before she went all the way.

Totally my idea. We were very young when we married. I started thinking about showing her off in public then began to fantasize about other men seeing her naked and then my thoughts went to her actually fucking other men. I began to hint about it in bed. Finally I told her I would like her to fuck another guy. She asked "are you sure?" and I said I thought I was. She said "we'll see". Two or three weeks later, she did and continued doing it for nearly 20 years!

We went thru all of that. Except my wife never gave in for many years to fucking. Strangely men were finger fucking and fondling her tits a short time after I was begging her to get fucked.

Hubby's idea that he would like to share me. Sometimes a wife just has to do whatever is necessary. Take one for the team, so to speak.

I was way to old yet had many men do everything but fuck me. I had a secret and was afraid. This and a few other porn sites after we got older made me see it's normal and if I don't do it soon I'll never get to feel another man fucking me. That was over five years ago and I'm still at it with my husband always there to cheer us on.
Now I feel bad I didn't listen to him many years ago. Our love hasn't changed. Actually it may be stronger. I was never jealous of all the women he had before and he loves watching me now. In fact we think I've passed him long ago having sex with others.

 

[peter99jackson]

Yes...very happy to oblige and help fulfill his fantasy. I get that it's not for everybody, but it works for us.

Its been great for us also and still is .

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Dollie

Yes...very happy to oblige and help fulfill his fantasy. I get that it's not for everybody, but it works for us.

I have married lovers with wives who we visit yet they know nothing about our sex games. Some of them are swingers but only go to clubs.
I complain they keep it a secret but understand that some women get upset and jealous. Mostly we find me single men, usually older men who's wife has died or wives that are dead to sex.
I was already so used to being nude and played with that finally giving in to intercourse wasn't that difficult. My old secret worried me.

 

[gtnlynn]

We were talking about her having sex with others when we were dating in college. When she found out it was okay with me, she asked how I would feel if she had sex with somebody else now. That got the discussion started, so I suppose she suggested it.

 

[Mqoi]

I told my ex that I was bi before we got married. Shortly after she told me of her experiences with two guys at the same time before we got married. So we went on a secluded camping trip and invited one of our male friends that was single. A few beers, skinny dipping and it wasn't long before the MMF was in high gear.

 

[SissySalina]

Hers, right after She put sissy into permanent chastity.

 

[Cookies1988]

This is to all of you that share your mate. Who's idea was it to start sharing your lady or man with others ? I have always wanted to share my wife but she will have nothing to do with it and I must respect her feeling on that I just wounder who and how you got started ?

It was kind of a odd coincidence for us. We both had exes we were close to kind of come back into our lives and the question of sex came up. We talked about it and thought it might be kind of a fun change and did it and then told each other about it and then we had better sex then we had had in awhile. We kind of went from there and ended up basically just declaring sex as a fun thing we each do with each other or others and it's made our marriage better in my opinion.