sharing a young girlfriend for the first time

[rowpeter]

Sharing in a loving way is one of the most exciting forms of sex but it is important that the girl feels loved and protected at all times.

 

[Chicklet]

you want a story written about this?

 

[Guest]

 

[Axeltheswede]

sharing young girlfriend

I am assuming early college years for characters. It is hard to imagine a young man sharing his girlfriend as anything but a control/power display. Even among close friends, the maturity level is missing to make the dynamic plausible that it would be anything else.

But, what about turning it around? Would it be possible for a young woman to share her boyfriend? In the context of the woman exploring her dominant inclinations, could it work as a story? Or, are young women just too competitive to allow something like that to happen?

I am interested in hearing what Chicklet and Emerald Eyed and other women have to say on this question.

 

[MasterDJs_pet]

Is this a story idea or a discussion on young adults swinging?

 

[Guest]

Re: sharing young girlfriend

 

[Axeltheswede]

sharing young girlfriend

I am trying to come up with a reasonable scenario for a decent "First Times" story.

Two young women away at college, long time best friends. One is in a serious relationship. The other is an inexperienced virgin wanting to satisfy her sexual curiosity. Her solo attempts to lose her virginity have been frustrating failures.

Experienced friend offers to share boyfriend in a threesome where much consideration is given the virgin's lack of experience.

Would jealousy and insecurity prevent an offer like that?

 

[Chicklet]

Sharing...

I once shared my boyfriend with someone, although I don't know if it was exactly that kind of situation...we had a threesome and they ended up going off without me. At the time, I had mixed feelings about it; after all, I was there and I wanted her too. But later, when they started doing things when I wasn't around, it got to be too much. I would never share my boyfriend in any way ever again.

Chicklet

 

[penguindance]

 

[Pervert]

I've had a few grilfriends that have told me it turns them on for their friends to want my cock. One showed it to a couple of her girlfriends and even her sister once. I've had girls say they wish they could have my dick to fuck their friends with.

 

[Axeltheswede]

sharing young girlfriend

Thanks for the ideas and perspectives.

Seems like the believability rests with the relationship between the two women. The experienced one has to be secure with the boyfriend. The inexperienced one has to appreciate the fact of the boyfriend being shared, not given.

I am going to write it based on that premise.

 

[Guest]

Re: sharing young girlfriend

 

[dankei]

I have never shared but I have thought of it many times and had girlfriends with who I discussed these things while having sex. I'm quite sure that I could share a woman, with either another man or another woman, if we were only sexual partner (fuck buddies or friends with benefits) but it would be more difficult if it was someone that I loved. In that case, if she really got turned on by the idea, I would be more apt to go along with it if it was with someone that we knew somewhat, but didn't live real near by. Why? I don't know it just feels like a good way to start that sort of thing.

Now this only applies to a situation that was planned. If we were out one night and things just sort of happened well I'm pretty sure that I could get caught up in the excitement of the moment.

 

[Guest]

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Now this only applies to a situation that was planned. If we were out one night and things just sort of happened well I'm pretty sure that I could get caught up in the excitement of the moment.

Don't! Planned sharing is one thing, but waking up the next morning with a friend's girl in your bed and the certain knowledge that he is going to regret a drink-enhanced generosity when he wakes up alone is hell.
The scenes later on are hell also.

 

[dankei]

Don't! Planned sharing is one thing, but waking up the next morning with a friend's girl in your bed and the certain knowledge that he is going to regret a drink-enhanced generosity when he wakes up alone is hell.
The scenes later on are hell also.

Of course you're right but I wasn't necessarily thinking about drinks and such. I have had many sexual encounters with women, where it wasn't planned or even thought of until a short time before the encounter, and there was no alcohol involved. I was mainly thinking of a situation when the three or four of you are just sitting around and the conversation turns to sex and then the flirting starts and the innuendoes and before you know it things get taken to the next level.