shallow people

[Willing and Unsure]

i really dont like them... especially when they seem interested and everything before you meet them face to face.... and then they seem extremely disinterested when you meet them.

 

[MysteryJKR]

*hugs* maybe there just shy or something and needa relax and cool down and all of that. especially if its the first time meeting. Even if youve spoken to them countless times it still happens.


Least I deffinatly know it would be for me. But i dunno your situation hun so I dont think im any help. *shrugs*

 

[Laurel]

Oh, I dig em.



hehe




just kidding. Shallow people suck.

 

[bluntforcemama]

I know how you feel about that. You always wonder if they have ulterior motives, because you think that no one can REALLY be that twinkie.

 

[Always]

je despise!

i hate shallow people. i reeeeeaaaaaaally do.

 

[Renegade]

Yeah, I also have a real problem against shallow people that judge people by certain things like looks or their background. But then, in a way, isn't me not liking shallow people shallow in it's own way? Where's that oxymoron thread??

 

[Never]

I have never met a 'shallow' person. Human beings wear masks and shallowness is simply one of them.

I have a theory, you don't know someone until you've listened to them for one hundred hours. No, not talked with them, listened. It literally takes that long before most people can get through all the pre-scripted bullshow and garbage that tells them that if they say something 'wrong' you'll think they're weird and show themselves their real selves.

I've done this over and over and I can promise you, I have never met a shallow person.

 

[rambling man]

love them or hate them, they outnumber us..they elect our leaders, honestly they could have us killed

 

[Guest]

I have met many shallow people. Some who hide it... some who flaunt it like its one of the worlds greatest things to be.

I can say from my point of view... that I have never been shallow.... but I am sure that someone will say that at one time I was..... because thats just how people are.

Different people see different things.....


and I don't hate anyone. Hate is too harsh of a word. I may not like someone..... or not like their actions. But no one deserves to be hated.

 

[scylis]

Shallow people suck.

and deep people blow!!

 

[rambling man]

if shallow people suck..maybe they are not so bad to keep around

i agree that if you dig deep enough, no one is really shallow...however, many people apply shallow ideals and values to how they deal with people and the world..they dont make the effort to be deeper..that is what is unattractive about them

 

[Guest]

It just all goes to show that people are judged by their actions. Some just take everything at face value. Ya never know... maybe its worth it to dig deeper.

 

[rambling man]

Maybe sometimes it doesn't even take time...for instance someone, maybe a famous person or even a waiter, anyone I guess, they are rude when you encounter them or seem ill-tempered...a shallow person assumes they are an asshole then and all the time....a deeper person considers that they may just be having a rough day and that you should not rush to judgement about them...

society is shallow in general because it values apparent beauty over anything..two instances...

Princess Diana, who did very little in reality in her life died at the same time as Mother Theresa...who got more attention?

Jon Benet Ramsey was killed one the same day that stray bullets killed a little black girl the same age in downtown Baltimore....who did the Baltimore station cover in more detail...thats right, the beauty queen a thousand miles away

sometimes that kind of shit makes me so nauseated and a little sad for people

 

[april-wine]

hmmmm have met alot of shallow people....looking around, even some on this board....but i gotta say WU.....you are not one of them......hugs......chow

 

[Guest]

Thats because the glam get more coverage...... Little people don't matter to the big media companies......


Its all about 'sell sell sell'

 

[april-wine]

Thats because the glam get more coverage...... Little people don't matter to the big media companies......


Its all about 'sell sell sell'

true enough jaded........sad but true........hugssssssssss

 

[Guest]

Willing...

I missed ya.


Just don't let people get to you. If you like who you are.... to hell with everyone who doesn't.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

society is shallow in general because it values apparent beauty over anything

that's mainly what i'm talking about... the whole beauty issue.. i met someone from the internet in real life, and he treated me a bit different when we met (which is understandable with the possibility of being nervous and all).. but, when we chat online now.. he still tends to treat me differently than he did before we met... so i can only assume that the person is shallow..

Its all about 'sell sell sell'

i think it's rather unfortunate for ourselves as human beings that everything is about selling something. i dont like knowing that someday, i'll have kids and have to do my best to teach them that selling themselves (as in their body) is not what they should do... but be themselves, which i have found at times is one of the hardest things to do.


btw... thanx april-wine *hugs back*... and thanx jaded

 

[april-wine]

you are welcome....WU........

 

[Guest]

What I love is .....

after you meet them...... and say.... well they intended for something to happen that didn't happen..... they drop you like a hot cake cuz thats the only thing they were really interested in to begin with.

Gotta love people like that.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

i know what you mean jadedpast... and that's kind of how i feel right now about the whole thing even though nothing has been said like that. it really ticks me off more than anything right now, but i guess there's nothing i can do about it except complain (which i'm through doin now)

 

[CW]

i really dont like them... especially when they seem interested and everything before you meet them face to face.... and then they seem extremely disinterested when you meet them.

Maybe he/she is a chaser and is only interested in tha chase? Really has no idea what to do when the chase appears to be over?