sexy talk with wife

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if you have told your wife/gf you are bi or at least bi curious what have you said to her and how did she take it? how did she reply.

I have mentioned it and she liked it. I am thinking we are soon to rekindle that flame and I will re-mention sucking cock. I think I will even call the guy, "her bf" not sure about that.

Sometimes, with me at least, I think I can get to carried away with hot talk and later (after cumming) think "did I go to far???"
 
if you have told your wife/gf you are bi or at least bi curious what have you said to her and how did she take it? how did she reply.

I have mentioned it and she liked it. I am thinking we are soon to rekindle that flame and I will re-mention sucking cock. I think I will even call the guy, "her bf" not sure about that.

Sometimes, with me at least, I think I can get to carried away with hot talk and later (after cumming) think "did I go to far???"

I told her I have some bi experiences while dating...she later found out my bbc fetish.

She cool with helping me role play fantasy wise once in awhile but no more than that so far. I'm cool with that right now as it's hot as fuck.
 
I told her I have some bi experiences while dating...she later found out my bbc fetish.

She cool with helping me role play fantasy wise once in awhile but no more than that so far. I'm cool with that right now as it's hot as fuck.

Mine would just freak out ....
 
yeah, I thought our dating was gonna end , but once she heard me out and realized I wasn't gay and trying to hide it, we worked through it.

We've talked about other people in general and she's not into it. I like her pussy way to much to risk losing it.
 
We've talked about other people in general and she's not into it. I like her pussy way to much to risk losing it.

yeah, likewise for me...I'm happily monogamous and wouldn't act on it which is cool as I've had my share of fun in past.

The role play fantasy play is enough when it happens. We have fun with it.
 
We've talked about other people in general and she's not into it. I like her pussy way to much to risk losing it.

That's my situation also, discussed various sexual acts occasionally and she's dead against them. I can't risk it, I'll settle for eating pussy every few weeks.
 
In all the years we did 'sexy talk' it was all hetero - cuz I was as is she. I was discovering my bi side at the same time as for health reasons my good woman had to give up having sex, which is where we are at now.

I know she feels bad about not giving me satisfaction anymore. But I haven't told her I have discovered the pleasures on no strings sex with men. I want to. I hope the occasion arises when I can.
 
When we were together awhile at first I told my wife I sucked cock when I was a teen. That led to me eating my cum from her after I came in her. She expected it every time. She didn't want me sucking cock after we were married but she did always want me to tell her everything my buddy and I did. I just wished she would of let me suck a cock for her.
 
Pillow talk

Always makes her crazy and extra wet . She knows of one time I have done it.
 
I was open about my gay experiences with my first wife from the beginning, and it eventually backfired on me. She told everyone, including my parents.
My current wife has strong suspicions. She's found my porn files, which have a lot of hard cocks, trannies, twinks and sissies. And she knows I comfortable around her gay friends. She knows I've lived in gay friendly areas. But I doubt she'd be OK with me having gay sex.
 
same here

yeah, likewise for me...I'm happily monogamous and wouldn't act on it which is cool as I've had my share of fun in past.

The role play fantasy play is enough when it happens. We have fun with it.

that is about it for me. cheating is bad and also to risky. Sexy talk can be a lot of fun.
 
trust issues

I was open about my gay experiences with my first wife from the beginning, and it eventually backfired on me. She told everyone, including my parents.
My current wife has strong suspicions. She's found my porn files, which have a lot of hard cocks, trannies, twinks and sissies. And she knows I comfortable around her gay friends. She knows I've lived in gay friendly areas. But I doubt she'd be OK with me having gay sex.

I have trust issues with everything and everyone. My wife and I broke up for about a year way way back before we got married. I am sure her family knows all about my drug use and things I did outside of str8 sex. No one has ever said anything to me so who knows.
 
I told my wife shortly after we met. She was/is totally turned on by it. We've done lots of 3 ways, she has watched me suck cock, she has jacked guys off in my mouth, I've eaten cum from her pussy while she tells me about the big cock that just fucked her. And, she has done me with strap-ons. All very hot and uninhibited.
 
Sounds like fun.

I don't think I'd be ready to go that far, but I wish our sex life was more open. I'd give anything to watch my wife have sex with another woman. I know she'd love it if she gave it a try. She has a close friend, younger and with big tits, who I'd love to see them have sex together

And I'd gladly, eagerly suck cock while she watches, or while I watch her eat pussy and enjoy being eaten by a woman.
 
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I've never been married but I did tell the last female I was in a relationship with. She was fine with it as long as I was discrete and kept to the one partner. She had no desire to join us but did like to hear what I had got up to and saw some pics of me with my FWB.
 
Telling wife

I told my wife I thought I had become bi. That led to about a month of further discussion. After that month she told me she was OK with me having sex with men as long as I was open about it. Soon thereafter I sucked cock for the first time. I knew it would not be the last.

My wife and I continued to have sex. In fact it became more frequent, but it changed. Her orgasm became primary, and she preferred to have me give her oral sex. After she came, often more than once, she would give me a hand job or have me masturbate. I was ok with that.
 
wow, lucky man you are

I told my wife shortly after we met. She was/is totally turned on by it. We've done lots of 3 ways, she has watched me suck cock, she has jacked guys off in my mouth, I've eaten cum from her pussy while she tells me about the big cock that just fucked her. And, she has done me with strap-ons. All very hot and uninhibited.


jacking off guys into your mouth is super hot
 
also very hot, you are a lucky man

I told my wife I thought I had become bi. That led to about a month of further discussion. After that month she told me she was OK with me having sex with men as long as I was open about it. Soon thereafter I sucked cock for the first time. I knew it would not be the last.

My wife and I continued to have sex. In fact it became more frequent, but it changed. Her orgasm became primary, and she preferred to have me give her oral sex. After she came, often more than once, she would give me a hand job or have me masturbate. I was ok with that.

I don't think my wife would go for that, but you never know. She could have her fun too.
 
Does she feed u

I told my wife I thought I had become bi. That led to about a month of further discussion. After that month she told me she was OK with me having sex with men as long as I was open about it. Soon thereafter I sucked cock for the first time. I knew it would not be the last.

My wife and I continued to have sex. In fact it became more frequent, but it changed. Her orgasm became primary, and she preferred to have me give her oral sex. After she came, often more than once, she would give me a hand job or have me masturbate. I was ok with that.

Your cum
 
It took many years for us to evolve to where we are today.
Hubby was a bra collector when we started dating.
When first married, he would wear my bras when I wasn't home. I wasn't always supportive but step by step I would accept. Then he would open more.

He has his gurl persona and we have gone out a few times. He is not 100% passable, but tries hard.

One day at a time, we have evolved to MMF, XXX theater cum groups, and have in mind our next fetish fantasy.

Wish us luck.
 
It took many years for us to evolve to where we are today.
Hubby was a bra collector when we started dating.
When first married, he would wear my bras when I wasn't home. I wasn't always supportive but step by step I would accept. Then he would open more.

He has his gurl persona and we have gone out a few times. He is not 100% passable, but tries hard.

One day at a time, we have evolved to MMF, XXX theater cum groups, and have in mind our next fetish fantasy.

Wish us luck.

I totally think my wife would flip. She would definitely would not be supportive. At least thats what i was thinking. Any tips on how to sway her thought process?
 
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