Sexy Dom Jobs

[YourCaptor]

So I’ve been thinking about taking up a mini career. Something to do for the next 10 years or so. An awesome pre family sort of career with high dom/sexy/coolness factors.

I’ve been thinking about doing the EMT thing, eventually paramedic if I stick with it.

Please rate said job, or any you think fits the bill, on the following attributes, with a scale of one to ten, ten being most like the attribute.

1 – 10 total dom job
1 – 10 sexy job
1 – 10 the coolness

Also feel free to add whatever fits.

 

[JMohegan]

It's undomly to worry about whether you're cool enough or not.

If the job makes you feel confident, satisfied with the fruits of your labor, and in as much control of your destiny as can reasonably be expected, then I'd say you've got the rest of it covered.

 

[sweepthefloor]

I have a fondness for first responders. I think it's a cool job. There is an aspect of decision making involved, and I do find that sexy, but any Paramedic will tell you: The back of the band-aid box is not sexy at all. Unless of course I am strapped down to the stretcher, but that has never been the case!

 

[Stella_Omega]

I find a lot of BDSM folk end up in jobs that directly contribute to health and happiness in concrete physical immediate ways-- medical, social services, and the like. Furthermore-- and this is an utterly unsupported theory-- the higher up in those types of jobs a person is, the less likely they are to be players in BDSm. You'll find RNs in D/s, but not brain surgeons. I think.

 

[Pelagie]

That's an interesting theory, Stella. Now I'm tempted to start a survey among my coworkers.

 

[Stella_Omega]

That's an interesting theory, Stella. Now I'm tempted to start a survey among my coworkers.

Please do! I am as happy to have my theory disproven as proven, you know. It's all for science.

 

[DVS]

That's an interesting theory, Stella. Now I'm tempted to start a survey among my coworkers.

I might be getting a job as security in a hospital. That could be interesting...me with handcuffs and sexy submissive nurses all around. That is, if Stella is correct.

 

[HottieMama]

I find a lot of BDSM folk end up in jobs that directly contribute to health and happiness in concrete physical immediate ways-- medical, social services, and the like. Furthermore-- and this is an utterly unsupported theory-- the higher up in those types of jobs a person is, the less likely they are to be players in BDSm. You'll find RNs in D/s, but not brain surgeons. I think.

True for me and where I work... The "highest level" kinky person I work with is an anesthesiologist...at least that I know of.

 

[DVS]

I find a lot of BDSM folk end up in jobs that directly contribute to health and happiness in concrete physical immediate ways-- medical, social services, and the like. Furthermore-- and this is an utterly unsupported theory-- the higher up in those types of jobs a person is, the less likely they are to be players in BDSm. You'll find RNs in D/s, but not brain surgeons. I think.

Brain surgeons have seen, up front and personal, what this lifestyle can do to your brain. They know to stay away.

 

[YourCaptor]

I have a fondness for first responders. I think it's a cool job. There is an aspect of decision making involved, and I do find that sexy, but any Paramedic will tell you: The back of the band-aid box is not sexy at all. Unless of course I am strapped down to the stretcher, but that has never been the case!

So 10 on the coolness, 7 on sexy. How about the dom factor?

 

[YourCaptor]

Furthermore-- and this is an utterly unsupported theory-- the higher up in those types of jobs a person is, the less likely they are to be players in BDSm. You'll find RNs in D/s, but not brain surgeons. I think.

I'd have to disagree and would say this is a heuristic bias.

Say 10% of a population is kinky, and you meet 100 RNs to every 1 brain surgeon. You'll have greater chances of meeting more kinky RNs than brain surgeons. Also professional appearances and amount of free time play a role.

 

[YourCaptor]

True for me and where I work... The "highest level" kinky person I work with is an anesthesiologist...at least that I know of.

Anesthesiologists are all kinds of fucked up.

 

[YourCaptor]

How about fireman, cop, pilot, chef?

 

[HottieMama]

Anesthesiologists are all kinds of fucked up.

And this one in particular is a real piece of shit...I mean...work...yeah...That's it...

 

[His_pet_slut]

duplicate post. sorry.

 

[His_pet_slut]

I don't get it. What does one's job have to do with how 'domly' you are?

I have interacted with Doms from many different professions. Attorneys, architects, engineers, authors, sales, university professors and medical professionals just off the top of my head.

No amount of sexy uniform, I'm a hero type job can make a dom out of someone that isn't....and never make the assumption that average joe that is an accountant is some sort of milque toast passive nerd.

just my .02 worth...

 

[YourCaptor]

I don't get it. What does one's job have to do with how 'domly' you are?

I have interacted with Doms from many different professions. Attorneys, architects, engineers, authors, sales, university professors and medical professionals just off the top of my head.

No amount of sexy uniform, I'm a hero type job can make a dom out of someone that isn't....and never make the assumption that average joe that is an accountant is some sort of milque toast passive nerd.

just my .02 worth...

Not how domly the person is, how domly the job is.

 

[Vixandra]

I was a medic in the Air Force and worked as a dispatcher here in California for 2.5 years after I got out. While there are many positive aspects of that career field, there are lot of negative ones.


New EMT's and medics start at the very end of the shift-bidding process. So you get the craptastic shift at an odd time, usually nights. That changes over time but initially, hope you like nights. Or you can get a "good" shift with a medic that makes you want to claw your eyes out, I've seen both happen.

There is nothing sexy, domly or otherwise "cool" about being covered in vomit, blood and who knows what else. Especially if you've already made one uniform change that night already. BLS transport rigs usually aren't that messy (the main exception being 5150's). 911-responding ALS rigs (paramedic on board) run the gamut of easy "sniffles" calls to the downright horrific. Working a nurse or Critical Care Transport rig is either boring as hell or very busy, depending on location and other factors.

One of the scariest calls I remember sending a crew to was for an accident on the 15 freeway. It was around 2 am, two vehicles involved, only one with serious injuries. The ambulance crew and firefighters followed correct vehicle placements to protect the patients and themselves. They had the injured patient on a backboard and were about to lift her/him onto the gurney when a drunk driver changed everything. The drunk driver swerved around the firetruck and ambulance, ran over the patient, hit two firefighters and nearly took out the medic as well. Those firefighters were friends with the ambulance crew, they'd run so many calls together they were buddies, grabbed lunch together when possible. The other two ambulances in the area I sent after the medic told me what happened over the radio were also friends with the firefighters involved. The professionalism that medic and the rest of my crews showed stayed with me from that call. The medic was a little shaky but kept his calm and did what needed doing. That's the kind of guts and professionalism that makes for a good ambulance crew member.

I write this not to try to change your mind. There were a lot of very rewarding experiences, both when I worked as a military medic and what I saw working for the ambulance company. But those good experiences aren't the ones that haunt you, that show your mettle. If you decide to become a paramedic you'll see some of the best and worst sides of humanity from heroics to child-abusing monsters.

To answer your direct question, no, I don't see an EMT, Paramedic, Para-magic (medic that thinks he's God's gift to EMS), firefighter or anyone else as automatically "dom" type material. Lots of kink in the field (and OMG dispatch!) but nothing automatic. Lots of nasty and stupid, too (like people having sex in the ambulance and then being dumb enough to post on Facebook about it). It'd be a cool job for a dom to have, I suppose, and medics are handy to have around if something goes wrong.

 

[YourCaptor]

I was a medic in the Air Force and worked as a dispatcher here in California for 2.5 years after I got out. While there are many positive aspects of that career field, there are lot of negative ones.


New EMT's and medics start at the very end of the shift-bidding process. So you get the craptastic shift at an odd time, usually nights. That changes over time but initially, hope you like nights. Or you can get a "good" shift with a medic that makes you want to claw your eyes out, I've seen both happen.

There is nothing sexy, domly or otherwise "cool" about being covered in vomit, blood and who knows what else. Especially if you've already made one uniform change that night already. BLS transport rigs usually aren't that messy (the main exception being 5150's). 911-responding ALS rigs (paramedic on board) run the gamut of easy "sniffles" calls to the downright horrific. Working a nurse or Critical Care Transport rig is either boring as hell or very busy, depending on location and other factors.

One of the scariest calls I remember sending a crew to was for an accident on the 15 freeway. It was around 2 am, two vehicles involved, only one with serious injuries. The ambulance crew and firefighters followed correct vehicle placements to protect the patients and themselves. They had the injured patient on a backboard and were about to lift her/him onto the gurney when a drunk driver changed everything. The drunk driver swerved around the firetruck and ambulance, ran over the patient, hit two firefighters and nearly took out the medic as well. Those firefighters were friends with the ambulance crew, they'd run so many calls together they were buddies, grabbed lunch together when possible. The other two ambulances in the area I sent after the medic told me what happened over the radio were also friends with the firefighters involved. The professionalism that medic and the rest of my crews showed stayed with me from that call. The medic was a little shaky but kept his calm and did what needed doing. That's the kind of guts and professionalism that makes for a good ambulance crew member.

I write this not to try to change your mind. There were a lot of very rewarding experiences, both when I worked as a military medic and what I saw working for the ambulance company. But those good experiences aren't the ones that haunt you, that show your mettle. If you decide to become a paramedic you'll see some of the best and worst sides of humanity from heroics to child-abusing monsters.

To answer your direct question, no, I don't see an EMT, Paramedic, Para-magic (medic that thinks he's God's gift to EMS), firefighter or anyone else as automatically "dom" type material. Lots of kink in the field (and OMG dispatch!) but nothing automatic. Lots of nasty and stupid, too (like people having sex in the ambulance and then being dumb enough to post on Facebook about it). It'd be a cool job for a dom to have, I suppose, and medics are handy to have around if something goes wrong.

Hey thanks for the in depth info.

I know it is a messy job. I can handle fluids and stuff that is suppose to be on the inside being outside, especially so I think if it were my job. Innocent bystanders are a fact of life, which is one of the reason I want to get into it, to help them. What freaks me out the most is contagions. I need to to have a chat about that with my doc before I make a move. If you can tell me any more about that risk factor I would really appreciate it.

I think hours would actually favor me. I have a hard time keeping a 24 hour clock. I'm more of a 48 hour dude.

I think it would be a challenge, and not solely mental like most things, I think it's a foundational role in any good society, and I think it would be very rewarding to help people who really need you.



The dom jobs question. I don't expect to become domly from the work, I think I'm already pretty fuckin domly in case yall haven't noticed.

I guess what I'm asking is, does this job provide any perks with the subbies? Does it induce oos and awes?

 

[Stella_Omega]

I might be getting a job as security in a hospital. That could be interesting...me with handcuffs and sexy submissive nurses all around. That is, if Stella is correct.

I've met as many domme RNs as sub RNs, and most RNs seem to be pretty toppish regardless of D/s inclinations.

I guess what I'm asking is, does this job provide any perks with the subbies? Does it induce oos and awes?

Yes, in my opinion, it does-- and with women, too.

 

[His_pet_slut]

Sorry if I offended. I guess after spending 20+ years working in the medical field I have just seen far too many EMT/Paramedics that got into the field for all the wrong reasons and it shows. It also endangers others. I don't take well to hearing something like this as the basis for making it a career choice. It is dealing with people's lives.

 

[YourCaptor]

Sorry if I offended. I guess after spending 20+ years working in the medical field I have just seen far too many EMT/Paramedics that got into the field for all the wrong reasons and it shows. It also endangers others. I don't take well to hearing something like this as the basis for making it a career choice. It is dealing with people's lives.

No offending. I know what you're saying and I totally agree. I've had my dealings with some doctors and nurses with not so great motives.

I also wont be basing my decision on this, though chicks are a perk. Chicks are always a perk.

It's just a fun kinda thread, to see what other things are out there.

 

[DVS]

I've met as many domme RNs as sub RNs, and most RNs seem to be pretty toppish regardless of D/s inclinations.

Yes, in my opinion, it does-- and with women, too.

I've remembered more than one RN that seemed to enjoy giving me a shot.

 

[kiwi_submissive]

I think a pilot is a good Domly job. They get to tell people when to put their seatbelts on and when to take them off

 

[Cattypuss]

Male barristers definitely bring out the sub in me.